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Anthony Patterson
June 29, 2025
Brad, or "Mr. Sneeden", as we referred to him as students at Brinson Memorial Elementary School, was a lighthouse for me as an underprivileged, special education Black child growing up in eastern N.C. I recall one day after PE, Mr. Sneeden asked me to stay after class so that he could talk with me. I thought I was in trouble; but I wasn't. He told me that he could see something in me. That if I kept trying my best, I could go places. He very seriously said, "Anthony, always keep your mind and body strong." I remember walking back to my classroom feeling pretty special. His words meant a lot to me--especially at a time when I didn't have much to rely on. That was back in the '80s. I went on from Brinson to earn a full-paid Track and Cross-Country scholarship to college. I'm 56 years old now, God has blessed me abundantly, and Mr. Sneeden is still one of my role models to this day. I had a lot of teachers in my life, but it only took this one to help me see and to believe in my potential. Thank you, Mr. Sneeden, for having such an indelible influence on my life (and by proxy, the lives of my four children). "May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."
Jane Parker (Gay)
November 23, 2008
Thinking of you and sending prayers of comfort and peace your way....
If there is anything I can do to help during this difficult transition, please email or call me. I would love to hear from you.
Judith Rizzo
November 11, 2008
Dear Carolyn, I cannot begin to tell you how deeply saddened I was to hear about Brad's passing. My heart goes out to you, Bradford and Olivia.
I very much treasured the friendship that Brad and I had an opportunity to develop when we both were at CSLD. His office was a place of warmth, good humor, straight talk, and M&M peanuts. He will be missed by all.
Carrol & Jan Jones
November 7, 2008
Carolyn and family, our prayers are with you. I went to New Bern High School with both of you. He will forever will be missed and loved by everyone.
Ed Bell
October 31, 2008
My prayers are with you and your family.
Ron & Jan Barbee
October 31, 2008
Carolyn,
Jan and I were shocked and saddened to read about Brad's death in the N&O. We immediately went across the street to your home, but it was the day of the funeral and you of course were in New Bern.
It is very sad, for all of us, to realize that such a good, talented man has been lost in the prime of his life.
We want to let you know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope you will please let us know if we can help in any way.
Sincerely,
Andrea Willis-Stilley
October 28, 2008
Brad and I went through school together and I remember that he was a wonderful person. I was saddened to learn that someone who cared about our schools and worked so well with youth has left us.
Tracy Nesbitt Martin
October 28, 2008
Hello Mrs. Carolyn,
I am so sorry to hear about Mr. Brad. Johnny called me right after he called mom and dad (Al & Linda Nesbitt)and I could not believe it. I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids. Just to make you smile I will tell you the one thing that stands out in my mind about Mr. Brad. It was on one Halloween night (I think I was 5 or 6 yrs. old) when I went to your house and he came to the door and told me to hold on he was going to get the candy. Next thing I knew he had came to the door with this scary mask on and I took off running back home and tripped going through the wood fence. I think I still have a scar on my knee! I don't think he stopped laughing about that for years. Hope that little story helped brighten your day some. Just remember he is watching over you from above.
Love
Tracy Nesbitt Martin
Al & Linda Nesbitt
October 28, 2008
Carolyn, Al and I were in Pa. when we got the call from Johnny about Brad. We know there are no words that we can say to you and Bradford and Olivia that will ease the pain you are feeling. I think there is some peace that comes in remembering all the good times and all the people who were touched by him. You all were really special to us and you have been in our prayers. I am so glad Al got to talk to Brad a short time ago when he stopped by McDonalds in Goldsboro. Love and prayers to all of you. Al & Linda Nesbitt
Dyan Lee Spence
October 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Karen Connor
October 27, 2008
Carolyn,
Wade and I were out of town during the time of visitation and the services. We cannot tell you how sorry we are and how much Brad will be missed. No words can help right now, but I know your family, friends and your faith will get you through this. Sam asked me to tell Olivia that she is so sorry and we will keep all of you in our prayers.
Stacey Conners Lowery
October 27, 2008
Im saddened to hear about Mr. Sneeden. He was my PE teacher during my elementary years at Brinson Memorial. Whenever someone spoke of him the first words out of my mouth was how wonderful he was. He will be greatly missed.
