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1953
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2022
Michael Stainback Obituary
August 25, 1953 - February 14, 2022
Raleigh, North Carolina - Michael Kerr Stainback, 68, died on February 14, 2022 from an unexpected heart attack while playing a round of golf- which was his passion- with close friends. Though a failing heart took him from this world, his generous, loving heart and compassionate spirit will remain a beacon of light for everyone who knew him.
Originally from Henderson, NC, Mike lived most of his life in Raleigh where he met his devoted wife, Beth Anne. Immersed in the Christian community from a young age, Mike lived out a life of faith as a longtime, active member of Providence Baptist Church and through involvement with the Fellowship of Christian Athletes.
Mike was blessed with a loving family, and was a truly devoted husband, father and grandfather. A passionate golfer and an avid hunter and fisherman, he loved sharing the outdoors with his family and friends. He was a longterm member of the Rocky Mountain Elk Foundation and Wake County Wildlife Club, supporting his passion for the outdoors.
A man who could always be counted on to help you in times of need-- whether solving a problem, completing a task, or making you laugh, Mike's magnetic personality, quick sense of humor, endless kindness and compassion leave a positive impact on the community and the lives of those left behind. The sort of man who never met a stranger, Mike will be dearly missed by friends, family and all who knew him.
In his professional life, Mike founded Stainback Insurance Services and at the time of his passing was employed by Surround Medical Systems as Managing Director of Professional Outreach and Radeas Labs in Specialty Sales.
Mike is survived by the loves of his life: his beloved wife of 42 years, Beth Anne; his son Christopher Stainback and daughter-in-law Lyndsey Stainback; his daughter Sarah Anne Taylor and son-in-law Justin Taylor; his grandchildren Jones and Addisyn Stainback and Brisson, Miller and Anderson Taylor; and his brothers Donnie Stainback and Steve Grissom. He is preceded in death by his parents.
A memorial service to celebrate Mike's life and legacy will be held at Providence Baptist Church on Saturday, February 19 at 1pm.
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Tricia Cotton Dean
October 28, 2023
I am shocked. Have been trying to find Mike, a devoted friend who truly cared, and after a more random search came upon this. A very difficult way to learn of his passing. I always expected to talk more with him again. He and I were avid conversationalists, and ending any gab session always required discipline and strength. Fresh grief now is almost crippling. Mike was one of the most ALIVE people I've ever been blessed to know. Loved him from our very first conversation. We'd later learn that we had numerous other close friends. Oh, Mike, I'm so sorry to know you're no longer here. Your faith carried you, I know. Thank you for everything. Always, Tricia
Sturdy Legg
February 19, 2022
Mike and I shared a house in Raleigh in the early 70's with Elliott Harrell and Tommy O'Berry, some of the fondest memories of my life. Mike, aka " Kinky" was a great roommate and friend, and there was never a dull moment.. We will miss him, but heaven will be a better place with him entertaining everyone up there. May God bless your family. We love you all!
Sturdy
Brady (Buddy) Stainback
February 19, 2022
Just got word of your passing. Thank God we had lunch the last time I was in Raleigh. Will always remember it. Condolences to your wife and kids. Rest In Peace cousin.
Grant Miller
February 19, 2022
Hi Beth Anne, Christopher, and Sara Anne
I just wanted to send my love in this very difficult time. I know I stand as one among hundreds who was positively impacted by Mike. As a kid he was always so nice to me and took the time to engage with me when many other adults did not. He also went out of his way to get Michael Jordans autograph for me because he knew what a fanatic I was. He was a truly special and sincerely loving person and I am so sorry for your loss. All my love to you and your family,
Grant
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Allen and Brenda Lunsford
February 19, 2022
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Mike was such a nice person and his Dad, Adkin, was Allen´s brother-in-law.
Y
February 18, 2022
The RMEF family is grieving the loss of our brother. I am so honored to have shared time and a friendship with Mike. He will be missed but not forgotten. Go rest high on that mountain.
Chris Croy & the RMEF family
Jon& Marcia Felton
February 18, 2022
Beth Anne, Sarah Anne, Christopher and family,
We were saddened to learn of your sudden loss of Mike, one day from Marcia losing her mother. We will always cherish our friendship when we lived across the street on Battleford Drive, especially in the aftermath of the 1988 tornado, when you guys opened up your home to our family at 2:00 am in the morning. I´m certain that through the immediate shock and physical loss, that you know Mike´s absence is temporary until you see him again, like my dad and Marcia´s mom. Please hold onto that, it will sustain you. Such a grand person who never met a stranger, Mike was always the first to welcome a new neighbor. We love you guys!
