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Matthew McCallum Obituary
Matt was a member of the Naperville Central High School class of 2000 where he played soccer, basketball and baseball. He took his love of baseball to college and graduated from West Virginia University, Morgantown earlier this year. Matt was a member of the First Congregational United Church of Christ, Naperville.
In addition to his loving parents, Matt is survived by his cherished sister, Sarah, maternal grandparents, Robert and Rosejane Smith, Aunts, Connie Haeske and Susan McCallum, Uncle, Bob (Nancy) Smith and cousins, Danny Olson and Jennifer Williams. Matt also leaves behind many wonderful friends who were a very important part of his life.
He was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Robert and Ruth McCallum.
A memorial visitation will be held Wednesday, December 27, 3:00-7:00 P.M. at Friedrich-Jones Funeral Home, 44 S. Mill St., Naperville. A celebration of Matt's life will follow at 7:00 P.M. in the funeral home with Rev. Robert Stout officiating.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be sent to the Matt McCallum Memorial Baseball Scholarship Fund, c/o the Naperville Education Foundation, 203 W. Hillside Rd., Naperville, IL 60540.
For information please call (630) 355-0213.
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Memories and Condolences
for Matthew McCallum
Sponsored by YOUR fellow soccer lover!.
Connie Haeske
February 8, 2009
Aloha Matt,
It's a beautiful day here in Hawaii. Danny and I have really enjoyed having Sarah here in the islands. She is on the other side and we don't get to see her as much as we'd like to but we know she is there. We miss you so much. There is a new guy at work who is your age and his name is Matthew. He said his friends call him "Matty". I couldn't believe it! I had to say it brought a tear to my eye. I told him all about you. Your picture is right there in my office. When I hear the song "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" sung by IL DIVO, I cannot help but think of you. I know that you are safe and happy and "over the rainbow". I miss you Matt and love you very much. From your "favorite" aunt (just kidding!),
Hugs & Kisses,
Aunt Connie
Bob McCallum
June 9, 2008
Dude:
As I am sure you know, the way that your friends carry your memory continues to amaze me. I have been blessed to get to know them over these past several months.
You are never far from my thoughts. In fact, every day I reflect on all the wonderful experiences we shared. Seeing the Red Sox and the Cubs do so well is somehow so appropriate.
To say I miss you is such an understatement. I look forward to the possibility that we will be "watching our favorite teams" in the World Series.
If you could, see if you could give the Celtics that final push. They are so close.
Love You Always!
Dad
Carol McCallum
May 28, 2008
Hey Buddy ~ I have not yet written in this "book", so I decided that the time is right. On May 17 a group of about 50 of your old friends and some adults (parents) got together and played golf for the second year in a row ~ in your memory! Your friend Keith OB does a great job of organizing the event and we all have a great time getting together and remembering a very special guy ~ YOU!! You will forever be missed and you will forever be loved by us!! We all look forward to getting together again next year and times in between! Wish you were here to help us celebrate!
Love you and miss you ~ always!!
I am sure that you are enjoying watching our CUBBIES win as much as I am!!
:-) Mom
Aunt Connie
May 23, 2008
Happy Birthday Matt! I'll bet the celebration's fantastic in Heaven. Danny and I are enjoying Sarah and Chris but I'm sure your view is great and you know all about what's happening down here. Miss you. Hope your b-day was extra special with the Creator Himself!
Love you,
Aunt Connie and Danny
Sarah McCallum
May 21, 2008
Happy Birthday bud
Sarah
February 15, 2008
Rise up this mornin',
Smiled with the risin' sun,
Three little birds
Pitch by my doorstep
Singin' sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true,
Sayin', "this is my message to you-ou-ou"
Singin' "don't worry about a thing,
'cause every little thing gonna be all right."
Connie Haeske
December 16, 2007
Merry Christmas Matt.
Much love,
xoxo,
Aunt Connie and Danny
Aunt Connie Haeske
December 16, 2007
Aloha Matt,
I can't believe it's been a year. We miss you and love you very much. We know that you're in the best place you can be! I'll bet Christmas is beautiful in Heaven. It's probably like Christmas all the year around.We sure need to get that feeling here on Earth.Please know how much we look forward to seeing you again.
