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Shannon Adkins Obituary
The funeral service will be held 3:00 p.m., Tuesday, Nov. 11, 2008, in the chapel of McLaurin Funeral Home, Rev. Keith DeBord, officiating. Burial will follow at Pinecrest Memorial Park.
Shannon is survived by her parents, Doug and Ernestine Adkins; grandparents, Delores Adkins of Taplin, WV, and Anna and Herbert Mueller of Silz, Austria; aunts and uncles, Freddie and Angie Adkins of Mullens, WV, Howard Adkins of Taplin, WV, Lou and Brenda Adkins of Anderson, SC, Karmela Adkins of Clayton, Frank and Sara Adkins of Chapmanville, WV, Jane Phipps of Raleigh, D.J. and R.B. Tant of Clayton; boyfriend, Tony Helms of Kenly; a host of cousins in Clayton and WV; and her beloved puppies, Sheba, Chevy and Reenie.
While flowers are appreciated, memorial donations may be made to the Johnston County SPCA, 720 Durham St., Clayton, NC 27520.
The family will receive relatives and friends from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m., Tuesday, at McLaurin Funeral Home.
Condolences may be made to the family at www.mclaurinatpinecrest.com
Arrangements by McLaurin at Pinecrest, Funerals and Cremations, Clayton.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shannon Adkins
Christina Lloyd
November 21, 2008
Ernie and Doug,
I Talked to Shannon 5 days before she was killed. This is a horrible time for all of us but the neighborhood has to stick together Duane and I Will always be here for you if you ever need anything
We love you both very much
bryan deese
November 13, 2008
may god be with u n keep u strong this is a sad day but rember she would want u to go on with ur lives she is with you n looking over you she is ur angel may god bless
Michele, Daniel and Gabe Owens
November 13, 2008
Dougie and Ernie,
We are so sorry for everything. There isn't one thing anyone can say or do to make this right or even to bring Shannon back. The service was very nice. Shannon couldn't have been prouder. You both are most deff. the strongest people we know, if there is anything you two ever need, we are just a phone call away. We look forward to visiting with you more offen. She was the world to all of us. We love you and you will forever be in our prayers. But as for Shannon, she may be gone, but she will NEVER be forgotten.
brook adams
November 13, 2008
Shannon was the greatest person i know. I really miss her a lot. i dont know what i would have done in school if it wasnt for her. I really do love you Mrs Ernie and Mr Doug. I make a promise that i will visit you guys. I just wanted to tell you that i Love You So very much. I will see you guys later
Rachel Guy
November 12, 2008
To Ernie, Jake, and the rest of the family, I know that it cannot bring Shannon back, but we have been praying for you. I'm Jake's sister-in-law, and didn't know Shannon. I know that Deborah has told us lots about her and the rest of the family, and she just loves you all.
Kathy ( Johnson) Belk
November 12, 2008
Ernie,
I am So sorry for your great loss. I just found out. My prayers are with you all. She was so beautiful. I cant imagine your pain, my brother was killed by a drunk driver at age 11 , if there is anything I can do please let me know.
jackie cordes
November 12, 2008
My heart breaks for you all...Shannons death will not be in vain...her death is a great example of why we should have mandatory alcohol detection devices on all vehicles.
Kayla Hutchins
November 12, 2008
Ernie, I love you so much and it hurts me to see you in so much pain. As I told you on Tuesday, you have so many friends and family that love you and are going to be here for you anytime that you and Dougie need them. You, Dougie and Shannon both have touched my heart in so many ways and even though we live so many miles apart now, you are still and will always be a part of my family.
My parents sends their love.
You all are the most wonderful people that I think i'll ever meet in my life. Shannon was just like her momma, she looked like her daddy, but she has her mothers heart and spirit. You brung a wonderful person in this world and she has touched so many peoples lifes. Like so many have said, take this one day at a time and share her memory with others, i know i am. I can see you all now coming to West Virginia for them cookouts we use to do and Shannon coming up to me with her arms wide open and that big 'ol smile of hers. I can honestly say that she was the greatest person that i have ever met and shes going to be with me every single day.
Shannon, Baby girl, i love you with all of my heart and you will never be forgotton. I wish that you were still here with us, but i know that you are in heaven looking down upon us, telling us that everythings gonna be all right, like you always do ;) God brung home the greatest angel that i've ever known in my life!
I love all of you and miss you dearly!
Paula McKoy
November 12, 2008
Ernie, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We often shared stories of our daughters and each time your eyes would shine with joy when speaking of Shannon. Your love for her was evident but God loved her more and called her home. Trust in God and he will strenghten you....."there is no sorrow on earth that Heaven can't heal". May his peace be upon you.
Janet Leffel
November 12, 2008
To the Adkins Family:
We have never met but I read the story in the USA today. My son was killed this year in April in a car accident and know the pain and suffering that you are going through. Take one day at a time and some days it is moments at a time. If you should need someone to talk to please feel free to call. My prayers go out to you and your family.
ROSE TOOLE
November 12, 2008
ERNIE & DOUG,
JIMMY AND I WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME IN YOUR LIFE.
IF YOU NEED ANYTHING PLEASE LET US KNOW. WE ARE HERE FOR YOU.
JIMMY AND ROSE TOOLE
Debbie & Jim Olcott
November 11, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Adkins
We have never met and I had never had the pleasure to meet your daughter however our son Jamie has known Shannon a long time. We just want you to know that we as parents must all stick together and we all try to protect our babes but now she is with the lord and I am praying for your family and all of her friends but please let the world know your daughter and fight for her and tell her story and the hard research she did for her community. we live two subdivisions away from yours and my heart is completely broken like yours and I wish I could just give you a really big hug and let you know that there is alot of people out there that are praying for you and your wonderful husband try to be strong and may god bless you and your entire family and friends.
