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for Robert Pagliarulo
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Philip
January 16, 2021
❤
Lisa
January 15, 2021
Our Son is so handsome...
Lisa
January 15, 2021
Phil’s High School Grad photo... I didn’t know guestbook still exists. Thankful...
Lisa
January 15, 2021
Phil’s High School Grad photo... I didn’t know this still exists.
Judy Smutny
September 19, 2020
Miss you all the time. I’m always remembering things we did and tell Steve he would have loved knowing you. Will always love you.
Judy Smutny
September 20, 2019
My dear,sweet,Bobby. You are missed by so many who feel the need to keep your spirit alive. You touched so many and will remain in our hearts forever.
Love you and miss your smile. So much I would have loved to share with you.
Richard Pagliarulo
September 19, 2019
Dear Brother Bobby
You are always in our hearts and in our prayers. You left us too soon! We never stop missing you. I was talking with a dear friend from our early years who was not doing well. We were recalling our past, the happy and the sad. You became a bright spot in our conversation! It was John Bousquet. Remember him. He said he'll never forget your love of BK Whoppers with EXTRA EVERYTHING!! We laughed and remembered you warmly.
I love and miss you brother, immensely, and always will.
Sincerely,
Your brother Richard (Richie)
Richard Pagliarulo
June 29, 2010
Dear Brother Robert:
Remember when we were kids, Mom would always hold our birthday parties at the Amityville Beach, and bake those delicious sponge cakes with the strawberries, apple sauce, crushed pineapple and whipped cream!!!! I hope she bakes one for you tomorrow!! Happy Birthday!!
Miss you always,
Love,
Rich
scott vanduzer
July 17, 2009
lisa, there is not a week that goes by that i do not think of bobby. some little thing always makes me think of him . he is missed.
Marie Howell
May 27, 2009
Dear Lisa,
I'm so sorry, as I have said before, for your loss. I hope that you can some comfort from our support group at: http://www.meetup.com/Widows-ers-With-Children-at-Home
Please join us for support.
Very sincerely,
Marie Howell
Lisa Pagliarulo
January 12, 2009
I will remember and honor you everyday of my life. I will carry you in my heart everywhere life takes me. The gift of life you gave to a very lucky person will never go unnoticed. You left us far too soon, but I know that you are resting peacefully in a far better place. I love you and until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
BRENT BECKER
December 18, 2008
DEAR LISA I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.AND AS FOR PHILLIP I'M SURE HIS DAD IS LOOKING DOWN AT HIM AND VERY PROUD OF HIM AND THE WAY HIS MOTHER IS BRINGING HIM UP.LOVE ALWAYS BRENT.
Sallly C.
December 13, 2008
Lisa-Prayers for you and your son, Philip, to have a beautiful holiday and to find peace and love and comfort in the memories of your husband. God Bless,
Sally
Jill Sammis Romero
November 26, 2008
Lisa and Phillip, very sorry for your loss. Will keep your family in my prayers. God will take care of you and yours. Take care of each other.
Lisa Pagliarulo
November 26, 2008
You are in all of our hearts for Thanksgiving.
Happy 15th Birthday To Our Son Today! We love you Bobby!
Daniel Bozza
November 24, 2008
Dear Lisa and Phillip, I did not know Robert but I do remember you Lisa and if you picked him he must have been a great guy. Phillip, your a lucky guy to have a mom like lisa, cherish her as I'm sure she cherishes you.
LISA PAGLIARULO
November 24, 2008
TO THOSE WHO COME ON TO SIGN & I TOLD YOU ABOUT THE PHOTO SHOW I'M SORRY IT'S NOT HERE I WILL TRY MY HARDEST TO GET IT BACK ON ESPECIALLY FOR MY SON WHEN HE IS READY TO READ THIS GUEST BOOK. THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR SIGNING ROBERTS GUEST BOOK. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU!
Lisa
November 23, 2008
My Dearest Bobby,
Missing you terribly with Philip's 15th birthday on Wednesday it's a BIG day he is getting his learners permit to DRIVE! All that gets me through is knowing you are watching over him and keeping him safe & to remain strong. I MISS YOU TERRIBLY not a day has gone by that I don't think of you Bobby. We will all be thinking of you on Thanksgiving on the beach at My Sisters. Happy Birthday to our precious Son Philip!
Cathy Fromia
October 5, 2008
Dear Lisa, Phillip, Richard,Marc, Dianne, and the Pagliarulo family.
Bobby made us laugh with his jokes and wonderful sense of humor. When he use to visit us he brighten up the room. Being with Bobby made you feel special. With his sincere kindness and gentle way he always found the light or the light found him.
My parents thought he was a character and of course enjoyed his company.He loved the sea and the ocean. I remember his love for animals, horseback riding, and motorcycles. The fishing trips, and playing in our yard as a kid were fond memories. Cousin Bobby my thoughts are with you. To Lisa and Phillip and the Pagliarulo family thank you for keeping the memory of Bob in our hearts and minds.
Regards.
Cathy Fromia
vito lombardo
July 2, 2008
God bless you Bobby, unfortunately your life was short im sure it was wonderful & you are a lucky guy to have had Lisa & Phillip in your life.....
Bobby Davis
July 2, 2008
I'm a fellow Amityvillian and a friend of your wife Lisa, so i wanted to pay my respects in honor of your birthday. Lisa always spoke highly of you and has worked hard to keep your memory alive with your son Philip. She is a wonderful mom and has a loving spirit, and it means a lot to your son to be able to see all the people who cared about you in life sign this guest book. may your spirit be at peace.
Yilian Fraga
July 2, 2008
Many Blessings for you and your family Lisa.
glenn
July 2, 2008
Prayers of love and comfort lifted in Robert's name and for all his loved ones. God speed to Robert Pagliarulo in his further journey and to all those touched by his life and miss him.
