Thomas E. Messmore

Thomas E. Messmore obituary, Bonita Springs, FL

Thomas E. Messmore

Thomas Messmore Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Shikany's Bonita Funeral Home on Apr. 5, 2024.
Beloved family patriarch Thomas E. Messmore passed away on March 30, 2024, in Naples, FL at the age of 78. Born to parents Ellison and Margaret Messmore, Tom grew up in Fairmont, WV with his brother, Scott. He enjoyed becoming an Eagle Scout.
Tom earned a B.S. in Industrial Engineering from West Virginia University, followed by an MBA from Harvard University, as well as the professional designation of Chartered Financial Analyst. He had an impressive career in finance and insurance, specializing in investment and risk management for firms including State Street Bank, Keystone, Travelers, UBS, and Zurich, which ultimately took him overseas to live in Zurich, Switzerland for five years.
Tom lived a full life with his wife, Sharon, and their children and grandchildren. He loved skiing (snow and water), tennis, computer programming, and following the stock market. He relished spending time at his lake house in New Hampshire along with family, friends, and his German shepherd, treating them to countless boat rides-motor, row, sail, and kayak. His ease with math translated into a love of poker and bridge, where he was both a patient teacher and an avid player. A fierce patriot, Tom led dramatic readings of the Declaration of Independence. He served on multiple boards of directors, including Habitat for Humanity (Collier County, FL), the Red Cross (both national and local), as well as Bolduc Park (New Hampshire).
Tom is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Sharon; his daughter Lauren and husband David; his daughter Beth and grandchildren Hugh Thomas, Margaret, and Winston; his son Benjamin, wife Teresa and grandchildren John and Clare; his son William and wife Sarah; and, his beloved nieces and nephews and their families.
A celebration of life will occur at Vanderbilt Presbyterian Church, Naples on Wednesday, April 17 at 10:00 am.
In lieu of flowers please honor Tom with a donation to Collier County Habitat for Humanity or Bolduc Park in Gilford, NH.
To sign his guest register or to leave online condolences please visit www.ShikanyFuneralHome.com.
Arrangements are being handled by Shikany's Bonita Funeral Home Family Owned and Operated Since 1978.

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Kathy Morgan

April 6, 2024

Dear Sharon and family,
We are so sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. We are sending you our love and prayers. We hope that your hearts will soon be filled with many wonderful memories of happy family times together.

Jack and I will always remember the years spent with your family and Newington Hockey. Tom always loved the games and we can picture his enthusiastic comments and smiles as he watched the games! Early morning practices were a favorite of Tom´s, as he and other parents honed their skills in preparation for the yearly parents vs. kids hockey game! He was a force out there on the ice! What fun we all had! He will be missed always.

Love,
Jack and Kathy Morgan

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