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Barbara Patrick Obituary
Barbara "Bobbie" Patrick
1943 - 2020
Barbara "Bobbie" Patrick was born in Neosho, Missouri on July 24, 1943 to Margie and Fred Oxford. She passed away from pancreatic cancer peacefully on October 4, 2020, holding her husband's hand, surrounded by her family.
Her family moved to Napa in the late 1940's. She went to Napa High and graduated high school in 1961. In November of 1961, she married the love of her life, John Patrick. She worked for the City of Napa Water Department and retired from there in the early nineties. She was the Treasurer of the San Francisco Bay Area Chapter of National Huguenot Society for many years. She was also the Treasurer of the Gold Country Bounders Camping Club. She loved camping and going on numerous tours thru the USA in our motorhome. She loved vacationing with her family especially her grandchildren. As a family she traveled to her beach house, ocean cruises, casinos and road trips over the USA.
She is survived by her husband of almost 59 years, John Patrick, her two sons David, his wife Stacie, and Danny of Napa along with her three granddaughters, Jenasee Van Fleet-Patrick, Davynn & Savanna Patrick.
Due to covid there will not be a service. Her ashes will be placed in her favorite spot…her beach house overlooking Raven's Neck.
The family would like to thank Kaiser Hospice for the loving support and care. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to Kaiser Hospice, 975 Sereno Dr, Vallejo, CA 94589.
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Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Patrick
Dean Chaney
October 3, 2023
Bobbie was a family friend for many years. Have many memories of the parties and camping adventures we participated in. Dean Chaney
Kimberly Creed
October 13, 2020
I am sorry for your loss , I knew Barbra Patrick and John Patrick since I was a little girl my parents camped and visits to their house , she will be missed Kim Chaney (Creed)
Al/Bob and Rosie Leija
October 11, 2020
Our sincere condolences to your family. Your Mom was such a nice lady; I met her when I worked at the Housing Authority and she had rentals on the program! May she RIP.e=J=O=
Dean Chaney
October 11, 2020
John and family I am sad for your loss. Glad I was able to visit you and Bobbie.
Gloria (Purcell) Vaughn
October 10, 2020
Sending love and sincere sympathy to Barbara husband and family...I shared some classes with her and graduated with her in 1961, she was a wonderful woman and we shared lots of memories during high school...I moved away from Napa but have such great memories of Napa ...
Mike B.
October 9, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss our condolences.
Lynn Pritchett
October 9, 2020
My prayers are with you John, and your entire family, for the loss of your dear Barbara. You both were very dear clients of mine and I treasure our years together. May you find peace in the knowledge you will be together again in eternity.
Sincerely,
Lynn Pritchett
LeeAnn Bartlett
October 8, 2020
I worked with Bobbie for many years at the City of Napa. Such a sweet lady. Thoughts are with her family.
Margie Murray
October 8, 2020
I worked with Bobbie for many years at City Hall. I loved working with her. She was so much fun to be around. Heart breaking to learn of her passing. My sympathy to her wonderful family that she loved dearly. She was a such a treasure.
Yvonne & Jerry Codde
October 8, 2020
Our prayers and thoughts with the family. She will be missed. Glad to meet her though our Rv groups.
Dorothy Adams
October 8, 2020
So sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. She was my best friend growing up and served as maid of honor at my wedding. We had great times growing up. It was a pleasure to spend the celebration of our 50th anniversaries together in Las Vegas. Hugs and prayers to John and the rest of the family. She will be missed.
Chris Van Fleet
October 8, 2020
My heart is broken but I have good thoughts knowing that she and Eddie are together in heaven
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