Much love Matthew Robert,
Aloha, Aunt Connie
rachel hefner
November 21, 2007
hi buddy i forgot to tell you that george got a dog.i named it after you buddy.he is so cute just like you.im going to florida for new years eve to visit kevin and some of your freinds might be going to.that should be fun seeing them but its hard at the same time because your not there.well happy thanksgiving buddy.i love you and i will see you in my dreams.
Brandon Swisher
November 17, 2007
Love you man, think about you all the time (as you prob know). You rock, miss you... can't wait till we hug again.
Connie Haeske
November 16, 2007
Aloha Matt,
I think about you everyday when I see your smiling face. It brightens my day to know that you are always here when I begin my day. Sarah is going to come out and live with Danny and I in February! We'll have a great time. I know you'll be watching over us. Take care buddy.
Love you and miss you!
Aunt Connie
rachel hefner
November 15, 2007
hi buddy
sorry its taken me so long to write i guess its taken me this long to except that your gone.alot is new in my life im living in a new house.its weird but i like it.simone just got engaged.you didnt get a chance to meet him.but i talk to him about you and he could tell u guys would of gotten along great.i miss you like hell.the day you died apart of me died i lost my boyfreiend but most of all a great best freind.there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about you.i love more than words can say and i will see you soon.
Matthew touching our hearts-----He always knew how to!
May 19, 2007
Father & Son!! The picture says it all!!!
May 19, 2007
Father & Son
Joan McCallum
May 19, 2007
To Matt:
Happy 25th Birthday (May 20th 2007)
I’m honored to have met you and to know you. I admire you, I feel you every day and you will always be in my heart.
Love you Son!
To My Loving Husband:
You are the Greatest Man and Father that I have ever known, which showed through in your relationship with Matt. You have so much to be proud of. I’m honored to have you as my husband.
I love you Bob!
To The Parent of Matt (Carol & Bob):
My thoughts and prayers go out to you on your son’s 25th birthday. This will always be a day to remember and honor Matt. Honor and respect what he was all about.
He will always be in the hearts of everyone who knew him.
He has touched so many people’s lives.
Carol & Bob----You couldn’t have asked for a better son AND he couldn’t have asked for better parents.
Love,
Joan
stefan sorensen
April 17, 2007
miss you bro
I miss you Matt. Love your lil bro Danny
March 25, 2007
We miss you Matt. Love, Aunt Connie and Uli
March 25, 2007
I miss you Matt. You should see me now! I'm a lot bigger! Love you, Danny
March 25, 2007
Mamma and Pampa's 55th Anniversary with Danny, Sarah and Matt. What a wonderful memory!
March 25, 2007
ryan katzmayr
March 23, 2007
Matty,
It is crazy how you are not here anymore but I keep thinking of you and occasionally will feel like you will be right aroung the corner. U will never be forgotten and hope that u are at peace.
Danny (lil bro) Olson
February 28, 2007
Hey Big Bro,
Dis be your lil cousin Danny. I have no clue where to start. It has been said that life is a game. It is a game in which there are no time outs, no dress rehearsals and no instant replays. On December 17, 2006, I realized whoever made this statement, was telling the truth. My cousin, who I now write a memoir in his honor, was abruptly called back home to heaven while he slept. He was only 24 years old. Life became very fragile on this day. I realized that it could happen to anyone, death, that is. Being called home to our Maker became a reality that I wasn’t yet ready to accept, best, to understand. My Mom, even though she tried to comfort me, wasn’t taking this reality any easier than I was. It was tough. It was tough on all of our family. But, as I soon realized that Matt was okay, he was at peace and at home with Jesus, I finally looked back on this cousin who I admired, looked up to literally, he was 6’1” and respected. He was Matt and I loved him.