Chris Banzet
July 1, 2008
When someone is taken that means so much it's hard to
find the value that could ever fill the void.
This is why we turn to our memories they leave behind.
No words or gestures can seem to fill us like the
very thought of their memories.
We find a day or two may pass without so much as
a thought, only to find on the third
A meddle of reminders which catches us up in
thoughts and a tear forms.
What does it genuinely mean to be loved?
To be missed?
To be needed?
For just on the other side someone waits with
the same feelings we have.
And it is in these moments, that we must
wipe away the tears, replace the frowns
And put on our smile of love for having shared
such wonderful time, with someone we value so much.
And it is now that we live with hope, patience
and a surety that one day we shall see them again!
The Bible promises that our loved ones wait for us,
as we wait for them.
And through our saddened hearts, let us not forget that
someday it will never be goodbye again.
For someday we will get to wrap our arms around them
And once more know the value of their presence in our lives.
The value of a friend, a partner, a loved one, a part of you
that has once more returned.
IN THE LOVING MEMORY OF:
Robert J. Pagliarulo
Julie Villarreal
July 1, 2008
Hey Bob,
Happy belated birthday! I wish so much that we could have spent more time together as we did when we lived across the street. I will truly miss you always and the memories we have of your family and ours will remain in our hearts forever. Much love.
Philip & best friend Theo on our Summer Vacation to Captiva, FL
Lisa Pagliarulo
July 1, 2008
Dear family & friends, I had made a beautiful slide show of Bobby, & family but it's not here anymore, some of you have seen it, but to those who haven't please stop by again soon as I will try and get it back on. (I suppose it has to be renewed). I am having a copy of this book made for my Son's keepsake box of his Dad and the slide show along with all of the beautiful entries the photos added the perfect touch. Coming back here was difficult but with all of you who took the time to stop by again & to those new friends who are stopping by for the first time will truly help me smile and give me the courage to read it again. God Bless All of You! With Much Love & Appreciation for being wonderful family & friends to us, making us smile through your support & encouragement throughout the past 3 years. Thank you all & may God Bless Bobby's family & friends. This photo if it posts is of Philip & his best friend Theo on our recent summer vacation to Captiva. A beautiful place with many memories of past trips with Bobby & family. Philip LOVED it I took him to all the places his Dad loved.
Andre Weisbrod
July 1, 2008
As a more recent friend of Lisa's, I can only imagine how special Robert was. I pray that God will grant Lisa, Philip, Richard and all the extended family a special blessing in good memories and inspiration to always know that life matters more than we can know.
Jill Fisher
July 1, 2008
My thoughts and prayers to you Lisa and Philly on the third year anniversary of the day that Bobby went Home to Heaven. I have candle lit in his memory here.
Extended sympathies to your entire family.
With Love,
Jill and Sarah
Philip, Theo & Bubby last month
Lisa Pagliarulo
July 1, 2008
Phil, Me & Theo went to our favorite place for summer vacation it was difficult for me to visit Captiva again without you, I took Phil to all our favorite places he loved it, here is a photo Phil & Theo and our other trip to Vans Skate Park with me sandy & boys. We love you Bobby. I hope Photo posts
Lisa Pagliarulo
July 1, 2008
Happy Birthday My Love. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I Love you forever, Until We Meet Again Keep watching over Philip and me forever.
Richard Pagliarulo
June 30, 2008
Dear Brother Bob:
Happy third birthday in heaven. Miss you a lot and think of you daily. Wish you had visited the farm. I know you would have loved it. You are still alive in all of our hearts.
Your brother Richie
lorraine holmes
February 29, 2008
Bobby I think of you every day,Little scott caries you with him in his truck pics and angel Big scott has a really hard time with being left with no brother, I well words would never explain the void so deep! Yor Philman has really grown and him and Lisa are there for eachother she is the best MOM I miss you bob so much it hurts just keep watching over us all luv you Lorraine
Lisa Pagliarulo
July 28, 2007
My Dear Bobby,
I found the tape yesterday that you brought to me to cheer me up after my Mother passed away "Little Eva" and you told me to replace Eva with Lisa. I've been making a memory box for Philip with all of your belongings that Philip will cherish when he is older. I put the tape of Little Eva in it along with a note telling him the story behind it. I've been writing a journal since you left us for Philip on all of the special memories we all shared together. I know and feel you are watching over Philip and hearing my prayers to you every night to watch over him keep him safe and help him to remain strong. Every day I look into Philip's eyes I see you and he has your compassion and so much more of your inner and outer beauty. He has grown into such a handsome boy I am told all the time! He has your eyes, your features, your wonderful kind gentle disposition and I am TRULY thankful for that and so much more you have given to him. I am told all the time what a wonderful Son we have raised and thank you for giving me the greatest gift of my life. You would be so proud of him, especially his strength and courage. One of the many hardest days of being alone as a parent was his graduation from PBA. He and Theo both lost their Dads and the principal gave them a courage award. Not being able to hold your hand and you not being by my side at his school plays and graduation has been more than difficult. I pray to you every night Bob to give me the courage and strength to help me be the best parent I can be to our Son. He loves skateboarding now and I love the way talks to me about you and happy memories, he recently said "remember when Dad planted the yellow poinciana"? He has been pointing out the poinciana trees now. I have a part of you everyday beside me the greatest most wonderful Son a parent could ask for and I always get compliments like we always did on what a special boy he is. Thank you for being right beside me and letting me know we will be okay. THANK YOU for bringing me that sense of peace I feel from you. Loosing my Mom was I thought the hardest thing I ever had to go through but the worst pain that will never go away as a Mother is looking into Philip's eyes everyday knowing he lost his best friend YOU his Father the most wonderful Father a child could ever ask for you were the BEST Dad to him and I am only thankful that he had you for 12 years and will remember all of those special memories you have given to him. God Bless You My Sweet Bob. Little "Eva" will remain in my heart forever and keep me smiling. Thank you for the many beautiful memories you have given to me that we shared. I love you "until we meet again" another memory I also wrote about that to Philip why we said that. Smiling thinking of that special memory also. Love, Lisa
Judy Pagliarulo
July 3, 2007
Dearest Bobby,
Oh how you are missed. Every time I hear the patio door open and shut, I think it must be you and Phil, but no such luck. 4th of July will always remind me of you and your chicken wings, I haven't made them since you are gone, it's just not the same. I know you are with us, and I only hope Phil is okay, I have asked to see him, but my requests have gone unanswered. We all love you and miss you terribly.