Jon, Marcia, Jill, Ashley, Allie & Family
Mark & Kathy Allard
February 18, 2022
Mike was one of the first people we met and worked with when we moved here over 20 years ago. Mike's passion and outgoing nature was always infectious and welcoming. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers to Beth Anne and the family...
Kenny Edwards
February 18, 2022
My deepest sympathy and condolences to Beth Anne and family. Mike was a great man and always fun to be around. I enjoyed growing up in Henderson with his brother Steve and playing basketball with Mike. Then we got older and played golf. We turned to yearly Myrtle Beach golf trips for the Toot Invitational. One of my best memories is from Prestonwood Golf Course at the Jimmy V in 1997 when Mike became Michael Jordan's official photographer! He could talk his way into or out of any situation depending on what he wanted to do. I'll remember the laughs, fun golf trips and Mike making everyone glad they came on the trip again. He's gone way too soon and too quickly. RIP my friend!
Elaine Perkinson
February 18, 2022
We shared the same birthday and sent each other messages on that day. He was one of the good guys. Always a smile, He will be missed. Thoughts and prayers for family and friends.
Sheri Green
February 17, 2022
My deepest sympathy goes out to you Beth Anne and your entire family... My time with Miss Sue showed me what a wonderful close knit family you have. I know you are surrounded by love and support ... I am heartbroken for you all, and I am sending thoughts, hugs, and prayers your way... May God give you peace through this difficult time...
Players Retreat Lunch Bunch
February 17, 2022
All the guys will miss you dearly. To think , since he was younger whether he would fit in. Beleive me he was in like flint from the start. Tried to tell him!!! WE will always remember him when we meet. LOVE from ALL, J.W.
Jim Davis
February 17, 2022
I' m so sorry to read about Mike's passing.
I hope and pray your family can find peace and comfort.
God bless.
God bless
Nancy Whitt
February 17, 2022
beth ann and family......I am a lifelong friend of mike's. we began our friendship in the first grade classroom all the way through high school, graduating in the class of 1972.mike had a wonderful shining personality and made everyone he talked to feel special. his infectious sense of humor made everyone happy. as adults it was evident to me just how much he loved his beautiful wife and just how proud he was of his children and grandchildren. I was so shocked to hear that he had passed away. God called him home doing what he loved with friends. he never had to suffer. what a blessing to him, but a shock and painful for his loved ones left behind. may his life be carried on in his children and grand children. he will never be forgotten. please accept my most sincere condolences.i will keep you all in my prayers as you grieve for your loss, asking God to give you His peace. love, Nancy Saunders whitt
Mishew McGhee Gardner
February 17, 2022
Such a mainstay of the Class of 1972 , he will be remembered for his athletic ability 's . sense of humor , popularity with every one & his cute smile ( LOL ) , an attribute to him blessed to have given by God , his maker ! Condolences ' s to his family & may he rest in Heavenly Peace !!
Craig Metcalf
February 17, 2022
Beth Anne a piece of my HEART left this planet with Mike and the rest of it goes out to you and the family...I can't imagine the pain you all are going through...Not sure I'll ever understand this one but I guess that's why we have God, his plan is always different than ours...Please let me know if you need anything, I'll be praying and thinking of you daily...I will truly miss my good friend and buddy...Love you all!!
Steve Grissom
February 17, 2022
May your golf drives be straight and with plenty of roll, down those streets paved with gold. May your approach shots kiss the angels high in the air, and land softly by the flagstick that´s waiting there. May your putts be short and easy, for in Heaven every hole is a birdie. Fore please! There´s a new Soul on the 1st Tee. Love you brother, Steve Grissom
Jan Fletcher
February 17, 2022
Just shocked to hear this. I grew up with Mike (aka....Kinko) in Henderson. We played on many sports teams together.....he was a good athlete. I remember when he met Beth Ann.....he was smitten. The last time we were together one of my children called. I ended the conversation as I always do with......"I love you". Mike said he was so glad I did that because you never know if that will be last time they hear that from you. RIP my friend........Fletch
Mike Jones
February 16, 2022
Beth Anne, I'm so sorry and shocked to hear about Mike's passing. Beth and my prayers are with you, Christopher, Sarah Anne and the rest of your family. Mike was a great friend and I'll never forget his laugh and those under the breath side comments that he would occasionally make that were absolutely hilarious. He will truly be missed by so many people. If you need anything don't hesitate to call.
Mark Saharski
February 16, 2022
Met Mike while I was working at Wakefield Plantation. Such a fine man. Had many funny and enjoyable conversations over the last few years. Very sad to hear today of his passing. RIP Mike!
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