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Melinda Adams Obituary

Melinda Marie (Parker) Adams passed peacefully on February 4, 2025. Melinda was born in Newcastle Wyoming and moved with her family to Napa in 1972. She was a graduate of Vintage High School and Pepperdine University. After many successful ventures she returned to Napa as owner of the Melinda Adams State Farm Insurance Agency. She was active in the PEO Sisterhood, the Kiwanis Club of Napa, Leadership Napa Valley and volunteered in many other ways. She loved the Napa Valley community and dedicated years of service to many friends and clients. She was loved by so many in the Valley and greater communities, and her legacy of giving will endure. She is preceded in death by her son Parker, survived by her son Colton and his wife Amanda, son Dylan, grandson Jackson Olsen, parents Clay and Mary Parker, brother Randy Parker and his wife Michele, nieces, nephews, many cousins and other relatives. Services will be held at 11:30 on Saturday February 15th at the First Presbyterian Church, 1333 Third Street in Napa. Gifts in lieu of flowers or other donations are suggested to the PEO Foundation Scholarship Fund in Melinda's name c/o Heather Teague (XM President), 3153 Vichy Avenue, Napa CA 94558 or to a scholarship being formed in Melinda's honor by the Kiwanis Club of Napa Foundation and mailed to PO Box 10816, Napa CA 94581.

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Published by Napa Valley Register on Feb. 13, 2025.

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Bryan Joseph Powers

March 15, 2025

You are such an amazing, charismatic, kind, patient, considerate, and people pleasing to anyone that walks into a room kind of individual that help out our entire family over all the years over all our family issues. Much appreciative to your services and help. Thank you for your generous time you have allowed our family to have with State Farm and THANK YOU for all your help. Love, THE POWERS FAMILY (Sharon, Matthew, Bryan, Patrick, Colin, and Naomi)

Amber Ortiz

March 10, 2025

Sorry to hear of Melinda's passing! I always enjoyed meeting with her. She was a force of positivity.

Michael Schroeder

February 23, 2025

So saddened to hear of Melinda´s passing. I only remember her from High School. We weren´t close, but she was always very nice to everyone and quite the athlete.

Linda Feutz

February 21, 2025

I so sorry for your loss. Melinda was such a lovely caring friend. We will all miss her smile.

Heather Mc Laughlin

February 20, 2025

As others were, I am shocked at Melinda's passing. I remembered her from Vintage, when I first walked in her office. A great smile always greeted me. Sending her children and family peace.

Jeff and Lynna Roberts

February 18, 2025

Melinda was a sweet person who we trusted and will surely miss. She was kind and understanding and patient. Her smile was so welcoming and comforting. She was our agent after Paul Crawford and we will miss her very much. Our condolences to her family from ours. Blessings. Jeff and Lynna Roberts.

Jim Gunther

February 16, 2025

When I lived in Napa our favorite activity was to sit and have lunch in Fuller Park, what was then across from her office. Fuller Park had other memories attached for us as well- with Leadership Napa Valley. One of the group activities had Melinda and me skipping across the park together, laughing hysterically as though we were five years old. Her ability to be so joyful with me in such a silly moment gives me such solace today; still puts a smile on my face.... I'm glad to have had the opportunity to share a little bit of life with her. Fuller Park will still remain a special place to honor her in my heart and mind. Jim

Mary Pieratt

February 16, 2025

My sympathies go out to Melinda´s family. Melinda was my parents, and my Agent for years. Melinda was one of the most gracious, kind and helpful people I´ve had the pleasure of doing business with. A lovely person.

Nancy Healy

February 15, 2025

I will never forget our fun times together and your wonderful big smile. I will miss you my friend.

Kenneth E Tubman

February 15, 2025

My State Farm agent since Paul Crawford passed away. Wonderful person, and always helpful in my business dealings. Will miss her pleasant voice and smile.
Ken Tubman - Napa

Michael Mitchell

February 15, 2025

As a local mortgage broker I would often need to get proof of insurance from Melinda's office when working with one of my clients. There were never any delays, she was great to work with. Rest in peace Melinda and my condolences to the family.