Matthew Robert McCallum, who was called Matthew, Matt and Matty by friends, I just called him Matt, was loved by all. Everyone he met he touched in some small or large way. He was always smiling, always making good of even bad situations and just genuinely being a Christian guy in a human world. Now that’s tough for anyone to do, but not Matt. When he entered a room, everyone smiled. When he spoke, everyone laughed and understood that when he was present, everyone would feel better about themselves.
My Mom and Aunt Carol had told me that Matt was born with a ball in his hands. It didn’t matter what kind of ball, just a ball. Matt was a sports fanatic just like me. My Mom said she always wanted and prayed for a little Matt and when I was born 10 years after him that is exactly what she got.
He excelled in soccer and baseball. He ended up with scholarship offers for both when he graduated from high school. His love was with baseball even though his real natural talent was with soccer. He loved the game of baseball. Yes, Matt was quite the player. He pitched as well as played shortstop. Man, I’ll bet Matt is having a heyday in heaven with Babe Ruth, Mickey Mantle and other greats. I’ll bet he can teach them a thing or two about aluminum bats! If he does, he will be doing it with a smile a mile wide and a spirit that I know is welcomed in Heaven. You know Matt I still cannot fathom the fact that you are in God's presence, yet I know you are in the best hands you could possibly be in. I will never forget the many many moments we shared together,but one that I will always cherish was when one day, I think we were at Mamma's and Pampa's and Aunt Carol, my mom, Sarah, you, and I were all at the table and we were eating spaghetti and all of a sudden you hear this big ole slurp. We all of course looked at you ,but then I thought it was cool, as did I think everything you did was cool. So we were both sitting at the table, slurping our spaghetti together. It was a lot of fun, and I always now when I eat it, I always slurp at least one time, in honor of you. I know that I will never forget my cousin. What he was able to share with me in the short 14 years that we had together will be with me forever. It is in my heart and a part of my life that I will never forget or let go of. I am so thankful for memories. I can’t help but smile every time I think of Matt. He was a special person, like a brother, who will continue to guide me forever. His spirit of laughter, his love of life and his willingness to share his life with others will long be remembered. At Matt’s memorial service, I read the words from the Mark Harris song, “Wish You Were Here”. The song speaks of wishing you were here to walk with the angels on streets made of gold and listen to stories that have never been told and so on. It actually is speaking from the perspective of the person who has departed and is now in heaven.
Matt, I do know you are at peace and with our Maker. And that you are telling everyone how good it is in Heaven and do not worry, cause everything ia all right. I miss you and wish you were here but I do know that I will see you again in a place where the time outs, dress rehearsals and instant replays mean nothing and that only eternity prevails. Matt, I do miss you and will forever wish you were here. I love you so much bro!
Love you LOTS!!!,
Danny(lil bro)
Aunt Connie Haeske
February 28, 2007
Aloha Matt,
It's Aunt Connie, missing you each and every day.I have saved your email from my birthday two years ago when you wrote to "Aunt Tonnie" as you called me when you were young. Oh, how I can remember and smile when I think of all of the wonderful menories Matt. You were what I always prayed for and was blessed with when Danny was born. Danny was who I called "my little Matt-Man". Matthew, I love you dearly and always will. You will forever hold a special place in my heart that time will never erase not distance alter. I look at your picture everyday and thank God for your life and for your presence in the lives of all of us who loved you so dearly. My dear nephew, may you enjoy the peace that you have earned and for the comfort in the knowledge of the purpose that you so well served here on this earth. I am thankful to be your Aunt and will forever be thinking of you, missing you and loving you. Keep a place warm for me Matt for I look forward to one day reuniting with you in Heaven where we can rejoice together once again knowing that the lives that we have touched will forever be changed by our time spent on this earth. I love you Matthew Robert and miss you more than you know. I thank you for your smile which provides me with the comfort that I need until I see you again in Heaven. Blessings to you always. I promise to stay close to Sarah, Mom Carol and Dad Bob, Mamma and Pampa. Joan and Don and your extended family. Hit a homer with Mantle Matt! You are truly the best of the best!