Much love, Judy
July 1, 2007
I often pass through the old neighborhood and each time, I think of you!! I watched the Bronx Tale the other night and thought so much of you, Li and Philip!! What great times we had!! I miss you greatly!!
With all my Love,
Vanessa
Richard Pagliarulo
June 30, 2007
Dearest Brother:
Happy second birthday in heaven!! You would have been 60 today!!.. Miss you terribly...you left a big hole!!! Think of you daily.
Love, your brother, Richard
Lisa Pagliarulo
November 25, 2006
Dear Bob,
I have come here to write to you many times but there is too much I want to say to you too long to write here. We are at Lorraine & Scotts for Thanksgiving and celebrating Philip's 13th birthday our tradition we all did together each year. We miss you everyday and not a day goes by that we don't think of you and miss you terribly. It's the holidays that are hard especially Philip's b'day and knowing how much you loved Thanksgiving up in Stuart frying the turkey on the beach. You would be so proud of Philip he is learning to skateboard and this is now his passion. Our Son is 13! We miss you terribly and love you Bob. I write to you in a journal which helps when I miss you or Philip has achieved something that day I want to tell you. I will say goodbye for now on here I love you my sweet Bob. You were an amazing Father to Philip and I am truly blessed to have a beautiful Son inside and out. Thank you for the most precious gift of my life our Son he is truly an inspiration not only to me but to so many people in our lives that truly admire his strength and courage. He is such a special child and I always get compliments on what a wonderful Son I have as you did too. I just had a taste of honey baked ham for the first time without you and it brought me straight here to let you know we are thinking of you but more so this weekend and Philip now a teenager tomorrow! You are in our hearts forever. Love, Lisa
Richard Pagliarulo
July 1, 2006
Dear Brother Bob: You were in my thoughts all day. We all miss you very much. Marc visited the cemetery yesterday and left some flowers for you, Mom and Dad. Ginnie Bott stopped by while Marc was there and they spent a few hours by the fountain. God Bless You and Happy 59th Birthday in Heaven.
Your brother Richard.
Denise Pagliarulo
June 29, 2006
Happy Birthday, Uncle Bob! (Tomorrow - 30 June) You are always in our thoughts. Love, Denise and Piers
vanessa fuelling
January 22, 2006
My Dearest Bobby,
Where did you go? It has been 4 months now and it seems like an eternity since you have left us all. My memories of you are and always will be in my heart. I grew up knowing you, as well as Chris did. You taught us so much about life...loving and giving. I miss you, your laughter, your kindness and your love for the people who loved and cared for you. There is not one moment that goes by that I don't think of you.
P.S. I miss your chicken wings and Jumbo shrimps... I have made the shrimps and shared them with friends and they all rave over them. The chicken wings are a whole other story.... I love you Always...
Vanessa
Jill, Greg, Sarah
December 28, 2005
Merry Christmas in Heaven Bobby. I went to NYC and lit a candle for you last week at St. Patrick's Cathedral, one for Lisa and Phillip too, that they might find the strength to remember your laughter and hope for the future.
Sleep in Heavenly Peace buddy.
With Love.
Suzanne Hosang
December 24, 2005
Dear Lisa & Philip,
You are both in my thoughts. Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a bright New Year filled with peace.
Always cherish your fond memories and keep them close to you. They will give you strength and comfort.
Stephanie Pagliarulo
December 23, 2005
Dear Lisa and Philip, I think of you both on a daily basis and pray for the both of you. I can't imagine how you both must feel going through the holidays without Bobby. He was truley a wonderful man and someone that will never be forgotton. If you need anything please call. Tell Philip we love him and his cousins miss him. Merry Christmas.
Love Stephanie, Dave, Christian and Emma
Chris Banzet
December 22, 2005
In our lives we can remember a certain Teddy Bear or Bike, New Glove or that special gift that we will always cherish. No matter what gifts we receive in the future that one gift is the one we measure them by, and truly from the messages of love shared here Bobby was this gift. A value that can't ever be taken away. In our minds and hearts we will always remember the way we felt when a great gift like Bobby was there for us to treasure. During holidays like this its so very easy to allow ourselves to let the hurt of missing something take over, but we only need to think of the days we spent to revisit the treasure that will always remain in our hearts. This Christmas I give thanks to all the Bobbys and Marys that have touched our lives in such a deep way. I smile now just thinking of the luck I had to be the person who knew such a GREAT person. God Bless to all and I wish Lisa, Phillip and Bobby's family the greatest of God's love.
Chris Banzet
Jesper Ravn
December 22, 2005
Dear Lisa and Philip
A merry christmas for both of you in this year, which has taken quite a toll on all of us.
Our thoughts go out to you.
Love Jesper, Pernille, Karolina and Sofia
Kacey Long
December 20, 2005
Dear Lisa,
Merry Christmas, Dear Friend! I can't believe you and Phillip were braving the outdoor Christmas lights yourselves! You are such an amazing woman and I know that Phillip sees such strength in you. The wonderful thing in having each other means that when one of you is having a particularly bad day, you can lean on the stronger one and find such comfort in each other. I hope that your family takes comfort in one another this holdiay season and that you all find joy in the smallest of things.
