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John Thomas Mateer
December 24, 2022
Ten years without you has been harder than words could ever do justice explaining. I have had many trials and errors, but I have realized that my ability to get back up no matter what life throws at me - to never fall down and stay down - that ability comes from being your son. Being raised by a man who was as strong as you were but more importantly had an immense sense of empathy for others - never failed to reach out his hand when someone else needed it - it is indescribable the impact of being raised by such a man. It has given me what I can only describe as invincibility. Because you were invincible, dad. You are.
I will be seeing you again one day, dad.
In that, I have great faith.
Phil Gagler
January 3, 2013
Even though we only met a little over a year ago, I've alway felt a tight bond with you. Maybe it's because of our similar journeys but I tend to think it's because you're one of a kind and your crazy sense of humor.. I'm proud to have gotten the chance to know you, to laugh with you, and to call you a friend...
January 2, 2013
To my old school mate! You were a wonderful husband and father! Have not seen you recently but thought of you often. Was so hard for you after Carol was gone. I am Praying for your children and know they will carry you on in there hearts! RIP John! Enjoyed the time we caught up at my sister Dee's 4th of July parties.
Anthony Rimoli
January 2, 2013
JR, You were a very good friend and unfortunately we lost touch over the years. So sad to hear of your passing especially after Carol passed away about 8 years ago. Hopefully I can attend your funeral tomorrow. God Bless you and May you Rest in Peace.
Bob Hock
January 2, 2013
I love you buddy. Thank you for giving me joy over the last 30 years. I will never forget you.
January 2, 2013
I grew up with John. He was a great guy! A great friend! We stayed in touch through out the years. He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers our with his family.
Rick & Christine Welsch and family
Joe Scarano
January 1, 2013
I will always love you my brother. You will always be my BEST FRIEND. You will be in my heart forever and I will be there for your beautiful children.
Denise Zaino
January 1, 2013
Worked with Sgt Mateer when he was in the 3rd pct. He was a great guy. I wanted to let his children know how proud he was of his family. May he rest in peace.
Kathleen ,Taylor and Christina
January 1, 2013
Rest in Peace
joann ferraro
January 1, 2013
rest in peace my friend xoxo
Kathleen Welsch
December 31, 2012
I am so deeply sadden by this news. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Mateer family.John was a good friend. We had many good laughs growing up ,going to many hockey games (when the Islanders were winning '81 ,'82 etc.) Always there to go ice skating when nobody else wanted to.John was a good friend . He will be missed. Rest in Peace.
December 31, 2012
Our prayers are with the Mateer Family...
The Leibrock's
December 31, 2012
Erin, Bryan, John and Kelly....You are in my prayers as always. xox
Your Mom's Cousin - Annie
December 31, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss Erin, Bryan, John and Kelly. Your dad was a wonderful neighbor and friend and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Kathy and John McGann
December 31, 2012
John was a wonderful person and will be missed. We send our deepest sympathy to John's children and family.
Judy and Larry Isgro and family
Jerry Dolan
December 31, 2012
Rest in peace;My condolences to family.
Robert and Jackie Colasonno
December 31, 2012
Deepest sympathy and prayers to the Mateer Family. John will be missed. xo
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