Love to you always,
Aunt Connie
Uli Haeske
February 27, 2007
Aloha MATT, YOUR Aunt Connie send me an email here to Bangkok, Thailand, to call her right away but didn't say why. When I called her she was heartbroken and said: "Matt passed away!". Pictures of all Matts I know flashed through my head and stopped at an older gentleman living in our building in Honolulu and who parks his car next to ours. Then I said to her: "Which Matt?". When she said it was YOU...I couldn't believe it! Man, what happened? Mr. Sports...loved soccer (known as football to us insiders) just as much as I did. Will never forget the numerous games we watched together in Hawaii during Euro 2000 when YOU made YOUR second last journey to see all 50 US capitals with YOUR grandparents. Too bad YOU couldn't accept our invitation to stay with us and attend a university in Hawaii. That would have been great fun! Matt..."only the good die young!". But YOUR life was cut way too short. I feel privilegded to have known YOU. Score some goals and hit some homers for me there in heaven. God knows, one day I will be on YOUR team and we will kick some royal ....! Until then, take good care of all us down here, who miss YOU and will never forget YOU! (Dear Carol, Bob, Sarah, Bob & Rosejane Smith, Connie & Danny, Bobby & Nancy, Friends & other Family...I share your pain!). God bless!
Marcia Taylor
February 16, 2007
To the McCallum Family,
My heartfelt condolences to all. Although I did not personally know Matt, it was very apparent that his Dad truly loved both he and Sarah. Upon reading the entries within this guest book, it appears that you all are very special and wonderful people.
May God Bless You
A candle burns bright for you in my church. (St. Pauls Catholic Church in Damascus)
Samantha O'Gwin
February 15, 2007
And so I light a candle for you,
Shatter all the darkness
and bless the times we knew.
You filled my life with wonder,
Touched me with surprise,
Always saw that something
Special deep within your eyes.
And through the good times and bad,
We carried on with pride.
I hold onto the love and life we knew.
And so I light a candle for you.
The seasons come and go,
And I’m weary from the change.
I keep on moving on, you know it’s not the same,
And when I’m walking all alone
Do you hear me call your name?
Oh, today I light a candle for you.
The flame will burn bright like
A beacon in the night and
Shatter all the darkness and
Bless the times we knew.
Oh, today I light a candle for you.
Matt's band of brothers - Naperville
January 18, 2007
One of our many date nights to Annapolis (Thank you Joan for capturing the beautiful memory)
Samantha O'Gwin
January 18, 2007
My GBF <3
I'm sorry it has taken me so long to write. It has been a month and a day since my world stopped for a split second. It happens to be my 23rd birthday today that at one time we had planned to spend together. You will be with me the whole day. You are with me every day!
Meeting you 5 years ago was quite an unexpected suprise :) It was June 16, 2002 that my life was forever changed. We were CRAZY head over heels for each other but there always had to be a dramatic twist to us. You liked it that way. The memories that you left me with are beautiful and help to give me peace.
Some of my favorites are:
*teaching you sign language and having HOURS of conversation in silence... you are the only one who called me Samantha :)
*your baseball games... yes I was your #1 fan next to your Pop :)
*watching Ferris Bueller's Day Off a million times and talking about taking a trip to IL to check out all the sites and museums together
*The Notebook :)
*Date Night to Phillips... you ordering Dom Perignon on 1/2 off bottle night every Monday and me with my cream of crab soup and french fries :) yes... very classy
*Hours of phone conversations when you were at school, listening to music and picking out "our songs", and of course watching the office together... me wishin I had that DVR to rewind!
*saying "I'm Sorry" is always better with tickets to the Allman Brothers concert... even in the torrential downpour it was amazing because we were together!
*the many times of going to Annapolis with your Pop to see his favorite band play... you are such a GREAT dancer :)
*many sleepless hours, spent lying together on the tempurpedic mattress, talking until the sun comes up and no I didn't use you for the bed though it was quite comfy :)
I could write for hours about the times we spent together but those will forever be in my heart! When you left this world, a piece of my heart went with you. I want you to know because of that, you will always be apart of me and I will NEVER forget you!
