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Phil Gutermuth Obituary

Phil Gutermuth

Naples, FL

Phil Gutermuth, 75, of Naples, FL and Boonton Township, NJ, died tragi cally on Wednesday, November 5, 2014 in a car accident on his way to one of the places he most enjoyed, the golf course. He was born August 7, 1939 in Ft. Wayne, IN, the son of Clarence and Helen Gutermuth.

Phil Gutermuth was passionate about many things in his life: his family, his God, and his golf were always at the top of the list. He loved all of the people that he had the chance to meet and work with during his 42 years with Nabisco, the only company he ever worked for. He was actively involved in his Florida community, St. Maarten of Pelican Bay, where he served on the board for a number of years. He loved his 'Fighting Irish' of Notre Dame, and was always the 'best dressed' in any room that he entered. He enjoyed nature's beauty, especially his flower gardens and those incredible Naples, FL, sunsets. He was a consummate people person who made everyone he touched feel like they mattered and were special. He was always in charge!

His family was his most treasured priority, and the foundation was the loving relationship he had with his wife Judy. They were married for 53 of his 75 years, but were best friends for over 7 decades. Phil fell in love with Judy before he ever made it to high school and the two of them have been inseparable ever since. Phil and Judy had three children; Matt, Amy, and Angie, and are so very proud of the adults they have become. Phil was a compassionate man, with an uncanny ability to deliver the hard truth in a very loving and sincere way. He was truly the 'rock' of the family.

Phil had a tremendous Catholic faith that guided how he lived every day of his life. He had a spirit of quiet generosity that impacted everyone he came in contact with regardless of how well you knew him. He would give his time, attention, and gifts to those closest to him, or complete strangers if he felt it would help. Phil was never a 'Sunday Catholic'; he lived every day the way the Lord has asked us to. 'Do to others' was not a tag line, it was how he lived each and every day of his life.

One of his greatest passions was golf. His love started as a caddy at Foster Park in Ft. Wayne, IN and this love of golf burned bright for his entire life. He used golf in his professional life to create relationships that extended far beyond the bargaining table in the business world. He created the longest running event on the LPGA tour, the Nabisco Dinah Shore (now referred to as the Kraft Nabisco Championship) and through this event raised millions of dollars for people in need. He was a member of Rockaway River Country Club in Denville, NJ for over 30 years and was a member of Quail West in Naples, FL. He loved golf and what the game stands for - honesty, competition, and camaraderie. He was a man of many nicknames: JP the Planner, the King, the Bird, and Mr. GQ to name a few. He was a master at orchestrating the perfect event, and never missed the smallest detail. His event planning included large business functions, such as his annual customer event in Palm Springs, CA (Nabisco Dinah Shore), social gatherings such as the annual golf trip with his beloved 'Myrtle Beach Bums', to special family events from weddings to creating the perfect way to deliver that special gift. Phil knew how to throw a party, and everyone wanted to be there when he did.

Phil is survived by his loving wife of 53 years, Judy Gutermuth; his beloved children, Matt Gutermuth of Houston, TX, and his fiancée, Nicole, Matt's 2 girls, Taylor and Madison and their mother, Sharon of Richmond, VA; Amy Lorber of Mountain Lakes, NJ, her husband, Jeff and their three boys, Phillip, Collin, and Alex; Angie Gutermuth of Hoboken, NJ; and his sister, Nan Lahrman of Ft. Wayne, IN.

The viewing will be held on Sunday, November 16th from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. and 6:00 to 9:00 p.m. at Codey and Mackey Funeral Home in Boonton, NJ.

A funeral mass will be held on Monday, November 17th at 10:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Boonton, NJ followed by a celebration of his life at Rockaway River Country Club in Denville, NJ.

A memorial service will be held at a later date at St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Naples, FL and will be announced in the near future.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that memorial contributions be made to the Chris Dincuff Memorial Scholarship Fund at the Community Foundation of New Jersey, PO Box 338, Morristown, New Jersey 07963-0338. Chris was Phil's future son-in-law who perished on September 11th.

Arrangements are being handled by Shikany's Bonita Funeral Home.

Published by Naples Daily News on Nov. 11, 2014.

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John Fenimore

November 28, 2014

I was so very sorry to hear of your loss. You will be in my thoughts

Charles McMenamin Sr

November 16, 2014

We are blessed to meet some SPECIAL people along life's journey.Phil was not only a Christian but a believer in tradition, evidenced by his efforts to protect & enhance the Nabisco brand..I am grateful that our paths crossed.

Eileen Fetterolf

November 16, 2014

Dear Amy and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sadness. We have many fond memories of Phil, he was such a warm and caring man. He always made you feel special, accepted and loved. May your many memories of love bring you peace. With Love, Eileen and Paul Fetterolf

The Chioccos

November 16, 2014

Our prayers are with you all. Phil was an incredible father and roll model. The good he brought to this world will bring him eternal happiness in heaven. Our love to you all.

November 15, 2014

Out thoughts and prayers are with you in you time of loss. Phil will be greatly missed. He always had a smile for everyone. God Bless on your journey home.
The Fragomeni Family

Wendy Morton

November 15, 2014

Thinking of the Gutermuth family at this difficult and sad time. Love and prayers to you all.

Jane Anderson

November 13, 2014

My boss at Nabisco for many years but, more importantly, my dear friend. I will miss him greatly. My love and prayers to Judy, Amy, Angie and Matt.

November 13, 2014

Our sympathy for your loss. 2nd Corinthians 4:18

Joseph Roman

November 13, 2014

Our family was so sad to hear this. God Bless Mr. Gutermuth.

Joseph Roman

November 13, 2014

I have known Phil many years played a lot of golf with Phl,and traded many conversations about Florida my deepest sympathy to the Gutermuth Faimily,may God Bless You.

George Panetta

November 13, 2014

Dear Judy and family,
I was heart broken to hear about Phil. Elliot and I both thought very highly of both of you. It brought tears to my eyes when I read about his passing. Love to you all. Dottie Ettus

Tony Suglia

November 12, 2014

What a wonderful friend and absolutely great guy. While I was convalescing from a long illness, Phil was the only one who kept in touch with me. I cannot ell all how much and those shoe knew Phil will miss him. God Bless Him.

PETER ROGERS

November 11, 2014

Much love Mon Brave!
VOLUME is NOT everything.
We WILL keep the faith!
Love,
Peter Rogers

Joan & Jim Proud

November 11, 2014

We knew Phil and Judy from business and from St. Ann's. They made the world a better place as they travelled through it. Our prayers are with the family.

John Gardner

November 11, 2014

Mrs. Gutermuth, he was a delight to be around. We'll miss his humor and his gentle demeanor. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Karen MacDonald

November 11, 2014

Phil had a life well lived. That should be a comfort to all of you. He was "The King" so the funny and stupid stuff of your lives will keep you smiling. My funny story was Phil going through your purse and looking at the checkbook when he retired. BIG MISTAKE! Love to all of you.

Harpo t. Clown

November 11, 2014

Lots of fond funny memories thanks to Phil and all those Oreo cookies I handed out for 20 years...

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