Terry Oakes Obituary
Age 61, of Berwyn, passed away Wednesday, December 3rd, 2025 at Palos Community Hospital in Palos Heights.
Terry is survived by his loving family, children, Joseph (Kayla) Oakes, Holly (Nick Smith) Oakes, siblings, Tami Buksa, Timmy Oakes, grandchildren, Luna Oakes and Lennon Oakes.
Terry was preceded in death by his parents, Thomas & Elois Oakes (Brown), and sibling Thomas Oakes.
Terry greatly enjoyed music, playing his drums and was an avid Chicago sports fan.
All services and interment are pending at this time.
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