You were and will forever be my BEST FRIEND and my <3
Deb Deacon
January 17, 2007
Carol, The sad news of losing Matt reached us today and we are at a loss for you and yours. We remember him fondly as a young boy, always smiling and social. You, Carol, changed my life for the better, by your recommendation. So I hope you get your reward through our prayers for your peace, and the evidence of how Matts short impacted so many. Melissa went to school with Matt and now is in Phoenix and extends her condolences as well. All our thoughts are with you. The sun will come back out. Matt would want you to shine in it.
Jimmy Krick
January 11, 2007
Hey buddy. I always thought that the only tears I'd shed associated with you were tears from laughing too damn hard with you. I could never have asked for a better friend to grow up with and it kills me to know that I won't be able to grow old with you as well. But I have so many memories of you that make me laugh and smile and feel lucky to have been able to call you my friend. Memories of goofing off in class, playing hard on the ball fields and courts, road trips to see DMB, sitting back and listening to music, and sharing a few drinks. You always had my back and you always made sure I knew how much you cared about me with a big hug. I always got the most out of life when you were around. I'm going to miss you so much but I know I'll see you again. Until then. I love you man.
Chet/Ralph Messer
January 9, 2007
Dear Bob, Carol and Sarah,
We extend our deepest sympathies and prayers to you. This is such a shock.
We were fortunate to meet Matt at Bob McCallum’s funeral and to share dinner with him at our table. He was a wonderful young man with an obvious bright future. It is always difficult to understand the loss of a young life within God’s love for us – both collectively and for each individual. Our faith tells us that God loved Matt and somehow he wanted Matt to be with him for eternity. But none of this eliminates the hurt.
May your faith help you to endure the period of deep mourning. Think of pleasant memories that make you smile about the times you had together to love, admire and laugh with Matt. God will smile too because he will know that your memories will keep Matt forever in your lives.
God bless you all.
Sincerely,
Chet and Joyce Messer
Stacy Sistowicz
January 4, 2007
I am truely at a loss for words. My prayers are with Matt's family. He will always be remembered.
Michelle Schultz
January 2, 2007
You will be missed by everyone that knew you. My prayers are with you and your family. God bless...
Karin Brauchli
December 31, 2006
I am so shocked!!!! I was with your family in 1992 to "babysitt" you and to learn english. please excuse my written english but I have to write. Sometimes when I was with you, you made me very ungry :-) but I loved you and sarah so much. I haven't see you for a long time but I am so sad now. I am thinking of your mum. Carol please contact me one time!!!!! love karin (switzerland)
December 30, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of your lost and wish to extend my deepest sympathies and condolences. May God continue to be with you and guide you during this time.-Acts 17:31
J.B. Igou
December 29, 2006
Wow, Matt. From the original neighborhood "posse" to the "Stud Salon", we've got a lot of memories growing up. Stealing each others girlfriends - mopping up in "Posse - vs." recess football games - and I'll never forget the smile on your face as you rounded the bases on me at Knoch Park. Thanks for being such a great friend. And thanks for being able to lighten every serious situation with your smile or a quick joke. Carol, Bob, Sarah and the rest of the family, I’m so sorry for your loss.
Jinx wheeler
December 29, 2006
Smitty and Bob,
You always enjoyed your children and were so proud of Matt's accomplishments.The family memories will always be there. My thoughts and prayers are with you both and Sarah at this time. Jinx
Dave Berkey
December 28, 2006
Matt, the son I never had, but watched with "fatherly pride" how he openly displayed his love, respect, and admiration for his family....especially for his Dad, and especially on November 18, 2006. We will “shag flies” this coming baseball season with Matt in our hearts, and we will be certain to remind ourselves of an important life lesson that he so humbly demonstrated: cherish your family, relatives, and friends....and show them this without hesitation, openly, and often. Although the grief we experience at this time is great, our fond and loving memories of Matt are much greater...and these will prevail. To Matt’s family and relatives, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, now and always.