Lisa Pagliarulo
December 18, 2005
Dear Bob,
Philip and I miss you terribly especially during your favorite Christmas holiday. We know you are watching over us always. Philip is excited to see his cousins for Christmas and you know we are always happy when we are there in Stuart with Lorraine, Scott, & your nephews Scott, Jordan & Matt. Philip and I decorated the yard and put out your favorite reindeer in the Island. We also put white lights in your favorite tree the Apple Blossom and Philip said "let's get a one colorful one for Dad". We miss you so much Bob and will always love you. You are in our hearts forever. Love your Wife Lisa & Son Philip HUGS & KISSES TO YOU IN HEAVEN EVERY DAY from both of us. Merry Christmas my Sweet Bob.
Yilian Fraga
December 16, 2005
May your family find comfort in remembering the holidays you spent together. I hope that you are blessed with the peace to get through this time of the year and with divine grace which help you look towards a hopeful future.
Richard Pagliarulo
December 16, 2005
Bobby, you are in my thoughts every day. It hurts not to be able to see you and speak to you today, as much as the day we lost you. You will never be out of my heart. Take care of Dad and Mom. I love you. Your brother Richard
Lynn Murray-Shea
December 12, 2005
I've only meet Bobby a handful of times, but what a great guy. He was such a wonderful father he truly adored Philip. Bobby will always be watching over Philip and Lisa. Our thought and prayers are with you always. Love- Lynn, Casey, Patrick & Emilee. xoxoxox
Doug Hines
November 30, 2005
We were so sorry. This has been a difficult year
Kacey Long
November 20, 2005
Dear Lisa,
I just read the email and my heart goes out to you, Phillip, and your entire family. I'm sad to hear that another one of your loved ones (Bobby's mother) has passed away so soon. It seems to be raining hard on all of you...you guys must be so strong to handle all of this. There's a wonderful book I've found recently and you and your family may truly find peace in it. It's called "Heaven", by Randy Alcorn. I'm not sure if I've mentioned it to you yet, but it's the most uplifting, exciting, Bibilically-based book on Heaven I've ever even heard of. No one knows what to say when life seems so unfair, but maybe you'll find some comfort in the words of the book. My thoughts are with you and Phillip this holiday season.
Chris Banzet
November 18, 2005
Lisa,
that was INCREDIBLY beautiful (the photo show you made) and I can only begin to fathom the amount of love that was shared between your family and those who knew Robert. I have been praying very much for the comfort and placement of calm over your family as they still try to unravel the events that have happened. And although there will be a time for emotional loss, we must always thank the Lord for the incredible memories that touched us as Robert was here by our sides. It isn't until we can appreciate that there is an eternal life and that someday we will all meet again that we can begin to fill the void between our distance we now face. We must know that our loved one waits with open arms to greet us at the end of our own life's journey. Yet to the life that remains, we must humble to God's will and understand that there is still those we have left to touch here before we are allowed to once again embrace those who have left us. Even from far beyond, we can still feel their love reaching out to us and calming us, telling us everything will be ok. They have but only journeyed to the other side and will warmly greet us on the day that our Lord calls out our name in the book of life. :) On Earth they have touched us with their love and their hearts, now their memories serve as building blocks to our hearts walls that were torn down the day we knew they wouldn't be here with us to walk in the sand. Let us ALWAYS remember the love that built the house around us and remember that goodbye from passing is only a short stay in the realm of eternity. For once their will be a day when we all stand hand in hand again and time will no longer be something we must count for we will all enjoy the wondrous gift of eternity together with our loved ones.
I hope that God reaches down his hands and comforts your pain and brings to you a comfort that only his love can do. I know that these steps must now be taken by you alone, and with the help of family and friends God knows that you have the strength to do so. Although I did not know Robert, I know that only a man with great strength and an abundance of love could have ever held your heart. So I say this with that in mind, that Robert would see you smile in his memory, rejoice in what you shared, and to "live" that time you have between now and the day you are called to his side with value in each day, love for each person close to you and above all a willingness to make each day as precious as it truly is.
My friend, I will always keep you and Phillip close in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that time will bring you the comfort and the peace in knowing that life comes to us all, and so does passing. It is the promise from God that makes all things ok. It is the promise of eternal life, his love and his blessing... I pray that the Lord help you to better understand all three. to give you the comfort, guidance and value each new sunrise brings. God Bless my friend... God Bless!!
Chris Banzet
Lisa Pagliarulo
November 15, 2005
I wanted everyone to know that DR. BURKE at the University of Miami is the surgeon that did Robert's kidney transplant 10 years ago. He and all of the Doctor's on the transplant team are the most loving, WONDERFUL most caring Doctors EVER! When I saw Dr. Burke walking down that hallway after he did Bobby's transplant and said "everything went fine and Robert will be okay" I can't explain the feeling of that moment. It was almost surreal. Vanessa Fuelling sat with me for the four hour surgery waiting it seemed like days. When I saw Bobby for the first time, I couldn't believe my eyes, he was pink again like a newborn baby, he looked like the old Bob again. I later saw Dr. Burke in the elevator and I gave him the biggest HUG ever, he saved my husband's life! Words cannot express that feeling. I will and have been forever grateful to you Dr. Burke.
