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Bettye Jean Abney Obituary
Bettye Jean Abney Naples, FL
Bettye Jean Abney left this world to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on January 7, 2011. Her beautiful smile, loving heart and encouraging words will be deeply missed by her loved ones and friends. With her last breath she spoke words of love. "Jeanne" ministered in music, prayer, teaching, and service in many Christian churches from the time she was a teenager. She leaves a legacy of faithfulness and love to her family. She loved the hymns and gospel songs that were sung at her memorial to celebrate her life and her faith in her Lord.
She was 72 and had been a resident of Naples since 1987. She was born in Evansville, IN and raised her family in Lexington, KY.
Jeanne is survived by her husband of 54 years, Jack Abney; daughter Amanda Astley (Steven); son Barrett Abney (Margaretta) all of Naples, FL; nine grandchildren; and two great-grandchildren.
The funeral and interment services were conducted in Evansville, IN.
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M.
January 7, 2012
Today marks one year that I've not had my sweet Momma with me. It still seems impossible. I miss her so very deeply! There was so much about her that was so wonderful. She was a fantastic cook and baker, a talented crafter and seamstress, an inspirational speaker and storyteller, a really great melodious alto, a gracious and thoughtful hostess, a precious godly mother and trustworthy friend. My heart is still broken, yet I'm so glad to have had her in my life and in the lives of my husband and children, even for just a while. I love you, Momma, and will see you again. I know you've been having a glorious time. ?
C Ziemer
February 14, 2011
Such a beautiful lady and so talented. We have been praying for you and your loved ones. I know it must seem longer than a month without her in your life. It has only been 6 days since my Mom passed but seems much longer. Love to your family,
The Ziemers
Heather
February 10, 2011
When one has known love, given or received, it cannot be taken away. Heather (a Daughter)
February 9, 2011
Dear Maendi and family, saying prayers for peace and comfort to all of you every moment of every day. I feel so blessed to have known your mom through you. And through you her love lives on. Always in my heart, Lori Becker
February 8, 2011
My condolences to the family and friends and may the "God of all comfort" be with you and give you the "peace that excels all thought" in your time of grief. - 2 Cor 1:3,4 ; Phil 4:6,7
- DG, California
M.
February 8, 2011
It's been a month without my dear, sweet momma. Seems impossible. Missing her so very much.
We appreciate all of the kind words of encouragement, thank you.
Jennifer B
February 5, 2011
Mandy,
Please come back to the Daughter's Group when you are ready. I miss you.
With death, that part of you that was given to your mother in love may feel like it has been violently wrenched from your being. It is a very confusing time, and everything may feel like it is "out of control".
Because you have loss two family members, you have also loss a familiar family structure. Each family member will now be forced to re-evaluate their relationships within the new family. There are many losses on many levels, some that might not show up until sometime in the future. Feelings of grief will ebb and flow over the rest of your life. I know it probably doesn't feel like it will ever "be ok" again, but it will, one day at a time.
Marty Moore
February 4, 2011
Dear Jack and Mandy,
Please know there are so many of us thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. I pray that you find strength during this very sad time.
With deepest sympathy,
Marty
Ann Marie Lembo
February 4, 2011
Maendi, My deepest sympathies on the loss of your beautiful mother. She was beautiful inside and out just like you. She left you a wonderful legacy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
love, your big sister, Annie
February 4, 2011
Dear Jack and Mandy, seeing your beautiful Bettye Jeans's picture brought home to me the depth of your loss. What a gracious, talented and loving wife and mother she was. Mandy's stories bring her alive to all of us at the Daughters Sp Gp. Know of my love and prayers and availability to talk at any time. Marianne at Alz Sp Network.
Marianne Troy
February 4, 2011
Dear Jack and Mandy, I am so very moved by Bettye Jean's picture. Her beauty brings home to me the tremendous loss you both are feeling. Such a gracious, talented, loving woman!!! Know of my thoughts and prayers for you both as you learn to journey now without her. Not easy!! We are always available to talk. Marianne and all of us at the Alz Support Network.
Catherine
February 3, 2011
Dear Jack and Mandy,
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
My sweet mother Anne and I had the pleasure of meeting you and your beautiful wife in November at the Naples Zoo during Elephant Fest. During our brief visit your love for Jeanne and the gentle care you gave her were so apparent -- she glowed with the tenderness of your attention.
May you find comfort in the memory of your devotion to her and her needs, putting them above your own. And may you find comfort in the sure knowledge that she is in heaven with God, both looking upon you to succor you in your time of sorrow.
February 3, 2011
Dear Jack,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am a friend of Mandy's from the Daughters group. She is a kind and loving woman and she received that wonderful gift from both you and your wife. God bless.
February 2, 2011
Dear Jack and Maendi,
Jack, you do not know me, I am a friend of your beautiful daughter Maendi, she is truly and amazing and caring person. I met her at the Daughter's Group a couple of years ago. I am so deeply sorry for your loss, I know how difficult this is for you and your family at this time. May God bless you and keep you in His heart at all times.
Kit Corbett
February 2, 2011
Dear Jack and Mandy~
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you both. I know the joys and pains of care-giving. It is really hard to let go when your loved one leaves. Sending Lots of Love Hugs & Prayers. May God bless and keep you!
Susan Conner
February 2, 2011
Jack, please be comforted in knowing that there are people praying for you and your family. Though I have not met you, I do know your daughter Mandy. I also lost the love of my life, my sweeheart, nearly 6 years ago, so I do know the pain of loss. Your beloved wife is in heaven and we thank God for that. I will continue to pray for you. May God Bless You.
Mandy, you know my love for you. You know I am praying for you.May God comfort and Bless you.
Susan Conner
marty durham
January 31, 2011
To Jack,
I am so sorry to learn you lost your Jean. My prayers to you and your family. Marty Durham
January 30, 2011
To Barre & Margaretta,
My deepest sympathy of the loss of your mother. My prayers are with you and your family during this time of grief. God Bless.
Aunt Janie
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