Matthew Smaizys
December 28, 2006
My condolences to the McCallum family during this trying time. Matt was a good friend to many. Playing soccer with Matt from grade school through high school was always a good time. We all shared so many good memories and had a lot of laughs together. I know that we will all miss Matt dearly.
Marcia Bower
December 27, 2006
Smitty,(Carol)
You knew that I really wanted to be with you today at Matt's Memorial, but I couldn't make it work out.
You have always shared with me so many special times you have had with your kids.
I often remember every year you telling me of the great times Matt and Sarah had, even though you and Bob were not there, were their vacations with your parents.
Every year, the four of them would visit as many State Capitals as possible. I always thought it was so great them spending this valuable time with their Grandparents and at the same time learning some geography and history.
Since last week, I have been reading comments sent to Matt's "Guest Book". Tears have come to my eyes several times as I read about how many and how much he has affected other's lives.
You have always been there for me, you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Marcia
Bob Moylan
December 27, 2006
Dear Carol, I am so sorry to hear about your loss.My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.Sincerely, Bob Moylan,LCPC
Merry Christmas Brother, I miss you more than words can describe...Love, your Sis
December 25, 2006
Lauren MacNeil
December 23, 2006
Matty ~ Today was a rough one...I said goodbye to one of the best guys that I have ever had the privledge of knowing. I can't think of a single time I was around you that I wasn't having fun (even if it was listening to your raspy voice trying to sing!!) I loved every moment I spent with you and I'll always cherish them. You'll always be apart of me Matty...and I'll never forget you. Love you and miss you...
<3 Laur
Debby Adams
December 22, 2006
Carol,
I just heard of your terrible loss. I am at complete loss for words. Your pride in Matt was very apparent in our talks at Curves. You and your family are in my prayers.
Brandon Swisher
December 22, 2006
The life, love, and energy that came out of you was so infectious and contagious to others. Your life was inspiring man. I love you brother, your name will be a name that is remembered--many people will know you without having ever met you thru the countless stories, tales, quotes, and deeds people will continue to live out in your name. "If only you could have met this guy named Matt...."
Dale Doogs
December 22, 2006
Carol and family,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sorry I never got the opportunity to meet Matthew, but the joy he brought you each and every day was apparent in your conversations about him. Bless you and know that I am thinking of you and Matthew.
Jordan Lynch
December 21, 2006
Matt...wow. I still can't believe this is true. It's been a few years since I last saw you. Jack's basement I think! I'll never forget your kind heart, great hugs, and smile! Please watch over all of us. We love you and miss you.
Jordan
James Krick
December 21, 2006
Matt,
What happened?
It seems it was just yesterday when
Jim asked me to drive the guys home
after another high school party.
Forgot to tell your mom how you
and Jim sucked down full slabs of Famous Dave's Ribs
in 10 minutes - looking for seconds.
Going through hours of Central baseball tapes,
highlighted with spectacular plays at short.
None prouder than your mom when we
would talk about our boys growing up.
Still not believing, when Jim told me of your passing.
Mr.Krick
Stefan Sorensen
December 21, 2006
Matt,
I miss you so much bro.. there hasnt been a day gone by without thoughts of you. This past month spending time with you i wouldnt change for anything. I would bragg and tell my freinds about you, my new older brother, and how cool and chillhe was..aha. some of them luckly got to meet you. Man i look up to you in so many ways... Your relationship with your dad and sister, your ability to bring a smile to anyones face.You could always make a bad situation into a positive or funny one and at times had me and shaun laughing uncontrollably. Its weird that ive only known you for a little over 5 months but me and shaun are both so grateful for meeting you. It was good seeing you the other day...
Love you Matt
Beth Swords
December 21, 2006
Matt was truely one of a kind. Whether we were playing catch phrase or he was challanging the crazy push up man at bent willey's (every one who has witnessed this knows matty could do a mean one handed push-up), he was making everyone laugh. He will be greatly missed. My and so many others' thoughts and prayers are with Matty, his family and his friends. Rest in peace...
