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Greta Avent Obituary
She was the oldest of two children born to the late Jesse Lee Arrington and Sudie Mitchell Arrington on November 25, 1930 in Rocky Mount.
Her brother Jesse Arrington preceded her in death.
She was a graduate of North Carolina Central University and received her Bachelor’s degree in Social Science. Continuing in Higher Education, Greta studied further in Library Science at her alma mater.
She was married to the love of her life, Toussaint Avent Sr. Upon moving to Raleigh from Fayetteville, she joined Martin Street Baptist Church.
Greta retired from the Wake County School System after thirty four years of service with the State of North Carolina.
She enjoyed membership in several organizations including: the Leisurettes (retired teachers club) and served as President; the Moles; Jack and Jill of America, where she served as President for six years; Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, the Quette, and several bridge clubs.
Those left to celebrate her life and cherish her memory include: her husband of 56 years, Toussaint Avent Sr,; sons, Toussaint "Twig" Avent Jr. (Sherri) of Greenboro, Tyron Avent of Durham, Tonya Jeffreys (Tony) of Raleigh; grandchildren, Michael Avent (Kristy), Sharee Avent, Bria Jeffreys; great-grandchild, Desmin Avent; cousin (but considered a sister) Gloria Boyd (Bob) of Los Angles, CA; niece, Carol Arrington Sims (Stephen); sister-in-law, Mamie Arrington of Richmond, VA (wife of Jesse Arrington); a host of other relatives and special friends.
Memorial service will be held 6:00 p.m. Monday, February 15, 2010 at Martin Street Baptist Church, Raleigh NC. Funeral arrangements by Haywood Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Greta Avent
Betty Jo Hawkins
March 11, 2010
To Uncle Toussaint and Family,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of Aunt Greta this week. Its too bad when friends move away from close love ones and hear about something like this after the fact. Moma and Aunt Greta were like two peas in a pod along with all of the members of the Chain (the Fayetteville crew). We shall miss her but know that she is finally at peace along with her brother and others. If you ever need us for anything, please do not hesistate to call us. Loving you all, James Hawkins, Betty Jo, Brian, Quentin and Darryl. Keep God close to you and know that he is your comforter and will give peace over time. Love Ya
Eric Curry
February 15, 2010
To Bro. Avent, Tonya, Toussaint, Tyron and the rest of the family, may God bless each and every one of you as you reflect on the life of your wife, mother, grandmother and dear friend. No words expressed can stop the tears but remember that Mrs. Avent is in the arms of the Lord right now and she's in no pain. God Bless you.
Zeb Alley
February 15, 2010
Dear Tousssaint and family,
I am so sorry about Greta, she was truly a great person. I know all of your friends share your grief and are thinking and praying for you all.
Sonny & Ella Williams
February 14, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May the fond memories you hold of Mrs. Avent dwell with you always and sustain you.
Helen Hooks Farrior
February 14, 2010
Mr. Avent, Twig, Tyrone and Tonya my prayers and thoughts are right there with you. May the the beautiful memories and love you shared always substain you. nI am glad to have sharedc this love with you. God Bless!
Scottie Jeffreys
February 14, 2010
To Tonya and my wonderful extended family, the Avents:
I say my family because your mother always worked hard at making our families seamlessly blended. What a huge loss to this family. I will miss your mother's huge presence, classy charm and remarkable sense of humor. I wish I was there this week to show my support to you all but please know that I am there in spirit. You have all been in my thoughts and prayers this past week and will continue to be in the coming weeks. Love you and God bless you all. Scottie and the kids.
February 14, 2010
Mr. Avent, Twig, Tyrone and Tonya my prayers and thoughts are right there with you. May the beautiful memories and love you shared always be with you. I am glad to have shared this love with you. God Bless!
Clementine Holloway
February 14, 2010
To the Avent/Jeffreys Family:
Greta was always fun to be around--no matter the circumstance. She had a sweet, sweet spirit. She will certainly be missed. May you and your family continue to acknowledge Him who is able to do anything, but fail. Clementine Holloway & Family.
Ed and Mary Irving
February 13, 2010
To The Avents:
We are so very sorry to learn of Mrs. Avent's passing. Our prayers and condolences are with you.
juanita alston
February 13, 2010
Tonya and family - your mom was a jewel . we worked together at women prison for so many years. she always invited her coworkers for cook-outs at her home and yes we enjoyed. she was a blessing to all of us.may God bless your Dad and family at this sad time, but she would want you all to be happy for the many years she shared with her family. juanita alston
brigitte peebles
February 13, 2010
Dear Mr. Avent, Tonya,Tony and Bria Jeffreys. I offer my condolences to your family.
Terry Spicer
February 13, 2010
Ms. Greta was a phenomenal woman and we have been blessed by her charm, amazing and unending wit and love. God has welcomed her home and we honor her life's legacy. To the family, we extend our sincerest and most heartfelt sympathy; thank you for sharing her with the world. We will ALWAYS think of her with love and laugh because of the endless joy that she provided.
The Spicers; Stacey, Terry & Stacey, Jr.
Elsie Jean Arrington Williams
February 13, 2010
Dear Toussaint and Cousins:
Our hearts go out to you during this, your time of deepest sorrow.
Fond memories of your family will always remain.
With love, the Family of the late Frank and Mary King Arrington (King Willis, Robert Earl, Jean, Kent, Levern [Frank Jr., deceased])
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