Thomas Joseph Rexford, II

Thomas Joseph Rexford, II obituary, Wyandotte, MI

Thomas Joseph Rexford, II

Thomas Rexford, Obituary

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Thomas Joseph Rexford II, age 34 of Wyandotte, passed away Sunday September 2nd, 2018. Loving son of Thomas Rexford and the late Debora Rexford. Tommy, as he was known, was a graduate of Gabriel Richard High School and Grand Valley State University. Tommy was loved by many and a friend to everyone who knew him. He had a passion and knowledge of music that knew no boundaries. Tommy was involved in many local bands. He had a very creative mind and spirit that he used in his job as a project manager for a prominent ad agency in Detroit. Tommy is survived by his father and many relatives and friends who will miss him dearly. He was preceded in death by his mother Debora and his dear Aunt Sandy.

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September 7, 2018

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September 6, 2018

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September 6, 2018

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Kim Anderson

September 7, 2018

Rest in peace Tommy. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends. ❤

Darcy Day

September 6, 2018

I met Tommy through Ron and Shelley. He was always fun to be around and man...could he play drums.
Jammed with Tommy many times and always enjoyed rockin' with him.
I am very sorry to hear of his passing. Gone way too soon.
Loved the time we had together brother!!

Danae Larson

September 6, 2018

I met Tommy through Geoff and Michelle Haney. Had some great nights talking late into the night and into the early morning. Tommy you were just a kind and wonderful person. I always had such a fun time with you and could talk about anything with you. You will be missed by so many.

Pamela Rudich

September 5, 2018

I never met Tommy but I feel like I know him. He was a friend of my daughter from Grand Valley Days and that friendship continued to this day. Ive heard many good things about him over the years and saw many photos of him. My heart aches for you all, his family and friends. The world has lost a great man.. my deepest sympathy..Pam Rudich

Gretchen Vinnedge

September 5, 2018

We will always love you tommy.

Valarie Rhinehart

September 5, 2018

We were so sorry to hear about Tommy's passing. I still think of him as my son's hockey teammate and friend. It is so hard to suffer the early loss of our children. Our prayers are with Tom and his family.

Erin Steigmeyer (Backpack)

September 4, 2018

Tommy was unforgettable. Sincere condolences to all of you.

Keven Krieger

September 4, 2018

There were so many fun filled nights with you Tommy. Two of my absolute favorite memories were you sleeping on a bag of marbles and a dead bee and also Brandon's bachelor party where we sang the ENTIRE national anthem as if we were Aaron Neville. Love you Tommy.

Bridget (Stang) Hernandez

September 3, 2018

From booking bands, comedians and speakers...to the nights of your band playing...to the wild parties and lame nights of just hanging out...I can't look back at GVSU and not think of you Tommy. You were an amazing spirit and so kind to all. I'm thinking of all your family but extra love and prayers to your dad. I know you're reunited with your mom up above, and I pray for you to keep good watch on all of us. We are going to miss you, man.

Karen Stanley-Kime

September 3, 2018

My heartfelt condolences go to Tom's family and friends.

Kristi Maynar

September 3, 2018

I'm so very sorry.

Kristin Letts

September 3, 2018

Tommy, you will be missed more then you would have ever thought. I don't think you know the number of people you have touched over the years. Your heart is golden... you are loved by so many. I have wonderful memories of you over the years. I will keep them close to my heart. I love the picture of you on this page because it shows a side of you that not everyone knew... Your talent was amazing, your knowledge of music, unbelievable. I know you are with your Mom and our savior Jesus Christ and that you are at peace. You're making music up there, that is for sure. That makes me happy. I have been blessed to know you and to call you my friend. I will see you again...

Mr and Mrs P

September 3, 2018

We would like to send our sympathies to the entire Rexford family at this difficult time. Mr. P. and I are very saddened by his passing and will always remember him as a bright, loving, caring, funny and totally lovable "son". We were enriched by his humor and infectious smile and his uncanny way of making us feel special. He will be sorely missed by all the Passalacquas.

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