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Debra Dawson
August 7, 2022
These last ten years without my husband Richard have been a journey of grief and growth. It is said that there are phases of grief and I would agree.That said the loss of our daughter Kassy, then Richard a year and a half later is simply beyond comprehension.The shockingly horrific circumstances of each loss in its own right continues to be tragic and overwhelming.That said here are the some of the most important lessons that come to mind as I think back on my journey to the place of joy and peace where I find myself today: life insurance and survivor benefits made these last ten years comfortable and possible. Family and friends are everything but finding day to day joy, peace, and happiness is up to me. It´s a choice and with time I made that choice. I will never "get over" my loss - especially that of my daughter- but with time I continue to move forward. Time is the key. It takes time, it´s all about time; grief is journey that rises up again and again when you are least expecting it but with time I know I can continue to move forward. The love that I have for my son, my daughter in law, my heart sisters, my pets, friends and extended family center me, and bring joy beyond any words that I can ever express. Then one day in 2016 and again in 2020 I realized that I was "ready" to love again, and that my heart "needed" to love again. Please God let me always remember Matt saying these amazing and wonderful words to me: you are going to be a grandmother, I have a son, you are going to be a grandmother again, and I am a girl Daddy. When I married Richard I knew I had found my soul mate. These ten years without him have not been easy. I love him and I miss him, but I know where he is, who he is with, and someday I will be with him, and Kassy again.
Debra Dawson
August 7, 2019
Grief is a journey which I am still traveling without you and Kassy. I love you both, and I miss each of you terribly. What could have been, what would have been, what should have been.
Debra Dawson
September 9, 2012
Thought the loss of Kassy was going to see us into old age.Like a torndao never its the same place twice.Did not work out that way. My heart is broken further into small small pieces. I love u.
Richard Smith
August 18, 2012
Mark and family;
It's been a long time since we've seen each other. I guess he was working for the late Sen. East at the time. We went to Bethesda and 1/2 year at Neal along with riding the school bus. I used to come over to your house on Southern Dr. and play. hard to believe I'm a grandfather now and those days are history. Your family is my prayers and I know God watches over the rightous so Richard will be at home in Heaven. Take care and please stay in touch.
Sincerely,
Richard A. Smith
Mark and Joanne Patton
August 14, 2012
Joanne and I met Richard when we started attending Shiloh UMC in 2003 shortly after moving to the area. I counted Richard as a good friend. I shall always remember the 1 hour talks we had that always ended up being 5 or 6. My heart and prayers go out to the family.
Becky Clemmer
August 14, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lonna Durrence
August 14, 2012
Just a word to let your family know how much Richard meant to us. We will definitely miss him but I know he is hanging out with Jesus now. Thanks for sharing your lives with us and blessing us beyond belief. You will never know what a special place he holds in our hearts. He was a very genuine person who had a direct connection with his Lord & Savior.
Praying for peace during this time!
Abiding in Christ,
Lonna, Martin, Sarah & Megan Durrence
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