Tania Shetabi Nordstrom

February 15, 2025

Melinda was the truest essence of joy that one can find in a human being. It radiated from her face, her actions and her absolute love of family and friends. She was one of my besties in college and I have so many wonderful memories of our time there. So happy we reconnected a few years ago and took a couple of trips together, creating new memories.

She was taken too soon - may she rest in peace. My deepest condolences to Mary, Clay, Randy, Colton and Dylan and their extended family

Sylvia

February 15, 2025

That infectious smile will be greatly missed. What a wonderful person, gone too soon.

Sherri Jacobs

February 15, 2025

Melinda was such a beautiful woman inside and out. Her smile would light up a room and my heart. Our boys played on the water polo team at Vintage and we were always there together cheering them on. Our boys grew to be good friends. We were mothers to each of them. I am so very sorry she is gone. My heart is broken for her and for Colton & Dylan. We have loved this family for years and will hold them in our prayers and hearts always.

Carrie Aldous

February 14, 2025

Deeply saddened to hear of Melinda´s passing, we spoke not that long ago. She was always there to support my small business and I really enjoyed getting to know her over the years. Always kind, always went the extra mile, always supported Napa´s Little League baseball which was something we both loved so much. I´ll miss our business chats but mostly I´ll miss how supportive and thoughtful she was. Rest easy, sweet Melinda.

Sharon Sanders

February 14, 2025

I am so shocked and saddened to read of Melinda's passing. I only knew her since 2022, but right away she felt like family. RIP Melinda.

Lee Blevins

February 14, 2025

She´s been my friend for many years first, and also my insurance support.
Prayers for the family

Laura

February 14, 2025

I am so sorry to hear this. I saw her at last year's Vintage High School reunion and it was really nice to see her.

Sheryl Zimmerman

February 14, 2025

I´m very sorry to hear of Melinda´s passing. Although I haven´t seen her in ages, I remember her fondly from our school years and my Mom knowing her Mom Mary from church and long time residents of Napa Valley. My heart goes out to the family.

BARBARA B LUSTIG

February 13, 2025

Melinda, with her beautiful smile, will be greatly missed. She was a bright light to her family and to all who knew her.

Gail Thornberry

February 13, 2025

I am so sad about Melinda's passing. I met with her at the Hospital one week before she passed. Shocking to me. I am thankful I had that one last time to visit her. She was always there for me in business and personally. She will be so missed. Her last words to me were I love you and mine to her I love you too.

Angela Peatman

February 13, 2025

I knew Melinda through tennis activities. Although I am her senior by many years she was always kind and giving me many smiles.
So sweet.

Pat Turcanik

February 12, 2025

Melinda was a lovely woman and a dear friend. I always enjoyed our long conversations about life as we encouraged each other especially during difficult times. I am deeply saddened by her passing and will miss her beautiful smile and warm embraces . May your fond memories of Melinda give you peace during this time of grief and also acknowledge the love you shared. </3

Joan Bartos

February 12, 2025

Melinda was a truly warm, funny and caring person. She will be greatly missed by all who were lucky enough to have known her. My deepest condolences to her family.

Steve Simpson

February 12, 2025

So very sorry to hear this sad news. Melinda was always a joy to be around. So many memories for so many years. Our children all took swimming lessons together now they have their own kids. Time flies but memories will last forever. Especially the memories we have of special people like Melinda. My heart hurts for those of you closest to her. She was a special human being and will be missed.

Vince Gewalt

February 12, 2025

I am beyond heartbroken. I grew up with Melinda attending Vichy, Silverado and Vintage with her. She had a huge heart and everyone loved her. She was fiercely competitive in all sports especially in tennis. The rivalry with Tracy Young was unmatched. I Rember her graduating from Pepperdine. Her folks hung a large banner on their home congratulating her. I played tennis a few days before she left Napa for Petaluma to pursue her insurance career. She was so excited. We reconnected 20 years later when I visited her at her office on Jefferson Street. I saw her again 5 years ago and I will never forget the bear hug she gave me. My last memory of her. You will be solely missed Melinda and rest in peace my friend...Vince

Mary Haub

February 10, 2025

I will miss her beautiful smile and laugh. She was beautiful inside and out.

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