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Dr. Thomas David Shelton
Dr. Thomas David Shelton
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Tom was a passionate leader for public education and spent his life devoted to Kentucky's public schools, serving students, educators, and communities as a superintendent, statewide education leader, and trusted advocate. All the more, he was a loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather (affectionately titled, "Goggy"), brother, son, and friend.
Tom is survived by his wife, Sharon Hays; his daughters, Abby Shelton Sizemore (Justin), and Audrey Shelton; his granddaughters, Ann-Thomas and Edie Sizemore; his sister, Debbie Shelton Miller; his former wife, Gwen Shelton (Heather Thomsen); and his step-children, Austin England and Grace England.
A visitation and memorial service will be held on Saturday, February 14, 2026 at Calvary Baptist Church, 150 E. High Street, Lexington, KY 40507, and will be officiated by Rev. Justin Sizemore. Visitation will be from 10 AM - 1 PM (Eastern Time), and the service will begin at 1 PM (Eastern Time).
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the United Way of the Bluegrass https://www.uwbg.org/give or Protect our Schools KY https://secure.actblue.com/donate/protect-our-schools-ky-2.
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Eve Proffitt
February 11, 2026
Audrey and Abby, your father demonstrated all the characteristics of the epitome of a professional educator. He shared not only his education skills but also his religious beliefs which were deep. He absolutely loved his two girls and would always update me on both, but especially Audrey, who I knew through Beth Fox. We will miss his profound influence as an advocate but also his humor and enjoyment of jazz. Deepest condolences to all and my prayers as you move through this period of time.
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Carole Peters
February 10, 2026
What a shock to hear of Tom's passing this week. We met through his work at the United Way in fall and I was so thankful to connect with him in person at the United Way ALICE Summit in FL in January. Immediately, I knew Tom was going to lead this UW to a new level. His impact great and although his life cut short, he had a profound impact on so many along the way, myself included. Sending prayers to the UW of Bluegrass team, Tom's family and friends.
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