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Jefferson Lloyd Sugg, 85, of Cary, NC, passed away on August 8, 2010. A native of Smithfield, NC, he was the son of Rose Gordon Sugg and Burton Whitfield Sugg of Smithfield. He was a veteran of WWII serving on a LCI 410 as a First Class Boatman’s Mate and participated in the Invasion of Normandy. After discharge from the Navy, he attended North Carolina State University and graduated in 1951. He was one of the first land developers in Cary in the 1950’s and continued to develop properties into the 1980’s.
He was preceded in death by his wife, Eva Waddell Sugg. He is survived by four children, Chesley Sugg of Cary, Jeanne Sugg Doty of Shelby, NC, Amy Sugg Allen of Carthage, NC and Gigi Sugg Jones of Fuquay-Varina, NC; 6 grandchildren; 2 great grandchildren; and longtime companion, Nancy Wilson of Holly Springs, NC.
A graveside service will be held 10:00 a.m. Thursday, August 12, 2010 at Hillcrest Cemetery in Cary. The family will receive friends from 6:00-8:00 p.m. Wednesday evening, August 11, 2010 at Brown-Wynne Funeral Home in Cary.
For those who wish to make a memorial contribution, please donate to Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation, 1332 North Halsted Street, Suite 201, Chicago, IL 60622-2691.
Condolences may be sent through www.brownwynnecary.com.

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Published by The News & Observer on Aug. 10, 2010.

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Peggy Johnson

October 12, 2010

The many years I worked for Jeff was always amazing. I never knew how many different people would walk thru the door of my office. Thru Jeff, I was introduced to people from Brazil, Canada, Wyoming and different parts of NC. Jeff has many friends. My condolences are with you, Chesley, Jeanne, Amy and Gigi.I pray you are doing well and have good long lasting memories of your father and his great life. Lots of Love, Peggy Johnson, (Garner, NC)

Melanie Gainey

August 29, 2010

I am so very sorry to learn of you loss. I met Jeff when I was a young girl with my Dad, Charlie Bass. As an adult, I feel fortunate to have known him and seen him on his farm. He was an individual and a true Southern Gentleman. A few years back my husband met him and has never forgotten that day. It was two old school cowboys talking "shop." Actually it was Jeff sharing his stories and wisdom with a younger cowboy. After that, Jeff never forgot to ask me about "that cowboy I married." We will miss Jeff and his wisdom.

Darlene Henson/Wiltzius

August 15, 2010

Gigi,Amy and Family, I'm so sorry for the loss of your father, He was so important in the development of our wonderful town Cary, I know he will be missed by many, I walked over today to pay my respects and visit my Fathers grave, it so hard to lose our parents!!!

Glenn Coble

August 11, 2010

For 40 of my 56 years, I was blessed with the association with Jeff Sugg. I started as a chicken poop shoveling child slave at the old Red Neck Ranch. With time and guidance from Jeff, I worked myself up the head turd herder. Before long, with Jeff's blessings I was knighted with a polo mallet and deemed a "pretty good boy" which he continued to refer to me even at 56.

Needless to say the past 40 years Jeff & I shared more that just good looks. We traveled near and far, sharing our love of animals, antiques, history, and just plain B.S. We respectfully agreed to disagree. I realized after a short period of time there is only one way - that was Jeff's way. Unfortunately for me, he was usually right.

The knowledge Jeff past down to me is immeasurable. This information, you can't find in a book; lesson's that only life can teach someone. Jeff was kind enough to take me under his wing, and teach me some of the most important Jeffisms, "postulates & theories" of the business world. For this I am grateful.

For me, Jeff was larger than life. Bigger than John Wayne - a man among men. He was my hero. Most importantly, he was my friend. He will be deeply and sadly missed, never to be replaced, only honored & remembered.

August 11, 2010

Jeff will always remain one of the most memorable of my friends - his
sparkling wit and unique sense of humor was unequalled - plus his
superb common sense and devil-may -care view of life ! His bravery
helped make him such a successful businessman and his ability to
project, We enjoyed our horses together ! Our love to his family -
Barbara britton sedwick

Brenda Dexter

August 11, 2010

Dear Nancy and Jeff's daughters and family,
It was our privilege to have known Jeff for years. The first time I saw him, I thought he looked like Santa Claus! Jeff was an authentic character, the "real deal", no pretense - what you saw was what you got - and I really loved that about him. I always have appreciated his generosity in letting the family enjoy the Blackpatch Farm for our family gatherings, and the stagecoach he built and let us ride was awesome! I'm so thankful we got to visit with him in June this year. May God be with you in your loss, as we keep you in our thoughts and prayers, and in our pleasant memories of Jeff.

Nancy Allen Waller

August 11, 2010

To my dear friend Amy (and all the Suggs), I wish you comfort and peace in this time. Memories of your Dad will stay with me (and my family) forever. I met Jeff as a little girl of 11, and his handlebar mustache really fascinated me! And the fact that he rode a horse and played some kind of game on it?? Going to the farm off Harrison Ave. was real treat. When my family moved to Cary in 1967, we moved into a house that Jeff built in BurtRose subdivision, and I grew up in that house. So Jeff touched my life and my families in many ways, and he will be missed by many! Love to you all...