Patrick Murphy
December 21, 2006
Dont know what to say but "WEST VIRGINA". Really gonna miss u man. Well meet again im sure.
Joe Kaufman
December 21, 2006
Matty,
You have forever changed my life. Words can't explain what u meant to me. Sweepstakes night with the flynns, team bad habit and all the great memories u've left me. Not a day will go by that I won't miss you. I know i'll see u again, Love ya matty
Heather Bonifant
December 21, 2006
McCallum- Words can't explain how much you will be missed. You were always there for me, and I'll always have a place in my heart for you and our memories. Watch over us, and I'll see ya soon.
-Kathy
Patrick Flynn
December 21, 2006
Matty,
You have influenced so many people's lives in only a short time. I don't know anyone I could compare you with. A day won't go by that I don't miss you. I'm going to miss that smile and look on your face everytime you walked into a room. Can't wait to see you again buddy. CHA CHA CHA CHIA
Matt: From the first moment you were like a son to me, a brother to my sons and the greatest friend. When I think of you: I see this handsome man with the most beautiful heart, mind and soul. You will be dearly missed, but you will always be with us--Joan
December 21, 2006
Matt: A father could never ask for a better son or friend. You have touched me in ways that you will never know. I live each day as a better person because of you. I love you, your heart, and your spirit. Always - Dad
December 21, 2006
Mike Kinderdine
December 21, 2006
Matty, Your smile and high energy will always be remembered by this guy. You will always be a great friend never forgotten.
Ryan Fitzgibbons
December 21, 2006
Matt,
I still cant believe youre gone. It seems like only yesterday we were complaining about early morning practices and playing cards through the night. I'll never forget all the times we shared on and off the field. You had an uncanny ability to lighten the mood when things werent going well and I thank you for that. My deepest condolensces to your family and all your friends, who I know miss you as much as I do. See you when I get there buddy.
-"Fitzy"
Katie DiBella
December 21, 2006
Matty, you are such a great guy and you are greatly missed. I loved you from the first day that I met you. The top 2, most fun days of my entire life were spent with you, and I will never forget them.
Kimberley Nicolet
December 21, 2006
To Bob, Sarah & family,
I first met Matt (and Sarah) in the summer of 1997 when I sold Bob his townhouse in Germantown, Md. (I'm Bob's Realtor/friend) Through the years, from...Germantown to Urbana to Annapolis, I witnessed the love that was always so evident in the McCallum family. I'm so sad for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Katie Swords
December 21, 2006
I met Matty a couple summers ago. The first day/night we hung out, I remember telling him that I felt like I'd known him all my life. He was the type of person that could bring a smile to anyone's face (and seemed to always be trying to). All the memories I have of Matty continue to make me smile each time he comes to mind. A lively man, with a genuine soul... we will miss Matty too much to put into words! My love and prayers are with all his friends and family, Katie
Jim Fornaciari
December 21, 2006
I had the opportunity to work with Matt as a classroom teacher and to coach him on the football and baseball fields. He was a great deal of fun to be around. The other kids always wanted to be near Matt's great enthusiasm. He will be missed. My thoughts go out to his family during this difficult time.
Mike Garcia
December 21, 2006
Matty, although you were taken from us way to early, you lived your life to the fullest and thats what we loved about you. You were always the life of the party and could cheer anyone up when they where feeling down.....You came into all of our hearts and put huge impacts on us....I love you..and as your "partner in crime" im gonna miss you real bad buddie...
May angels lead you in,
-Mikey
Patrick DiBella
December 21, 2006
You were truly one of a kind MCcalum. Could never ask for a better friend. I enjoyed every moment of your company from sitting on the couch watching Seinfeld and Jepordy to goin down to Ray's or the bars. I'll watch over Stan for you buddy.
Meghan Broderick
December 20, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the McCallum family during this terribly hard time. Matt was a great person and will surely be missed.
Maria Maxwell
December 20, 2006
Matty,
I only knew you for a short period of time but you were so fun to hang out with! I will miss you!
