Tommie L Barkley

Tommie L Barkley obituary, Ponca City, OK

Tommie L Barkley

Tommie Barkley Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Trout Funeral Home & Crematory - Ponca City on Dec. 3, 2025.

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Tom L. Barkley, age 70, of Ponca City, Oklahoma, passed away on November 28, 2025, in Oklahoma City. Arrangements are under the direction of Trout Funeral Home & Crematory, 505 W. Grand Ave, Ponca City, OK 74601.
Tom was born on February 17, 1955, in Bokoshe, Oklahoma, to John R. and Martha L. Barkley. He was a hardworking man who valued family above all else and carried a quiet strength that those around him admired. Tom had a passion for riding motorcycles and would ride any chance he could get and had a passion for classic cars.
Tom is survived by his wife, Marty Barkley of Ponca City; his sons Brian L. Barkley of Ponca City and Mark R. Barkley of Wichita, Kansas; his sister, Gladys Lybrand of El Reno, Oklahoma; brother Ralph D. Barkley of Arkansas, and brother, Daniel G. Barkley, of Harrah, Oklahoma, and 6 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren
He was preceded in death by his father, John R. Barkley; his mother, Martha L. Barkley; brother John Lynn Barkley, and step-son, Lyle E. Greenfield.
Tom will be remembered with love for his steady presence, his devotion to his family, and the life he shared with those who knew him.
Per family wishes, no services will be held at this time.
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