Julie Folsom and Family

August 10, 2010

To all the Suggs, we, the Wilson family, feel the pain of your loss. Jeff was one of a kind and such a unique and endearing man. If you weren't scared to death of him, you loved him dearly! We will all cherish our memories of him and your mother. Our prayer is that God will comfort you as you grieve. Always remember the good times.

Joyce Stech

August 10, 2010

To Chesley and the Family,
the days on earth are limited. The days in heaven eternal. Prayers to the family for your loss.

DEE SMITH

August 10, 2010

JEFF WAS ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE.......I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES, HE, YOUR MOM, MORRISON AND I HAD......

LOVE AND PRAYERS

Walter &Jean Lee Kasman

August 10, 2010

Dear Sugg Family:
Your Dad was always one of my Mother's (Aunt Mary Lou) favorite nephews. Jeff would call. Mother would rush to make cornbread and get out the buttermilk for his arrival. They would laugh,talk and rock on the porch.Great memories of Jeff will always be cherished.

Jennie Jones

August 10, 2010

Gigi,
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Thomas Griggs

August 10, 2010

Sorry I won't be able to be with you Ches. It is a good man who brings a good man into the world.

Raul Peralta

August 10, 2010

Dear Sugg family,

Although I knew your farther's passing would one day take place it is still difficult to accept.

I will always remember his booming voice at 5:00AM on Saturday mornings reminding me it was time for breakfast at Poole's.

He was (and always will be) larger than life...an unforgettable man.

August 10, 2010

We will always remember Chesley's father as a most warm and generous host in welcoming us to the family. His intelligence, great curiousity about all manner of things, and his enthusiasm made him a very special person.

Our thoughts and sympathy are with the Sugg family and friends at this difficult time.

Sam Cross and Nancy Jacklin

August 10, 2010

I met Jeff through Chesley and found him a gracious southern gentleman. I hold you all, Chesley,Jeanne, Amy and Gigi and all during this time of trnsition and rememberance.. - Chuck Skelton

Lisa Henson Bell

August 10, 2010

Gigi: I'm sorry that your father passed away. I wish I could be there for the service. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sharon Lawrence

August 10, 2010

Gigi. Sorry to hear about your Dad. I know this is a great loss for you. Please take comfort in the fact that he is resting in peace. I know that you have many fond memories to carry you through this difficult time. Love, Sharon and Don

August 9, 2010

Today my mind has been flooded with memories of Jeff, I have laughed and cried remembering the times we shared. When Roy died he told me "Don't cry for what you've lost, remember what you had. That was wonderful advice that helped a lot. I now pass it on to you with my love.

Vickie Scott

August 9, 2010

I remember meeting your dad at an annual barbecue event in Raleigh over 20 years ago - he was truly "one-of-a-kind" - and I loved him. May you be comforted by the knowledge that his memory will be cherished by many.

Deb Zechini

August 9, 2010

"Your father was one of my favorite kind of people! I instantly liked him when I first met him; he had a presence about him."

May God's love encompass you and comfort you at this time.

Cheryl Gordon Todd

August 9, 2010

Oh what marvelous memories of Jeff that I have personally and then shared by my Dad,Dwight Gordon...his first cousin. He hosted fantastic Gordon family reunions at his farm in Cary where the many children could play,pet animals..well everything better than any field trip because of the great food spread. It took me a long time as a child to realize that he was not one of my Uncles because of how close he was with my grandparents..Roy and Irene Gordon...And oh the jokes he played with my Uncle Roy..well these are just Gordon family treats that we all shared and laughed about..always trying to one up each other. my Uncle Charles took my Dad to visit Jeff before my Dad's condition got so bad and I am so thankful for this. I was blessed to have Jeff in my family.

Roy Gordon and Jeff Sugg, Italy 1943.

Jayne Gordon Cannon

August 9, 2010

How do you even start to share memories of Jeff? He and my father (Roy Gordon) were first cousins and dear friends. My dad died 36 years ago, but my memories of Jeff are still so strong. He was as kind and considerate as he was outrageous and funny. I'm glad he lived a long life and that you got to enjoy him for so long. You're lucky there. I have a great photo of Jeff and my dad from 1943 when they were in the service. There's a funny story (of course) that goes with it. With Jeff, there was almost always a funny story.

Cousins, I so wish I could attend the service but I am out of town on business that day. I will be thinking of you. Treasure your memories and know that a lot of people loved and appreciated your dad.

Lynn Siskin

August 9, 2010

My fondest memory of Uncle Jeff was at a cattle auction at Adam Whitley's farm. Jeff dragged the bull into the auction ring with his arms around the bulls neck. As a child, that was the scariest thing I had ever seen. Uncle Jeff tried to be mean and scary but he had the most wonderful heart. He will truly be missed. Lynn Singer Siskin (daughter of Martha Ann Sugg Singer)

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