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Timothy Bender Obituary
Timothy E. Bender
1965 - 2021
On May 10th, 2021, Timothy E. Bender passed away peacefully in his home in Citrus Heights, California. Tim was born on April 22, 1965 to Dorothy and Tom Bender in Napa where he spent most of his life. Everyone Who knew Tim, knew he was a loving Husband, Son, Father, and an amazing Grandfather. He is survived by his wife Donna, their children Tiffany (Curly) Holland; Kristina (Adam) Goodrich; TJ (Malia) Bender; and Chad Bender, His mother Dorothy, brother Robert LeFiell, and nephew Cameron Brown. He was an adoring Poppy to his grandchildren ;Allison, Noah, and Evelyn Holland; Elijah and Alexis Stinson; Jaxon and Olivia Goodrich.Friends and family are invited to The Father's House Church of Vacaville, CA on June 17 at 1pm in the afternoon to reminisce moments cherished.
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jan d dalluge
May 25, 2021
For many many years, Tim was my warehouse manager, stock controller, delivery guy, fire putter outter, but most of all, he was much more than that.....he was family....like a son. I will always hold him in my heart. Miss you Tim.
Dan Corsello
May 23, 2021
I lived across the street from Tom and Dorothy and watched Tim (and Bob) grow into adulthood. I have had no contact with Tim for many, many years, but he was a fine young man and the pride of Tom and Dorothy. Much to young to have passed on. My love to Dorothy.
Kelly Snowder
May 23, 2021
Donna, I am so sorry for your loss of you husband. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Michael Murphy
May 22, 2021
Remembering the first day you came to work at Animal Control, how we studied for your Graduation...You became a member of OUR Family...Michael and Diahanne grew to think of you as "Like a Brother"..I still treasure the photo from your Graduation Party.. How excited you were with the Levi Jacket Frank and I gifted you...How you grew into your job.. Treasured Memories..
Our Love and Prayers to your family..Our Timmy..... you will ALWAYS HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS...
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