Vincent J Gesuelli

Vincent J Gesuelli obituary, Middletown, NJ

Vincent J Gesuelli

Vincent Gesuelli Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, Inc. on Mar. 11, 2026.
Vincent Gesuelli of Middletown, New Jersey, passed away on March 9, 2026, at the age of 68.

Vincent was born in Newark, New Jersey on March 23, 1957 to Harry and Elise Gesuelli. He spent his early years in East Hanover, New Jersey, where he attended elementary, middle, and high school. He later earned his undergraduate degree in Business from Seton Hall University, and went on to obtain his MBA in Finance from Rider University.

Vincent was a devoted husband to his wife, Barbara, a proud father to his seven children and step son, and a loving grandfather to his 9 grandchildren. He found great joy in his work as a financial controller for pharmaceutical companies like Bristol Myers Squibb, and he took immense pride in providing for and supporting his family. When he had a rare moment to relax, Vincent loved playing fetch with his dogs and just sharing laughs with those around him, always ready with a sarcastic joke and quick wit. His dedication to his family, sense of humor, and strong opinions left a lasting impression on everyone who knew him.

Vincent was preceded in death by his parents, Harry and Elise Gesuelli; his brother, William Poissoroux; his sister, Nina Poissoroux; and his beloved dogs, Shadow and Gauge. He is survived by his children Cory, Kyle (Robin), Kelly-Ann (Phil), Casey (Gena), Kassie (Jonathan), Cody, and Caitlyn; his stepson Brian Commarato-Roverini; his grandchildren Cory Jr., Edward, George, Luca, Harrison, Oliver, Aaron, Charley, and Paityn; and his cherished dog, Piper.

Vincent will be remembered for his love of family, his spirited conversations, and the pride he took in the lives and accomplishments of his children and grandchildren.

Visitation will be held on Friday, March 13th from 9am - 10 am, with a service beginning at 9:45am at the John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Rd in Middletown, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals, or the local Monmouth County SPCA, in honor of Vincent's love of his dogs.

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George Szatkowski

March 16, 2026

I really enjoyed working for Vince when he was Controller of TechOps in New Brunswick. He was a great guy and always had a kind word to say about everyone. Condolences to his family.

helen bilinski

March 13, 2026

So very, very sorry to learn of Vince´s passing. I worked for Vince too and will always remember, along with many others, his undeniable compassion and respect for others. It was an honor to be part of his staff! I often wondered how anyone could balance one´s big family and responsible job, well, he balanced it so masterfully. To the family, my sincere condolences. Truly a loss.

Robert Zirin

March 12, 2026

I worked with Vince a long time ago, but I always remember his compassion and respect for others. He will be missed. I want to share my heartfelt sympathy with his family.

Walter J Runyon

March 12, 2026

Condolences to Vince´s Wife Barbara and their family. Vince worked for me from 1996-1999 and replaced me as the Director of the department when I retired. Vince was always a hard working employee and always treated fellow employees with the upmost respect. During our downtime he always talked about his family and how much they meant to him. I will keep him and his family in my prayers. May he rest in peace.

Frank Ragany

March 12, 2026

My sincerest condolences to Barbara and your entire family. I worked with Vince for his entire time at BMS. He was a true gentleman and a pleasure to know. He frequently talked about his kids and was a proud father! He is in my prayers

Henry Huseby

March 12, 2026

Very sad to hear this news. I worked for Vince for several years at Bristol-Myers Squibb. Always in a pleasant mood. My condolences to his family!

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