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Shirley McIvor Obituary

Shirley Katherine McIvor

Shirley Katherine McIvor, of Lynchburg, died on November 15, 2021, at her home. She was born in Lynchburg, the daughter of the late Labron Eugene McIvor and Katherine Cox McIvor.

Shirley graduated from E.C. Glass High School. She received an A.B. degree from Randolph-Macon Woman's College, a M.Ed. from the University of Virginia, and an advanced diploma from the University of Virginia. Shirley's long and rewarding career in education began with a stint as an elementary school teacher, followed by many years at E.C. Glass High School where she worked as a math teacher, guidance counselor, and dean of students before longtime service as associate principal. She had a positive impact on the lives of countless students, parents, and teachers before her retirement in 1988.

Shirley was a member of many community and national organizations, among which were Lynchburg Chapter, National Society of the Daughters of the American Revolution, Delta Kappa Gamma, Kappa Delta Pi, honorary educational society of the University of Virginia, American Association of University Women, Woman's Club of Lynchburg, and she was a Bronze Life Master of the American Contract Bridge League. She was also a member of Fort Hill United Methodist Church.

Shirley is survived by two nieces, Amy Brown and her husband, Haskell, and Charlotte Cassada and her husband, Bob, both of Richmond; and three great-nephews, Haskell Brown III, Carter Cassada and his wife, April, and Gray Cassada and his wife, Lizzy, all of Richmond. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her brother, Labron Eugene McIvor Jr., and her sister, Evelyn Mae McIvor.

A graveside service will be held at 1 p.m. Friday November 19, 2021, in Spring Hill Cemetery with the Rev. Janet Hawkins officiating.

The family would like to express their heartfelt appreciation to Joan Rogers and Laura Patterson, Shirley's angels, for their devotion and loving care, and for jointly fulfilling Shirley's last wishes. They are grateful for the many kindnesses and prayers of numerous friends.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Salvation Army 2215 Park Ave. Lynchburg, VA 24501, and the Lynchburg Public Library.

Tharp Funeral Home & Crematory, Lynchburg, is assisting the family. To send condolences, please visit tharpfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The News & Advance from Nov. 17 to Nov. 18, 2021.

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George Goodman

November 11, 2023

A CLASSY lady and great neighbor!

C.O.Bell

August 5, 2022

I was just thinking about Shirley McIvor and she was asst principal when I went to E.C.Glass and she was a wonderful woman and a friend I really loved her she was always so good to me! She did something really nice and special for me but that's between me and her! But there wasn't a better person than her! I just wish I could have seen her before she passed away and most of my family is in Spring Hill Cemetery and so will I be one day beside my mom and dad who passed away when I was a kid! But I will never forget her I used to go visit her at her house with her sister a long time ago I will always remember her she was a great asset to E.C.Glass and Lynchburg!

Timothy Colin Campbell Sr

November 19, 2021

To any and all of us who attended Glass, Ms. McIvor was as sturdy a part of the school as the building itself. She will be remembered with fondness!

George Goodman

November 19, 2021

Sorry for the news of Shirley's death. She was an awesome neighbor full of joy that she shared graciously.

George and Sylvia

Vicky Gilbert

November 19, 2021

Dear Shirley, I'm so glad I was able to walk the last miles of your journey with you. It was my pleasure to be with you, had many great laughs and talks. I would always wear my dresses for you, because you would ask others "where is that girl that wears these pretty clothes" Shirley, I love you and miss you will hold you in my heart till we meet again. I pray you did find my parents and gave them my Message I whispered to you.

With love for you
Vicky Gilbert

Lida Taylor

November 17, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Mike Garrison

November 17, 2021

My condolences to the family in their loss.

Evelyn Duncan Saunders.

November 17, 2021

My deepest sympathy to her family. Shirley was a big part of my life in the earlier years. We attended Sunday school together as well as school . Later we were neighbors and played bridge for many years. She will be missed by many people.

Vivian F Hanks

November 17, 2021

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Betty Jean Montgomery Reid

November 17, 2021

Miss McIvor was very special to me and all of my husband´s family. While I was a student at Glass she helped and counseled me. I always thought I could go to her with a personal problem. She even put in a personal call to Radford admissions when I was first put on the waiting list to recommend me and set up a interview. I was accepted. She and Evelyn were invited to all family weddings and were the "life of the party". Later I had the pleasure of playing bridge with her.
As was said in the obituary, she had a tremendous positive impact on thousands of students. Final note, I always loved her way out glasses.

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