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Betsy Hobgood

1941 - 2025

Betsy Hobgood obituary, 1941-2025, Wilmington, NC

BORN

1941

DIED

2025

Betsy Hobgood Obituary

Betsy King Hobgood, age 84, of Wilmington, NC, passed away peacefully on Thursday, October 2, 2025, after a courageous battle with Alzheimer's Dementia. She was born on July 20, 1941, in Durham, NC, the daughter of the late Harvey M. King Sr. and Louise Cates King.

Betsy is lovingly remembered by her devoted husband of 64 years, L. Douglas (Doug) Hobgood; her son D. Keith Hobgood (Susan); her daughter Amy Hobgood Ruble (Tyson); grandchildren Kelsey Ruble Budka (Nick), Emily Faith Ruble, and Tammie S. Butler (Kevin); and great-grandson Roman Budka.

A woman of deep faith and generous spirit, Betsy was passionately devoted to her family and friends. She lovingly cared for her parents throughout their final years and gave freely of her time and talents to others. Her joyful heart made her a "cheerful giver," always ready to help those around her.

Music played a special role in Betsy's life-she sang alto from her youth choir days through adulthood. The Christmas season held particular joy for her, as it gave her the chance to shower her family-especially her grandchildren-with thoughtful gifts.

Her unwavering belief in Jesus shaped how she saw the world: with grace, hope, and wonder. She found beauty in God's creation-from yellow butterflies dancing past the porch to hummingbirds at the feeder and geese gliding overhead. Even the rain watering her yard was a reminder of divine care.

The family will hold a private memorial gathering at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Betsy's memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital at stjude.org-a cause dear to her compassionate heart.

Please share condolences and memories at newsobserver.obituaries.com. May Betsy's memory be a blessing to all who knew her.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer from Oct. 4 to Oct. 7, 2025.

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Charissa McComas

October 5, 2025

My condolences to all of you!
Though we know this is not our eternal home, and that does provide comfort- knowing we will see our love ones again, I think we must acknowledge the earthly void and heartache that comes with losing a loved one! Though I didn't know Betsy, I know it's a painful to lose a loved one and my heart aches in your ache!

My prayers and thoughts for comfort go out to all of you at this time, and the time yet to pass!
I pray you find solace in the happy times and the wonderful memories that you've created with her!
Continued prayers!!

Julie Dalton Loos

October 5, 2025

Keith and Amy our hearts go out to you. We loved your mama as did my parents. Part of The Board is back together. May God deeply comfort you in this loss. Please give your daddy a big hug from us.

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