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Michael Allyn Pote

September 25, 1981 - September 25, 2025

Michael Allyn Pote obituary, September 25, 1981-September 25, 2025, Durham, NC

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September 25, 1981

DIED

September 25, 2025

Michael Pote Obituary

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Michael Allyn Pote, who departed this life on September 25, 2025, at the age of 44.

Michael was born on September 25, 1981, to Doug Pote and Sherry Caldwell in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. He was a devoted husband to his wife, Kristen, and a loving father to his daughters, June (6) and Thea (4). He was deeply loved and will be profoundly missed.

Michael attended the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with Highest Honors, and a Juris Doctor degree while serving as an editor on the North Carolina Law Review. He worked as a research editor at Research Square (American Journal Experts) before returning to UNC to earn a Master of Accounting degree. Michael then went on to enjoy his career as a Mergers & Acquisition Tax Accountant with Grant Thornton.

He is survived by his loving wife, Kristen Bridgers; his daughters, Juniper Ruth Bridgers-Pote and Theadora Margot Bridgers-Pote; his father, Doug Pote (Hope); and his brothers, Jeffrey Pote (Michelle), Austin Pote (Sloane), and Tanner Pote. He was preceded in death by paternal grandparents Lloyd and Eileen Pote.

A memorial service to honor Michael's life will be held at Trinity Life Church in Durham, NC, at 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, October 11, 2025, with a reception to follow at the Durham Food Hall.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to an organization close to Michael's heart, the Southern Poverty Law Center.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer on Oct. 8, 2025.

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M. Lewis

October 18, 2025

My deepest condolences to the Pote family. May God comfort you during this time.

Leslie Rodgers

October 14, 2025

Wishing Michael peace in his passing and all his loved ones ease, a space to love and be loved, and grace to mourn his absence.

David Miller

October 10, 2025

Kristen - so sorry for your loss. Cheryl and I send condolences to You and Your family. David

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