Wilson J. Stoutenburg

Wilson J. Stoutenburg obituary

Wilson J. Stoutenburg

Wilson Stoutenburg Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Joseph V. Leahy Funeral Home, Inc. - Kingston on Nov. 19, 2025.

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Services and Interment are private.

Wilson J. Stoutenburg, 85, of North Drive died November 15th at Northern Dutchess Hospital in Rhinebeck, NY. Born in Kingston May 7, 1940 a son of the late Carl and Elizabeth (Finch) Stoutenburg.

A graduate of Kingston High School class of 1958, Wilson served in the United States Army during the Vietnam war. After his discharge he returned to the B&F Market for over 3 years before joining Central Hudson for over 30 years. Wilson retired in 2000 where he loved being with his family, hunting, fishing and golfing.

Surviving are his wife of 61 years Mary Lou (Steinhilber) Stoutenburg and two daughters Stacey(Keith) Rose and Cherie (John) Ingrassia. He leaves behind his brothers Sidney Davis and Gene Stoutenburg. Besides his brothers he was predeceased by his sisters Rosie North, Carol Stoutenburg and Barbara Kilmer. He leaves behind his grandchildren and great grandchildren and many nieces and nephews which he always cherished.

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