Dr. Burke
November 15, 2005
Lisa, I finally got my computer to work, and watched your photoshow of Robert. It is a very thoughtful tasteful tribute to a wonderful man. Thanks for sharing it with me. My sincere condolences to you and the family. I know the happy memories are the ones that will last. DrBurke
LISA PAGLIARULO
November 15, 2005
As of 11/15/05 very generous donations were made in memory of Robert to the Organ Donation - University of Miami - Organ Recovery Agency Life Alliance $1,050.00: I want to thank: Bill & Didi Paty, Patti & Jim Nolan, The Rice Family, Carmen, Donald & Mike Murphy, Palmetto Bay Christian Academy, Sheila Rodgers, Irwin Rubin of Miami Real Estate Company, Edward & Judith Coffin, Nancy Reimer, Esther N. Czeisel, Virginia & John Bott, Emma Vurro & Bi-Hua-Woo I want to thank all of you as this means so much to myself and my family, Bobby would be so proud. In due time I will be volunteering for this agency as they have saved Robert's life 10 years ago and I cannot express enough how important this agency is! THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE! Love, Lisa I will continue to thank each and every person who has made a donation as they tend to trickle in.
sammy and Linda Flores
November 10, 2005
God bless you. I pray that the words I shared with you and your family will encourage you.
Trust in Christ. Keep your eyes set on Him, for He knows your pain and He understands. Cast Your cares on Him, the scriptures say.
The Holidays are coming and they can bring on sadness, but remember the Lord is with you. You are not abone.
God bless you, your friend Sammy and Linda
Howard Wong
November 7, 2005
Lisa,
Even thou I never met your Husband, He must of been very blessed to have you in his life, our Prayers go out to you and your son.
Love,
Howard Wong,and sons,
Nicholas(21) and Eric(18)
Keri West
November 1, 2005
I just want the family to know how much we will all miss Bobby. I met him years ago through Lorraine. I remember going to Miami to visit with Lorraine and Bobby was so funny and made me feel at home. We ate lox and bagels for breakfast and talked about his garden and old Miami. I was really taken by what a great guy he was. When he and Lisa had Phillip you had never seen a more proud father and I knew he would be one of the best dads. Years later I heard he was sick and then blessed with a kidney. I knew GOD had a hand in that. He had time he desperately struggled to have with his little man. I didnt see him too often but the last time I remember was at Lorraines house on the drive, for her birthday. When I drove up Bobby stopped playing basketball to come give a hug and say hi. We chatted a bit and of course he showed his little man off who was jumping in the pool. These are my memories of a wonderful man, full of life, hope, joy and devoted to his family. WOW, what an honor it was to meet him, know him and call him my friend. I pray for Bobby's family that thier faith sustains them through this difficult time and that GOD reassures them of his promises. To little Phillip, I just want you to know, you always have a fishing buddy with me, and that if you ever have any gardening questions or just need a pal,I am always here for you. Your father wanted you to experience things in life that you and he would always have. Treasure your memories by keeping them alive in you life. I understand your quite the young man with major fishing skills. I hope one day you and I will get to go fishin so you can show off. I Love you and your mom very much. I also wanted to tell Bobby's brother how sorry I am. I know this is a hard time to adjust to. Remember the LORD's prayer to give you comfort. It helped me and I pray it helps you.
GOD Bless all of you at this time.
Keri
Will Loftin
October 30, 2005
Know that you will see your loved ones again. Remember, God chose your family because He knows you can handle this. You are in my prayers. God bless you and your family.
- Will
Lisa Pagliarulo
October 29, 2005
Thank you to Judy Pagliarulo and Mike for being my support when I first got to the hospital there was no way I could have done that alone and without you both. I will be forever grateful. Love, Lisa
LISA & PHILIP Pagliarulo
October 28, 2005
Dear Bob,
Me & Philip miss you SO MUCH. You would be so proud of Philip helping me after Hurricane Wilma. I was so SAD to see your beautiful yard in such a mess, all those trees you and Philip planted together. I know you have been watching over us and are proud of both of us for all the work we have been doing to try to save as many trees as we could. We are cleaning your boat, the pool is now back to almost perfect. Philip worked hard all day diving with his mask to get all the debris. I now know HOW MUCH work you did in this yard! Every tree has some kind of meaning to all of us. The lychee tree I bought you in 1992 I can't tell if it will live it is such a mess but I will plant another one, the oak tree Chris & Lynne Fuelling put back up. The apple blossom in the front Craig's Son & Chris put back up. I am SO GRATEFUL for Lynne, Chris & Suzanne they helped us tremendously cleaning up. I don't know what I would have done without them. Richard & Diane sent the guys over to board up the house and Richard took care of the generator and I am very thankful for their help! Slowly things will come together, it's just been overwhelming. I will get your yard to as perfect as I can and I will keep up the maintenance to make the yard beautiful like you had it. We miss you every single day and night. I know you are laughing at me having to learn all of these hard things you did around the yard, the pool etc...Philip's fish tanks and on and on, but I'm learning and doing the best I can, I am determined. I just want to thank Lynne, Chris & Suzanne Fuelling who not only helped us clean up but they kept my mind strong when I was breaking down crying looking at your yard, sad and angry that you are not with us, they were there by my side and still are. They miss you so much, Chris has the BIGGEST heart and saved your oak tree and Apple Blossom. Chris knows how hard it is for me & Philip here and Lynne & Suzanne. They are like family and always have been there for us. Richard got the generator working and bought us gas and I thank him as he and Diane have a lot going on with your Mom & Parker Sod. Richard is truly devastated by your loss and it breaks my heart to the pain he is feeling and your Mom. Philip is absolutely amazing Bob, we have been very strong together since you have been gone but say our prayers every night and miss your energetic, happy, loving presence. Being in this house without you is the hardest thing I think I will ever have to do and I am doing my best for our Son. Please watch over us and help us get through everything together. I am in tears writing this to you as the night time is the hardest when things have calmed down and it's so quiet here. I miss you so much it hurts, but I am strong and will remain strong for Philip. Please watch over Richard as I worry about him everyday, he has SO much to deal with on top of losing you. He has been helping with the TON of paperwork that has to be done for Philip and me to be able to live a happy life ahead. I am so appreciative for all he has been doing for us. Richard & Diane I can't thank you enough for all you have been doing for Philip, driving in one day to Stuart to see Aunt Lorraine Uncle Scott and his cousins, Diane taking him to buy his suit which I was not able to do at the time and he looked SO HANDSOME. They took him to a nature place one night and he had a blast! Lorraine & Scott were my support when you were in the hospital and Lorraine stayed with me the whole time. You would be happy Scott put in a new microwave Philip is SO happy with! Please watch over Lorraine & Scott now as they are dealing with SO MUCH right now with the hurricane. "IF I COULD REACH UP AND HOLD A STAR FOR EVERY TIME YOU'VE MADE ME SMILE, THE ENTIRE EVENING SKY WOULD BE IN THE PALM OF MY HAND". I am working on getting your beautiful photos on this site as I am perfecting them before they are posted. You will be very proud once this is done. To read all the love and support friends/family have wrote helps ease the pain. SO MANY PEOPLE loved you Bob as you had that everlasting friendliness towards so many people, you have touched a lot of lives. I love you for that. Love, your wife Lisa (Latifah) as you had a nickname for everyone and that one makes me laugh!
