Thomas F. Payne

Thomas F. Payne obituary, Townshend, VT

Thomas F. Payne

Thomas Payne Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 6 to Jan. 7, 2023.
Tom Payne, of Orient, NY and Townshend, VT, died on Wednesday, December 28, 2022, at Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital in NYC, of metastatic urothelial cancer. He was 76 years old.

Thomas Frank Payne was born on September 20, 1946, in Brooklyn, NY, to James Randolph Payne and Ardelle May. He grew up on Long Island, in Northport, Douglaston and Manhasset. After graduating from Emporia College in Kansas, after spending his junior year in Mexico City, he taught science and shop at Buckley Country Day School in Roslyn, NY.

Tom was a carpenter, contractor, and life-long tennis player. He worked in many capacities from the late sixties to the end of his life. His specialty was historic restoration, working on Ellis Island, The Statue of Liberty, Plum Island, Conklin House in Babylon, Pinelawn Cemetery and Teddy Roosevelt's Home, Sagamore Hill, in Oyster Bay. He took great pride in his craft and was especially gifted at restoring and improving antique houses, working on Long Island, in Massachusetts and his beloved Vermont. Tom's work reflected his respect for the past. His vision and talent transformed old houses into true homes for new families.

Tom moved to Orient, NY, in 2006 where he and his wife, Amy Worth, opened "The South Street Gallery", an art gallery and framing business in Greenport. He worked on historic restoration projects in Greenport, including restoration of the schoolhouse and the jail.

Tom's first marriage in 1978 ended in divorce. In 1984 he married Karen Callahan. Their daughter, Alexandra, born in 1985, was the joy of his life. He married Amy Worth in 2004. He is survived by his brother, Bert Payne (Lan), nieces Linda Pego (Chris) and Katherine Cardullo, wife, Amy Worth, daughter Alex Paolo (Dominic), grandchildren Desmond and Layla Rose, stepchildren Christopher Worth (Kendra), Emma Milovonovic Worth (Ivan), and Jack Worth (Christine), and six step-grandchildren. Tom's sister, Vicki, and his nephew, Jimmy, predeceased him.

Tom was there, always, for his friends and family. He could be counted on for help, sound advice and support - typically accompanied with humor and sarcastic wit. He was generous with his talent and he proudly passed his knowledge of carpentry on to many of his co-workers and family. Tom was a rock, self-deprecating, hard-working, and giving. His large circle of extended family and friends adored him. "The Old Payne" will be forever missed by his daughter, wife, and countless family members and friends.

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Dena Zemsky

January 16, 2023

Amy I just heard of Tom's passing. My deepest condolences. Dena Zemsky

Rick&Barbara Broderick

January 9, 2023

Dear Amy and family,
Rick and I are so sorry for your loss. Tom was so very special. Although much time has passed since we had spoken to Tom, his smile and kindness will always be a fond memory.
Rick and Barbara Broderick

Cory Mitchell

January 7, 2023

My dear Tom. You will be deeply missed. You were always there for me no matter what even five days after coming out of the hospital. You managed me with your wit, with the two of us always finding a way to laugh our way through things. You were an inspiration to me in your work ethic, your tennis playing, and constant support of your wife at age 76. My entire basement was done by you, now called Tom's Room. You weren't just my handyman. You were my pal. God bless you my pal.

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