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Pamela Speight Obituary
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Pamela Jeanne Howell Speight, 62, beloved wife and mother, peacefully passed away after a long courageous battle with cancer on Thursday, November, 5th, 2009. She was born in Raleigh, NC to the parents of Pernon Howell, deceased, and Mary Howell. Pam is survived by her husband of 43 years, Ronald Edward Speight, of Apex NC, daughters Arlesia A. Dreher, Stephanie S. Todd, Heather P. Speight, and grandson, Hunter L. Dreher,. Pam was also survived by her sister, Judy Olive and husband, Bobby Olive of Apex and brother Michael Howell of Raleigh and several nieces and nephews. Pam was a graduate of Broughton High School and attended Peace College and NC State University. She worked at NC State University for 34 years of which many were spent in the athletic department. She was a devoted Wolfpack fan and a Wolfpack Club representative. She made many friends among staff and players alike and was a source of encouragement for others who were battling cancer. Pam was an inspiration to all who knew her. The family will receive friends from 7-9pm, Saturday at Mitchell Funeral Home, Glenwood Avenue. Funeral services will be held 3pm Sunday, November 8th at First Presbyterian Church in Raleigh. Entombment will follow at Raleigh Memorial Park Mausoleum. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions can made to the Duke Cancer fund c/o Tricia Christie at 512 South Mangum Street, Durham or to the Kay Yow Foundation in the name of Pam Speight.
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November 13, 2009
Ron, my thoughts are with you and your family during this time of loss. Pam gave to you and the girls love, peace, and happiness, the greatest gifts on this earth. Her strength and vitality will always be with you.
Ken Nahas, Charlotte, North Carolina
Your Wolfpack Friends in Section 18
November 9, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of grief. May your happy memories bring you comfort.
Christy Perrin
November 9, 2009
I remember Pam's smiling face from when she was in the Dept. ARE at NCSU- I remember her as a fun presence. My condolences to her family and friends.
RBC Center
November 9, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. The Staff of The RBC Center.
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Ken and Linda Cornwall
November 8, 2009
Dear Ron and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Ken and I never really got to know Pam except through you always telling us what a wonderful and courageous person she was. Thank you for taking the time to let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
November 8, 2009
Dear Stephanie and family: May God bless you during this time of grief. Our prayers are with you. May God wrap his arms around you to comfort you. Michael and Mary jo.
Adriane Stone
November 8, 2009
Ms. Pam was one of the most amazing woman I have ever met. She began to encourage me when I came back to track and field and when I moved back to Raleigh to train she welcomed me with a smile and a hug that spoke more than words could ever say. We shared so many laughs, tears, hugs and conversations over the past year that i am a bit jealous she gets to grace the corridors of heaven now. But I know that her homecoming was one that rocked the gates of heaven. Our loss is immense here but heavens gain is oh so great. Praise God for such an inspiring, courageous, strong, loving and absolutely fun woman named Pam Speight. May the God of peace cover you with His merciful wings and love as deep as Pams use to flow. Adriane and KJ Stone
Jane (Watkins) Holcomb
November 8, 2009
Ronnie, I am so sorry for your loss. I was not aware of Pamela's illness. I had missed seeing ya'll at the store. Be strong. If the Lord leads you to it , He will lead you through it!
Alex Halter
November 7, 2009
Steph,
I did not know your Mother, but I do know you. And I know your Mom raised a wonderful, caring and lovely daughter.
I am blessed to know you and my cousin Jerry is very lucky to have you in his life.
You are in my prayers.
Alex Halter
November 7, 2009
What a beautiful lady! I am so sorry I did not know of Pamela Jeanne's illness. Please know you Mary and the family are in our prayers. I know your heart hurts to lose your daughter. It is our prayer that the Lord will give you grace and peace as you go through the days ahead. We love you. Jan Anderson
Nancy & Jim Raynor
November 7, 2009
Dear Ron and Family,
Though we have never met, we are friends of Pam's mom, Mary Howell. Please accept our sincerest condolences. Mary always spoke so highly of Pam and her courage throughout her illness. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
November 7, 2009
Dear Ron and family,
My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. I know that Pam was inspirational to many, a passionate and kind person.
Many blessings to each of you in the days ahead with her spirit at your side,
Mary Lou
maggie distaulo
November 7, 2009
you're is in our thoughts and prayer at this sad time. we wish you comfort, love , thoughts and prayers.
love aunt maggie and uncle richie., jerry's and stephanie's aunt and uncle
Bill Pitchford
November 7, 2009
Dear Ronnie, I am so sorry to hear about Pam. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
November 6, 2009
Dear Ron,
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Pam's struggle and courage through her illness is a true testiment to Jimmy V's "Never Give Up". Pam was one tough lady.
I pray that you and your family will feel God's arms wrapped around you, giving you comfort during this time of loss.
Love and sympathy to you all,
Barbara Fish
November 6, 2009
Ron and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Pam. She was truly a strong woman that is an inspiration for many people battling this disease. The Wolfpack nation has lost a very valuable member. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
Ronnie and Rhonda Houchens
November 6, 2009
Dear Ron and Girls,
I worked with Pam in Ag Economics for many years. We knew about each other kids and family. We were close co-workers.
Pam went to work in Athletics. She would call and we all kept in touch. Adra and I retired. Pam recommended that we work part time. Guess What? Pam got us all together again. I am helping out in her place now. I am grateful to Pam for all she has done in my life. She helped my daughter get into the Kay Yow camp one summer.
Pam was a wonderful person and I am thankful that she was a dear friend.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
I will miss her.
Mary Ann Justice
Julie McQueen
November 6, 2009
Dear Ron,
I just learned of Pam's passing this morning and I am heartbroken. She was such a wonderful person and will be missed by so many. I am so deeply grateful that I had the opportunity to get to know her...and you. She fought a courageous battle. May knowing how MANY people loved and cared for her bring you some comfort. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
With deep heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
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