Ryan Reese
December 20, 2006
"yo yo yo its reese give reese a call peace" that was matty's favorite message from me and he said it every time he saw me. what one phone message means to me now you will never know man. i miss u kid and im sorry we never got to take that trip to boston. i promise ill get there man and u will still be by my side man. The world series in new york, me and you showing out and getting all tournement team together that was probably the happiest day in my life not because it was me but because it was us, you showed me ways to do everything from baseball to life and I thank you for that. I will NEVER forget anything about matty mcCallum. You took me under your wing at MC when i wanted to quit you told talked me out of it. Poker night at my apartment. I still have the video of us at niagra falls when we were just goofing out. Man im gonna miss you matty i love u kid. you will never be forgoten man you will always be in my heart man. And Mr. McCallum i always thought of you as much of a friend as i did matty, I just want to let you know, that will never change.
Tom Belyea
December 20, 2006
Hey Matty.. I miss you so much. You were like my big brother on the baseball team at MC. You were the person that could light up a room with your funny whit that you had. Im gonna miss you and i love you. Ill see you in heaven.
Jessica Mcculloch
December 20, 2006
I met Malcolm at WVU last year, the memories we had hold such a special place in my heart. I don't know what i would have done without him this summer. I will always miss you Malcolm. Love, Jessi
Jamie Stotz
December 20, 2006
I met Matthew last year at West Virginia University. Ever since we have been great friends. He was an awesome friend and a great person to be around. You will be missed "Malcolm."
Ali DeMoss
December 20, 2006
I will never forget all of the memories that we have had together even though it was for a short period of time. You were a good friend and a good guy. You will always be in my heart<3
I'll miss you Malcolm!
Love you
David Veller
December 20, 2006
I went to elementary through highschool with Matt and although we weren't very close friends, I know he was a good person. The McCallum family is in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
Andy Bradley
December 20, 2006
Hey Maverick- Im thinking about you down here as is everyone else that you came into contact with. You had that magnetic personality that drew myself and everyone else to you. You taught me more than you know and i will not allow a day to go by without thinking of the times we spent together. Save me a seat. I love you bro.
Always, Iceman
Bill Igou
December 20, 2006
Bob, Carol, and Sarah,
Our thoughts are with all of you. We have so many good memories from the soccer and baseball fields in and around Naperville as our kids grew up and their parents became friends on the sidelines.
We miss many since we moved away four years ago but Cathy, Chris, JB, and I will always remember the friendship of the McCallums. Our sincerest sympathies go out to all of you.
Kathy & Tony Hicks
December 20, 2006
To Carol, Sarah & Family:
Please know that Tony & I have you in our daily prayers to give you the strength to deal with such a huge loss. Our condolences to your family at this sad time.
Robby Wissinger
December 20, 2006
Matt was a great friend to me and was always there for all of his friends when they needed him. We played Basketball together and had many great times together. he will be missed by many. rest in peace matty...
Bethany Scheuerman
December 20, 2006
Matt was the type of person you couldn't help but have a great time with - his positive energy and love for life were contagious. Almost all of my highschool memories include him, from prom when he chipped his tooth & refused to smile with his mouth open to just hanging out talking and laughing; I will truly miss him. He touched so many people's lives and his loss is greater than words can express.
Jesse Roberts
December 20, 2006
My blessings to the McCallum family during this time, I will always cherish Matt. He was a sweet, kind-hearted, funny, and loyal friend. He will be remembered fondly by myself and all the friends he made over the years, especially those of us who knew him in school. My kindest regards.
Jesse Roberts
Rob Thomas
December 20, 2006
Though I haven't seen Matt for years, I was saddened to hear of his death. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.
Matty and I at school
Kevin Flynn
December 20, 2006
Matty, I love you and miss you so much. You touched a lot of lives and made a lot of friends in such a short period of time. I learned so much from you... take care bud. I'll see you soon.
Your guy,
Kev
Amy Sokacz
December 20, 2006
Matt was a great friend that I've known since Junior High. He was fun to be around, made you smile and will be forever missed.
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