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Wilbur Mapley Obituary

Wilbur Kenneth Mapley, Jr.

PORT BYRON - Wilbur Kenneth Mapley Jr., 89, of Port Byron, passed away on January 5, 2025, in Syracuse, due to complications from Alzheimer's disease.

He was born in Ira, the son of Wilbur K. Mapley Sr. and Doris Van Norstrand Mapley. He was a graduate of Port Byron High School, class of 1953. He was a proud Veteran, who served in the U.S. Navy as a weatherman; while stationed in Japan, he also climbed Mt. Fuji. He retired as a parts man from Burke's Hardware after twenty years, finding his work with local farmers to be his calling.

He was a longtime SU basketball fan, avid bowler, cloud watcher, Seinfeld devotee, and garlic farmer. Since his retirement, he had travelled extensively, including halibut fishing in Alaska, touring Niagara Falls in Canada on Maid of the Mist, and riding his first rollercoaster at 82 years of age at Walt Disney World in Florida.

He is survived by his devoted wife of 54 years, Patricia; his beloved daughter, Trysha; his treasured son, Scott; and his cherished granddaughters, Chloë Mapley and Madeline Weibley. Wilbur is also lovingly remembered by his brother, James (Elizabeth) Mapley; his sisters, Shirley Palen and Linda (Ronald) Millus; as well as several nieces and nephews who held a special place in his heart. He was predeceased by his father in 1975; his mother in 2004; and both his cousin, Charles Mapley; and youngest brother, Richard Mapley, in 2020.

Wilbur was a humble, reserved person who exemplified quiet strength; he never liked being the center of attention. His beautiful blue eyes were always ready with a wink and smile; he was a bit of a prankster, and his laughter was infectious. Like his father, feeding people made him happy; he was the king of chicken BBQ and cheese omelets. He loved coffee and donuts with his girls, golf, comedy, his old dog "The General", and his family most of all. He was a gentle man who exemplified integrity, kindness, and generosity and he will be remembered by us all with immeasurable love.

Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, Central New York Chapter.

Arrangements are with the White Chapel Funeral Home, Weedsport.

To offer condolences to the family, please visit whitechapelfh.com.

Published by The Citizen on Jan. 9, 2025.

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John Waldbillig

January 14, 2025

Mrs Mapley,
Sending my condolences. May memories sustain you and may you find strength in knowing you will be together again.
Respectfully, John Waldbillig

Doug Potter

January 12, 2025

Pat and family. I have only known Pat for many years and she has an infectious laugh. She has been a family friend for many years and we want her to know that our prayers and love go out to her and family. Be strong as you are and don´t be afraid to ask our church for help if you need anything. Love you

Sue Foster

January 11, 2025

Pat; So sorry to hear of Wilber´s passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you. I know how hard it can be.

Mike Ganey

January 10, 2025

Pat, we wanted share our sadness on your irreplaceable loss, and remind you the entire Class of '64 is here support you.

Lorie DeWitt-Antilla

January 9, 2025

To Pat, Trysha and Scott,
So so sorry to hear of your husband and father's passing. Mom and I were talking about Scott just the other day wondering how he was doing. He holds a special place in her heart. I will pass this on to them and we send our deepest condolences.
Lorie DeWitt (and Sharon and George DeWitt)

Ramona Dixon and Family

January 9, 2025

So sorry Pat and Trysha,thinking of you during this difficult time,RIP Wilbur

Josephine Falsey

January 9, 2025

Pat & family:
My sincere condolences for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers in the days ahead. RIP Wilbur.

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