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Matthew DOWER Obituary

DOWER - Matthew R. of Massapequa, formerly of Mineola, on July 27, 2012. Dearest Dad of Penelope Rose. Cherished son of Barbara & Roy (Nina). Beloved brother of Michael (Karol) and Caitlin Rose Moronta (Anthony). Dear grandson of Gerald Wachtel and husband of Jessica. Graduate of Kellenberg Memorial High School and Fordham University. Visiting 7-9pm Monday, 2-5 & 7-9pm Tuesday at Cassidy Funeral Home, 156 Willis Ave., Mineola. Funeral Mass 9:45am Wednesday at Corpus Christi Church, Mineola. Interment St. Charles Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations to the educational fund of his cherished daughter, Penelope Rose. www.CassidyFH.com

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Published by Newsday on Jul. 30, 2012.

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Susana Airey

August 10, 2012

Matty, we miss you so much, our life will be so different without you. I loved when we had stupid little fights and at the end it was always hugs and love. I met you for the first time well over ten years ago and I loved you since then. Thank you for being always there for Chris and the kids you guys were the best friends I've ever known. I miss you so much. Watch over us and I hope to see you again at the tailgate in heaven. We will alway try to get to know Penny better and we will always be here for them. Love you always.

John Benoit

August 2, 2012

You inspired me to try and be as good a father as you when I get older. Thank you for impacting my life shortly

Elizabeth Blake

August 2, 2012

Rest in peace, Matthew. Though I only knew you as Caitlyn's big brother back when we were kids, I'm so sad to learn of your passing. God bless you.

Alana Thomas

August 1, 2012

You will always be my Favorite Rock Star..Love You Always

Rebekah Brown-Wiseman

August 1, 2012

Trustworthy, good-hearted and genuine friends are hard to find. Matt fit all three for so many friends. His fun, sweet and loving demeanor would always bring a smile. He will be missed but live on in the beautiful memories that he left behind for us to cherish and through his precious daughter, Penny.

Bridget Richards

August 1, 2012

Matt, you will be sorely missed. You are an amazing person. Rest in Peace my friend, rest in peace.

Daphney

July 31, 2012

Matt you were such a good person and a good co-worker. You have no idea how Nyrae and I feel over here at UPS. U were awesome. I'm happy to have met you.

Patricia Lachchabi (Hoffman)

July 31, 2012

I am so sorry for your lost . The last time I seen Matthew we were little kids . My dad (Billy ) called me today and told me .

Will Pendleton

July 31, 2012

Matt,

Go Home with a Marg in your hand and a song in your heart. You will be missed by so many of us.

Denise Parrish

July 31, 2012

Matt, I only met you once, but that's all it took for me to know the kind of person you were. I'm happy I had that moment with you. I will always remember it, and you.

Larry Villegas

July 30, 2012

Matt...thanks for the great times in high school. You will be surely missed. My heart and prayers to the family

Matt and I at the Under the tent dance Fordham University

Christine Fogarty

July 30, 2012

Matt, I just came back from your wake. My heart breaks for you, and your daughter. It had been so long.... but I will cherish the memories from high school and college forever. Thank you for the Jolly Tinker, Singing and writing at Rodrigue's, riding cafeteria trays in the snow at 4am, Pugly's chicken rolls and Nine Inch Nails. Thank you for sharing our love of Depeche Mode. "Somebody" will always make me think of you. From Les Miserables to Phantom, singing at my Dad's piano.... oh Matt... you are gone far too soon. Rest in Peace, Ace amongst the Angels. Watch over us. You will never be forgotten. xo

Jennifer Dalton Murale

July 30, 2012

Matt, words can't express how much you will be missed. Our years of friendship I will always hold close to my heart. Take care of your beautiful Penny, and be an angel on my shoulder as well. I love you always my friend.

Cathleen McCarthy

July 30, 2012

”Mmmmm....good berries!” With a smile for all and a gleam in your eye is how I will always remember you my dear cousin. You are adored and will be missed by many!

Mimi Slatkin

July 30, 2012

Barbara, Michael & Cate,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cathi Brassen-Jacobs

July 30, 2012

Matt, words can no express how much you will be missed. You always brought a huge smile and your wonderful energy to every situation. I cherish our friendship and will hold you in my heart forever.

Linda and Timothy Coffey

July 30, 2012

Dear Barbara and Roy,
We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
God Bless with Love,
Linda and Tim Coffey

Betty Kashefsky

July 30, 2012

Our sincerest sympathy at this sad time. Our hearts are with
you.

Christopher Airey

July 30, 2012

Matthew was my confidant, Best Man and dearest friend of over 30 years; his memory will live with me always.

Stephen Clark

July 30, 2012

matt we love you a sooo much!! and miss you my heart is broken but we know your always still be with us Im just missing that smile and laugh so much OXOXOX 'GOD BLESS YOU FRIEND

Today, God got another angel. Matt ? R.I.P
It's hard to believe that someone that I have known and Loved all my life, is just gone. Penny will always remember what an amazing father you are and how much you love her. Taken way too soon. Love you soo much. xoxoxoxo ? I will always rember any time with you, you and mike would take out the guitar and play "Sweet Melissa" for me. I will always be your sweet melissa, and whenever I hear that song, I know that is your way of saying "hey kid" to me.
Love always,
Melissa Clark

This weekend we were struck with terribly sad news so this week's Random Picture Monday is going to move away from the usual goofy side and pay tribute to our fallen peer in music, Matt Dower of REVEL 9. While we only knew him for a short couple years he was without a doubt one of the classiest dudes we have ever come across in our music world. A great player and one with a penchant for silliness we got along famously and adored the guy. He'll sorely be missed. Our hearts go out to all who's lives were touched by him. Here's to you brother. We'll catch your next solo on the other side. -BBS

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Gwen Flower matt we love you a sooo much!! and miss you my heart is broken but we know your always still be with us Im just missing that smile and laugh so much OXOXOX 'GOD BLESS YOU FRIEND

July 30, 2012

My deepest regrets to friends/family
of Matthew. May God comfort you all
throughout the grieving period.
Sincerely
Rose

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