Bob and Mom
October 26, 2005
Denise Pagliarulo
October 26, 2005
Dear Uncle Bob,
It is so hard to understand why this happened, and we all miss you very much. I’ll forever be grateful that we saw each other two weeks before the accident. I’ll remember you laughing and talking with me about scuba diving. Philip was there too, and you told me how smart he is and about his school projects. The pride in your voice and eyes was unmistakable, and I thought how beautiful it is to see the love between father and son, and what a great dad you are to Philip. When we said goodbye, only God knew what would happen, and I was just excited that I would see you again at my wedding on October 1st. Though you couldn’t be there physically, I know you were at my wedding anyway. The way the sun was shining down on us, I know that you were up there looking out for us! You were in our hearts that day, and you will live on in our hearts always. I know that you’ll also be watching when one day Philip comes to visit cousins Denise and Piers, and we all go scuba diving together just like we talked about. I love you! Your Goddaughter, Denise
Margie Wlazlo
October 23, 2005
Lisa/Philip,
We will miss seeing Bob outside working on his yard with Philip by his side. His was such a part of the neiborhood that it is hard to image that he is not long physically here. I know he and Philip were very close. I am sure no words can take away your grief, but remember that you were both very fortunate to have such a wonderful man as husband and father. He is still here in spirit and is watching over you both. If there is anything you need, do not hesitate to ask.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Love Margie, Adam, Andrew and Patrick.
Patti Nolan
October 19, 2005
Dear Lisa & Philip:
We feel blessed to have been your friends and neighbors for these past 8 years. Bobby was a wonderful man, friend and role model to Ian. Ian will always treasure the many hours spent boating, fishing and exploring with Bobby and Philip and for that we will be forever grateful. His smile and laughter were contagious. Please know you and Philip are in our hearts and prayers and we will be there if you need us.
Love
Jim, Patti, Ian and Erin Nolan
Chris Fuelling
October 18, 2005
Lisa and Phillip,
Bob was a true man of character, with strong morals and values. His love for nature is something I will always remember as he would scold me when I was growing up for catching and messing with the lizards,ducks and fish. Bob was always teaching Phillip about life and nature and was such a good Father. We can only pray for God's strength to help us during this loss and allow time to heal our pain.
My heart and prayers go to you both and I will always be around for you guys because I feel like FAMILY.
With my love and sympathy,
Chris Fuelling
Rogene Schorer
October 18, 2005
May God grant bring Peace to you in your time of grief. . . May God bring Healing to you in your time of sorrow. He will get you through until tomorrow. God Bless
Pam Tabor
October 17, 2005
Lisa & Philip
Words can not express the feelings of loss and hurt that come with the death of a loved one. You are blessed with so many friends and with the knowledge that God is looking out for you both. I will continue to pray that God will keep you close to his heart.
Mrs. Tabor
monique loffler
October 16, 2005
Dear Lisa and Philip: i just found out by Susanne and Lynne of Boby's passing. I am deeply sorry dear Lisa, and i hope the Good Lord give you both the strenth to overcome such a loss.I am also deeply moved to know of his generous last wish.
I hope to see you both soon.
Love, Monique Loffler
Beth Schaffer
October 16, 2005
Hi Lisa,
I heard about the loss of your husband. We do not know each other but I heard about what happened through a mutual friend.
I want to extend my sympathies and let you know that your family will be in my thoughts.
rama kaur
October 15, 2005
Dear Lisa:
Even though I've never met you my heart goes out to you. I know what it feels like to ache so badly for someone but I also do know that it gets better over time. The loss will never go away but your ability to deal with it will gradually improve. Know that your family and friends care and even those who have only heard about you too. I believe when someone passes their spirit and energy is still here - it's only that we as humans can no longer see them. It's like they're on another frequency that we can not reach. You and your husband shared many wonderful years together and that will always be the both of yous forever. Whenever you feel sad just remember that his love for you endures and nothing can ever take that away. May God bless you and your son.
Love Rama
Cheyenne Eagle
October 15, 2005
Hellow, my name is Cheyenne Eagle and I spoke at the Extream Measures Tour with Kacey Long back in April. I am truley so sorry to hear about this loss of yours lisa. I absoulutely know how it feels to lose someone so close. I have no doubt that he was a beautiful spirit. I know that this is one of the most difficult times in your life right now but something that I strongly believe is that everything is temporary and this intense pain will also pass, but ist's just going to take time. I will pray that you and your family suffer as little as possible. I know you will get through this. Take care and God Bless You.
