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Frederick Koehler Obituary

KOEHLER - Frederick W. "Buddy," 92, of New Suffolk on October 17th. Beloved husband of the late Agnes and Sharon. Predeceased by son, Thomas and son-in-law, Carl. Loving father of Mary Ellen Eye, Frederick W. Koehler III (Susan), Kathleen Koehler, Joan Pollina (William), Agnes Koehler, John Koehler (Donna), Ann Ward, Nora O'Connor (Michael), Jean Cutrone (Frank), Jayne Rumph (Charles), Scott Romond (Kristin); and daughter-in-law, Monique Koehler. Adored grandfather of 32 and great-grandfather of 22. Cherished brother of Marion Holmgaard. Founder of F. W. Koehler & Sons. Co-owner of Osprey's Dominion Winery. Visitation Wednesday, from 2-4 pm and 6-9 pm, at the Coster-Heppner Funeral Home, 32470 Main Road, Cutchogue, NY (www.northforkfuneralhome.corn). Funeral Mass Thursday, at 10 am at Our Lady of Ostrabrama Church. Burial with military honors to follow at Pinelawn Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, contributions to MercyFirst, 525 Convent Road, Syosset, NY 11791. vvww.mercyfirst.org.

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 19, 2021.

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32470 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935

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32470 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935

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