Kirk Lovell
October 27, 2008
Carolyn:
My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family during this difficult time. Brad was truly a man I am grateful I knew and could call a lifelong friend.
Nancy Reese-Durham
October 26, 2008
Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of your loss. May God strengthen you and keep you.
Agnes Derda
October 26, 2008
Carolyn, my deepest sympathy to you ,Bradford and Olivia. I remember Brad growing up and living on the next block of Rhem Avenue. I was always proud to see how well he had done. He had many great accomplishments in his short life.
You are in my prayers.
Dianne Ballard
October 26, 2008
Carolyn,
My heart is broken for you and the children. What a great loss both personal and educational. Brad was so instrumental in helping me get my teaching certificate, I will never forget his patience and kindness. Please know that we will be here for you whenever needed. We send you lots of love and our prayers. Take comfort in the fact that you will be together in eternity. Hug Olivia for me!
God bless you all.
Garland and Dianne Ballard
Joette Abeyounis
October 26, 2008
Carolyn even though nothing can erase the pain and sadness of Brad's passing, may your family find, in the faces and embraces of loved ones and friends, comfort, peace, and hope in this time of great sadness.
Debbie Handley
October 26, 2008
What a great loss for education in North Carolina. Brad's heart and soul was in education. My condolences to his family.
Debbie McKnight/Handley
Ernest & Ella Hunnings
October 26, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Paul (O.P.) Howell
October 26, 2008
Sneeden Family: I remember Brad from high school and know he will be truly missed. May God bless you all and give you what you need the most.
Jennifer & Milt Gold
October 26, 2008
Brad's family and especially our friends --- Rhonda and David.
Brad was special ! We that were fortunate enough to know him understand that this is a personal loss but also a great educator loss.
It can be filled but not replaced.
We wish you God's speed in the heart healing process.
debbie smith-edwards
October 26, 2008
carolyn, we have lost touch during the years, but every time i go to new bern to visit , mama and i always talk about our growing up on spencer avenue.we will ride down spencer and point to the houses and who used to live there, so quite often you cross my mind.i am so very sorry for your loss, brad was a great guy. of course he was in school with chris, but being from a small town we all knew everybody. my prayers are with you and your children
Sherry (Cahoon) Stroud
October 26, 2008
I went to school with Brad and remember him as being kind and fair to all. I lost track after high school but often heard his name mentioned as being a well respected educational leader. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Annie Walker
October 25, 2008
I am sending my condolescenes to the family of Mr. Brad Sneeden. He will be greatly missed by everyone that knew him. He was a great man and he did many wonderful things for the school systems that he was associated with.
Elbert & Jane Hughes Sr.
October 25, 2008
Linda, I am so sorry for your and the rest of the families loss. Remembering years back as we were all growing up together puts a smile on my face. Brad was Jane's superintendent when she was a teacher. My God Bless and keep you and give you strength.
Leann Thompsen
October 25, 2008
my heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with your family thru this difficult time.
Larry Hayes
October 25, 2008
Nelle and I are shocked by the news about Brad. I remember fondly my experiences as a member of the recreational basketball team(BUD Men) with Brad in the 70's. I have nothing but positive memories of my times with Brad. Nelle also sends her prayers for Brad and for you and your entire family. She greatly appreciated being a collegue of Brad while both were associated with the Craven County School system.
God bless you
Dale and Laird Stubbings
October 25, 2008
We knew Brad as a caring Principal at Brinson and fellow member of Centenary Methodist Church.
Our prayers are with you and your family. May the memories you hold in your heart give you some comfort.
Paul and Sherri Morton
October 25, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bonnie Stroud
October 25, 2008
Carolyn ~ I cannot put into words the sadness I feel for you right now. I just hope that in some small way, you can find comfort in knowing that Brad touched so many lives during his own lifetime. His gentle spirit and kind nature were always a welcome presence. You were blessed to share so many years. Don't let a day go by that you don't remember his shy grin and loving ways...those memories will carry you. I'm sending you warm thoughts, and tight hugs ~ keep your chin up and know...you will meet again.
Doris Phipps
October 25, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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