Colleen McKenzie
October 15, 2005
I received an email from a mutual friend about the passing of your husband and I wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. You and your son will be in my prayers.
Kacey Long
October 14, 2005
I'm an online friend of Lisa's and I'm in tears after reading all of these entries. Lisa and Phillip, you have so much love pouring into your lives right now...it doesn't fill the hole in your heart, but I know it helps. Phillip, you are so lucky to have a father like yours; know that relationships like this are rare and beautiful and something you'll always carry with you and be a better man because of it. Lisa, you have a kind spirit and a helpful heart. May you receive the joys you've given to others tenfold. Hold onto each other, help, encourage, and share every memory of your husband and father. God has a purpose and a plan for your lives and it is bigger and better than we can ever imagine.
Lorraine&Scott Holmes
October 14, 2005
My Sweet SISTER LISA & MY LOVE PHILMAN, WE know both your worlds feel so broken apart,it was so unfair to you both! All of our hearts are so shattered we are so sorry for the pain all your hearts feel, Catherine, Richard ,Diane,Marc,Diane, Everyone who Bob loved so very much.I know each day feels so long,and the nights so short.We are so deeply sorry. My sweet sister I hurt for you so deeply!You have been so amazingly strong for Phil All the hard times Bob will help you through in life he was beautiful,in heaven he is a shining star.We as A family will carry through, and that is what Bob wants for us all! My love Philip always know Dad is still your buddy and will always watch over both you and Mom.He is now the angel you can always call upon.My sweet Phil it is so hard for me to understand the pain you feel,With each hug from me I hope will reassure you how greatly loved you are!Never feel alone my love,you hold A speacial in all of our hearts,you are my speacial little guy, just always know we are all here for you now just as much as we were before.Remenber our speacial saying To The Moon And Back! My sweet sister always know how speacial you are, There is nothing Scott the boys and me cant do,we love you so very much!God gave you such A speacial son, just being together with him will bring you comfort,peace.and alot of joy to your heart. I want you to know I will, we all will help you in anyway I LOVE YOU LEE YOU ARE THE SISTER AND BEST FRIEND I HAVE HAD MY WHOLE LIFE, I LOVE YOU YOUR FOREVER SISTER LORRAINE BOB I WANT YOU TO KNOW I SEND A BOSELLI KISS EVERYDAY !
Glenn
October 14, 2005
Lisa, Phillip, please accept my sympathy. While I was not fortunate enough to meet Robert, per the kind words in the guest book he seemed like a fine man with a good soul. May God comfort the both of you.
Deanne Moses
October 14, 2005
Dear Lisa,
I am so sorry! You both are in my prayers. God is good even in this circumstances. Draw upon His strength and lean on Him whenever you are down and feel depress. He is right there next to you, wrapping His arms around you both.Philip will be fine. God will guide him.
Chris 25968
October 13, 2005
Dear Lisa,
Please accept my sincere sympathy for you in your sorrow. My thoughts are with you.
Sincerely, Chris
Lorraine Holmes
October 13, 2005
Dear Bob, You were so very speacial in every way,a beautiful father loving husband speacial brother,son the best Uncle Bob to scott and jordan and my best friend. For all the morning phone calls,the articles you read to me I hold dear to my heart, you were also the best brother in law to scott,oh bob It hurts so bad but I know somehow you will give us all the strength! from teaching me to play the piano to singing jimmy buffet on our back porch everynight when the sun went down. For all you have taught me to be I will hold dear to my heart, oh by the way bob THE RED DRESS IT FITS JUST LIKE YOU SAID if I could mail things to heaven, my sweet Bob I also wanted to thank you for being not only an uncle but A father to the boys all the times it was hard for me thank you I will keep everyone you loved so dearly close to my heart, good bye for now my sweet simple bob,I love you Lorrainze
Diana Steele
October 12, 2005
Lisa, I'm soo-sorry for the loss of your husband. I have been working with Kacey and other young women with problems. I lost my daughter at the age of 25 on Jan. 16th, 2005 from Breast Implant complications. I watched her suffer for 4yrs. and as A Mother, I understand your pain. Please take good care of yourself and your son, he needs you now, more than ever. Your husband would want that. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Remember, He is Only Away, and watching from above. I could not make it thru each day, without the Lord holding my hand and the wonderful friends he has Blessed me with.
The Family of Andrea Weber
Kenda Skaggs
October 12, 2005
Hello Lisa,
We don't know each other but I wanted to send my sympathy, love and care to you and your family. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and your son's father. Your family is in my prayers.
Patty Faussett
October 12, 2005
Dearest Lisa and Phillip,
You don't know me, but through Kacey Long, I have heard of the tragedy you are going through. My heart aches for you and your family. Sudden losses can leave us grasping for answers to the why??? and sometimes we will never know why. But I wanted you to know that my heart is aching for you and I wanted to reach out across the vastness of the internet to say that I am so sorry. I pray God will comfort you, that He will give you peace that passes all understanding in this time of grief, that He will provide your every need, and bring small moments of joy with treasured memories to get you through the times of sadness. May you be comforted in knowing that others care, even those you don't know. God Bless.
Diane Myers
October 12, 2005
Dear Lisa and Little Phillip,
I am writing to tell you how sorry I am to hear about the unexpected death of your husband and dad. Please know that you will be in my prayers. I know that you are hurting but please know that God will help that and in time you will be better and stronger! I have heard that the Lord never gives us more than we can handle. Sometimes we have to wonder, but I also think that God is trying to make us stronger people! :-) If you ever want to just talk to someone or just for someone to listen, please dont hesitate to email! :-)
Kacey Long is a friend of mine also and let me know that this tragedy had occurred. That's what friends are for - To help each other in our hard and "trying" times, right? Just know that I will be praying for you and your son.
