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Shirley Reiter Obituary

REITER - Shirley Nevias, 2007 honoree of Smithtown Democratic Committee for Lifetime Community Service, died unexpectedly on March 31, 2010. Deeply loved, Shirl will be greatly missed by daughter, Donna, son-in-law, Michael, Jason and Samantha, her grandchildren. Donations in her name (and her deceased son, David's name) can be made to the Lupus Alliance of America.

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Published by Newsday on Apr. 17, 2010.

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May 25, 2010

Dear Donna and Michael,
What a wonderful tribute to Shirley last night at the VFW Hall. She was never affraid to speak out when she saw injustice and we were proud to have her stand with us. Donna, your closing words last night about your Mom were so beautiful and touching. Shirley overcame so many obstacles in life, she had such inner strength that many of us can only imagine having. We were so sorry when we heard the sad news that she had passed away. Shirley will be deeply missed by all of us.
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Shirl and you will all be in our thoughts and prayers..
very sincerely, Steve Henaghan and John Roarty, Mastic, NY

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Donna King

April 28, 2010

Barbara, Annette, Judy, Paula, and Nora,
Thank you so much for your kind words. We did not have a funeral but are hosting "A Celebration of Shirley Nevias Reiter's Life" on Mon., 5/24/10 @ 8 PM at the VFW located at 40 Church St., Kings Park, NY 11754. If you'd like to contact me at [email protected] or at (973) 449-0107.
With Warm Regards,
Donna King

April 28, 2010

Dear Annette, Judy, Paula and Nora,
Your expressions of sympathy are a comfort. In lieu of a funeral we are hosting "A Celebration of Shirley Nevias Reiter's Life" on Mon., 5/24/10 @ 8 PM at the VFW located at 40 Church St., Kings Park, NY 11754. If you are interested in attending, let me know and I will make sure you receive an announcement. If you'd like to call me my number is (973) 449-0107.
With Warm Regards,
Donna King

April 17, 2010

Donna, I am so sorry to read about your Mom. I went to James Monroe with her and lived in Glen Oaks a few houses from you. . My daughter was a friend of yours, Rhonda. My son Jeffrey who also passed away went to Commack schools with your brother David.
Fondly,
Barbara August-Spitzer

Annette Tabbachino

April 14, 2010

My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Remembering the good and loving times will get you thru your sorrow and pain. My prayers and thoughts go out to you all. So Sorry!

Judy Romero

April 12, 2010

Donna,

My sincere condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Judy Romero

April 12, 2010

Donna,

I'm very sorry for your loss, my condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Judy Romero

Paula Valenti

April 11, 2010

Dear Donna, I am so sorry to hear of your mother's untimely passing. My prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

Nora Bredes

April 11, 2010

I'm very sorry to learn of Shirley's death. She was a committed, energetic fighter for women's rights and policies to promote human dignity. She was also warm and accepting, with wonderful senses of humor and fun.
LI and the world can use more women like Shirley.
My deepest sympathy to Shirley's family and friends. -- Nora Bredes

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