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Vincent Abato Obituary

ABATO - Vincent J., age 89, of Melbourne, FL and formerly of Malverne, NY. Proud US Navy Veteran. Vincent graduated from the Juilliard School of Music where he also taught for many years. He played the clarinet and saxophone and was an original member of the Glenn Miller Band. He also played in the Tommy Dorsey Band and at the Metropolitan Opera House for many years. Vincent is predeceased by his wife of 60 years, Erma. Loving father of Nicholas (Diane) Abato and Helen (Louis) Gray. Cherished grandfather of 8 and great-grandfather of 11. Visitation Monday 2-4 and 7-9PM at the Robert A. Fives Smithtown Funeral Home, 31 Landing Ave., Smithtown. Mass of Christian Burial Tuesday 9:45AM at St. Patrick RC Church. Burial Pinelawn Memorial Park.

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Published by Newsday on Feb. 3, 2008.

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Carl Todd

January 28, 2020

Gone but not forgotten!

andrew genna

February 13, 2008

I met Jimmy in 1967 when he played at my college.Soon thereafter I became his student.He was an inspiring and demanding teacher.I last saw him a few of years ago when I visited him in Florida.I played for him.He was no less inpiring AND DEMANDING.I will always treasure his artistry,the support and kindness he showed me and his undying enthusiasm.

Nancy Graham

February 5, 2008

My condolences to Jimmy's family and especically Grandson Vinny and family who gave Jimmy many happy memories in his final years. He will be missed by all that knew him and his smile will not be forgotten.

Henry Palmeter

February 4, 2008

I want to express my condolences to Mr. Abato's family. His playing inspired me in high school to study the saxophone as a classical instrument. He was truly one of the great classical saxophone players of all time.

Carl Todd

February 3, 2008

My condolences to the family.

We met many years ago at the Carl Fischer Musical Instrument Co. when Jimmy was negotiating to be involved with the Buffet sax add campaign. The meeting led to my Dad being involved with the sale of his house in Fresh Meadows.

We both had small hands and he was of help to me in our discussions of bass clarinet fingerings an instrument he was outstanding on, as he was on the sax.

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