Diane
Jenna
October 12, 2005
My prayers go out to you and your son. May the happy memories and the love that you shared get you thru this difficult time. You will remain in my prayers. god bless
Trinity Ward
October 12, 2005
I am saddened by your story but know that somehow you will find the strength to go on for you and your son. I am praying that God gives you strength everyday. You are in my prayers.
Ashley Chakeris
October 12, 2005
Dear lisa, Please know you and your darling son are being thought of and prayed for by people like me. We may never meet one another, but the Lord hears our prayers for eachother. I am praying for healing for you both. In His Love-Ashley
Rachelle Iest
October 12, 2005
Lisa,
I don't know why bad things happen to good people, but I do know God has a purpose for us all. He will get you through this tragic time and I will be praying for you and your family. I am so sorry.
Monique Werner
October 12, 2005
Dear Lisa,
We do not know each other but I wanted to express my sympathy and let you know that you and your son are in my prayers. I am a friend of Kacey Long.
With Love,
Robin Ireland
October 12, 2005
Dear Lisa:
We were so saddened to learn of your husband's passing. When you feel sad or lost, try and wrap yourself in the good wishes and love of the hundreds of people who call you friend. May that keep you warm and bring you comfort. My heart breaks for you and your son. You've seen too much loss in your life. All I can say is, I'm so very sorry. Love you,
Robin
JORDAN VANDUZER
October 11, 2005
DEAR AUNT LISA AND PHIL
WE ALL MISS UNCLE BOB VERY MUCH, EVERYONE WILL MISS HIM. HE WAS A GOOD UNCLE AND SOMETIMES FATHER TO ME. I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AUNT LISA AND PHIL.
LOVE,
JORDAN
joyce griffiths
October 11, 2005
Lisa, this is a blessing for me to share my thoughts and sympathy for you and phillip. Mr. Pagliarulo was a courteous and nice customer to serve at all times. His hospitality towards me was always a calm and sweet version. I can truly say he will be missed by me as well as my fellow co-workers here at Walgreens. Remember although he is not here his memories will live forever and he will greatly be missed. I wished I had more courteous customer as he was.
God bless and keep the spirit of kindness.
Bobby Davis
October 11, 2005
Bobby, I did not know you but have been friends with Lisa the past three or four years and I know your loss is a terrible blow to her and to your son. It's hard to make sense of sudden, senseless death, but I know you can rest assured that you left many people behind who cared a great deal about you. I see that you were born the same year and graduated from Amityville High the same year as my aunt Natalie Reciputi; perhaps you knew each other another lifetime ago.
Vincent Murray
October 11, 2005
When you meet a person only a few times but you can remember those times like it was yesterday say's a lot for who Bobby was. Bobby left an impression with me of a wonderfully special man. (From what I read in other guest book entries it did not go unnoticed.) His love and dedication to his family and his ability to be the dad that he was a blessing Bobby had from God. He made a lasting impression on everyone he came in contact with and that was Bobby's gift that we should all hold close to our hearts.
Sandy Roth
October 10, 2005
Bobby was a gentle, caring soul and was loved by so many. He was a gift to be shared by all. I will always treasure his memories and carry them with me throughout my lifetime.
He was the most wonderful of dads !
And he will continue to guide Phillip throughout this lifetime.
His love and smile will comfort his family and friends ...all they have to do is remember ...and they will smile...as I do.
suzanne Fuelling
October 10, 2005
DEAR BOBBY
I KNOW WHERE YOU ARE,IN A PEACEFUL
WORLD,NEXT TO GOD,WITH NO WARS,STOCK MARKET OR CHICKEN FLU PROBLEMS.
LET ME TELL YOU,PHILLIP IS DOING GREAT!.HE GREW UP SUDDENLY, WITH THE SNAP OF A FINGER.WATCH AND PROTECT HIM, PLEASE.
LISA TOO.SHE IS IN FULL CONTROL AND VERY CONCERN TO DO THE BEST FOR PHILLIP. DO YOU THINK YOUCAN HELP YOUR FAMILY AND GIVE THEM THE CLARITY TO MAKE YHE RIGHT DECISIONS?
I MISS YOU SO MUCH.NOW, I HAVE NOBODY TO WAVE AT ME WHEN I COME HOME FROM MY TRIPS OR LEAVING MY DRIVEWAY. YOU, ALWAYS WAS THERE, ALWAYS OUTSIDE TAKING CARE SOMETHING OR JUST ENJOYING YOUR PLANTS, YOUR TREES.
LOVE YOU
SUZANNE FUELLING
Yilian Fraga
October 10, 2005
Lisa, I hope you and your family find comfort and peace. May the memories you shared together get you through your times of sadness.
Ira Bard
October 10, 2005
Dear Lisa,Phillip,Marc and Richard
I will forever remember Bobby as a wonderful man and great father and his eternal smile and great sense of humor. I will always cherish the hours we spent feeding the fish in the canal behind your house and reminising about growing up together. You will always be in my prayers.
Jesper Ravn
October 10, 2005
Dearest Lisa and Philip
Judy had to be the bearer of the horrible news across the Atlantic, and Pernille and I were in chock.
It is the irony of life that Bobby should depart from here, being as we remember him: Joyful and playfull, even though he has had plenty to care about.
Our deepest thoughts and condolences go out to you both and to Richard and Marc.
Love Jesper and Pernille (and Karolina and Sofia, whom Bobby has never had the chance to meet).
Judy Pagliarulo
October 9, 2005
Bobby sweet Bobby, all I can see is your never ending smile, from ear to ear. We had so many good times together and we made it through the bad times, and now I don't have you. I miss you terribly, but our memories will last for eternity. Trust in knowing that I will be there for Lisa and Philip, they will be okay because they have tons of support. Bobby, you were the most gracious and lovable person, and will hold a special spot in my heart forever.
All my love, Judy
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