Vicki Ann Hirtreiter

Vicki Ann Hirtreiter obituary

Vicki Ann Hirtreiter

Vicki Hirtreiter Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Birch Street Funeral Service on Dec. 9, 2025.
Vicki Ann Hirtreiter passed from her earthly body at her home on November 24, 2025. Although physically aged 61, she would insist that mentally, she remained forever young. She was born on March 24, 1964 to Frederick and Margaret (Golomb) Hirtreiter.

On January 16, 1984 Vicki welcomed her first child, Trista; on February 1, 1988 her son Joseph; and on January 2, 1993 her daughter Shelbi. She married Steven Allen Rusnak October 23, 1993. Although they later divorced, they remained close friends and continued to care for one another throughout their lives.

As a single mother, Vicki was a tireless provider. She taught her children to stand up for what they believed in, to fearlessly pursue the unknown, and to believe everything matters, no matter how small it may seem. She instilled resilience in them to never give up. And if her kids needed her, she was there, no matter the circumstances.

Vicki earned her Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology from Southern New Hampshire University in 2011. She was a lifelong caregiver, working as a Certified Nursing Assistant, offering compassionate support to countless individuals. A few months prior to her passing, Vicki had decided she wanted to go back to school to pursue a career in the criminal justice field. Vicki was excited about furthering her education and homing in on a path she was passionate about.

Vicki was a beautiful soul - fiercely authentic, unapologetically honest, and deeply loyal. If someone disliked her, it was likely because she refused to sugarcoat the truths they didn't want to hear. She stood firmly for truth and justice, never backing down, even if the odds were against her.

Life knocked Vicki down more times than most people know. Yet she rose each time, shaking off the dust, flipping the bird, more resolute than ever to achieve what she had set out to accomplish. Though her body was often in pain, she pushed forward with grit and humor. Vicki's family and friends assumed she would outlive them, surviving purely out of spite.

Her heart was a sanctuary for the unwanted, the broken, the overlooked, and anyone who felt they were beyond redemption. Anyone in need would find an open door and an overhead roof, even though her generosity was taken advantage of many times. She saw goodness where others turned away and truly lived by the philosophy of "Only God can judge me" and "Let go, let God".

Vicki could appear intimidating if necessary- she proudly owned her notorious resting face. But for family and friends, she was endlessly generous, loyal, and willing to stand with them through any trials or tribulations. If she loved you, she loved you with her whole heart and would move Heaven and earth for you. Her vibrant, eccentric personality was reserved for only those lucky enough to be in her inner circle.

Vicki had a profound love for animals, especially her dogs - her "peo -poops". They were never "pets", they were her babies. Her biggest dream was to open a no-kill animal shelter and serve as a voice for all animals in need. She wanted every creature to know it mattered.

On the whimsical side, she loved cotton candy, French vanilla cappuccino, Johnny Depp, rainbows, the color purple, and above all - Unicorns.

Vicki is survived by her mother, Marge Golomb; her children Trista Golomb, Joseph (Jenny) Voda, and Shelbi (Julian) Routheaux; her eight grandchildren: Justis, Caleb, Guinevere, Beatrix, Owen, Xavier, Phillip, and Bentley; her brother Josh (Stephanie) Hirtreiter, two nephews, Rufus (her last remaining peo-poop) and numerous other relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her father Frederick Hirtreiter, her life partner Steve Rusnak, and many of her beloved fur-babies, including Poof, Shadow, Skosh, Mia, Oliver and Kire.

A private service will be held at a later date when Vicki's cremated remains will be scattered according to her wishes.

Birch Street Funeral Service is assisting the family.

www.birchstreetfuneralservice.com

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