Dana (Stafford) Hinson
November 11, 2008
Ernie ~
My heart broke into a million pieces after I heard the news. Shannon was a true gift to this world and there aren't enough words to express my heartfelt sympathy for you and your family at this time. I love you, Ernie and my heart aches imagining the pain you are feeling. You, Doug and your families are in my constant thoughts and prayers.
Jackie Dudley
November 11, 2008
Ernie: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow.
Bea Goodman
November 11, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Cheryl Davidson
November 10, 2008
Shannon's story has now reached across the country via the wire services. What a tremendous loss for your family. I pray for your comfort and peace as you deal with your heartache.
November 10, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Anne Wells (Parole)
November 10, 2008
Ernie,
I never know what to say at times like this, but I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. If I can do anything for you, please do not hesitate to call on me.
Shannon was a beautiful girl - inside and out. If there is any comfort at a time like this, know that you brought her up to be a fine, young woman.
Donna (McLeod) Beauchamp
November 10, 2008
Ernie, this is donna, carolyn mcleod's daughter, as a mother of six, i can not begin to say i understand what you are going through, but i can say my heart goes out to you, and that you are in my prayers
Roberta Hatfield
November 10, 2008
Iam so sorry to hear about Shannon, my heart goes out to both of you, just letting you know i am thinking about you both.
November 10, 2008
Tears came when reading this story. Share her story and her research with the world.
Nancy House
November 10, 2008
Ernie and Doug, please know that you are in my thoughts. My dad (John Blalock) worked with Ernie. I can't even imagine what you are feeling, but do know that God will take good care of Shannon.
November 10, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sherry Flannery
November 10, 2008
Dougie & Ernie..I am so sorry for your loss.. My deepest sympathy..
Vickie Renfrow
November 10, 2008
Ernie, you and Doug are in my thoughts and prayers. Shannon is a beautiful girl and is loved by many, and always will be. Always remember life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. I am sure that Shannon has taken many of your breaths away. Take care and know that i am thinking of you.
Irene D'Amato
November 10, 2008
May God give you strength during this difficult time and our thoughts and prayers will go out to the entire Adkins family.
Sharon Freeman
November 10, 2008
We have never met, but be assured, you are in my prayers. I cannot imagine what you are going through and have no words adequate for a time like this. I pray that God will touch your lives as never before to give you strength to get through the coming weeks, months, and years.
Rhonda Adkins
November 10, 2008
Doug and Ernie I want you both to know my heart aches with you, and I shed tears for you, because I too know what you are feeling, as you know I lost lane my only child 2 years ago in car wreck, and this brings back many memories. I may not be there with you but know I love you and I am heart broke for all the dreams you will never see. call me any time. I plan to visit once everything is calmer for you, if you need me sooner please call me
Ashley Krause
November 10, 2008
I cannot believe that she is gone. Shannon had a heart of gold and will forever be missed. I met her in middle school and she was there for me whenever i would need her. we didnt talk as much in highschool because we didnt see eachother a whole lot. but she was such a sweetheart.
Mr. and Mrs. Adkins you will always be in my prayers God bless you both.
Ashley
November 10, 2008
Though our families have never met, we are saddened by your loss. May God hold you and comfort you today and all of the days ahead.
Terry Boykin
November 10, 2008
To the Adkins family:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I live in a neighboring subdivision and heard the sirens Saturday night - I knew it must be something bad because it seemed like they kept coming. I will keep your family in my prayers in the days ahead. May God comfort you at this time as you adjust to life without your precious Shannon.
Don and Sandra Flowers
November 10, 2008
Our prayers are with you and your family during this time.She will forever be in your heart.
Camille Bailey
November 10, 2008
Shannon was a great person with a wonderful smile. She was always there whenever i needed her, reminding me to stay true to myself. Knowing you since day care when i was 8, it's so hard to believe this would ever happen. Only the good die young. I know your having a blast where you are now. I'll be praying for your family. You will be missed! i'll see you one day girly =)
Cathy Santos Gonzalez
November 10, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Adkins,
I was deeply moved as I heard about your loss. Your tears are shared throughout the area as your tragic story is told. My prayers are for you both. Your love for your daughter was deep and I am sorry for your loss.
K P
November 10, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are extended to this family. May God bring comfort to you during this difficult time. I cannot imagine, nor do I ever want to experience the nightmare of losing a child, especially in such a senseless way.
Ronnie and Donna Guin
November 10, 2008
Ernie,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter. You and Doug will be in our prayers.
Brandon Ford
November 10, 2008
We are very sorry for the loss of your daughter. Our son was one of her classmates (he was also a 2008 graduate) and knows her as a sweet, friendly girl.
May God give you strength during this difficult time and our thoughts and prayers will go out to the entire Adkins family.
Mr. and Mrs. Roger Ford
and
November 10, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Phillip Maddox
November 10, 2008
So Sorry, I know there is no word that can take the pain away. but just wanted to say how sorry to hear this and that it makes no sence for this to even happen.
Linda ILL
November 10, 2008
I am praying for God to give your family strength and comfort and hope that you will see your precious daughter Shannon again.
I know no words can console you, so you will be in my prayers. May Shannon be enjoying the awesome vision of her God and Savior in her heavenly home!
Morgan
November 10, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about this horrible tragedy. You will be in the thoughts and prayers of many in the Triangle. God Bless.
Taylor Garnett
November 10, 2008
Shannon was the type of girl with an open heart and she always showed it as she helped me overcome my weeks of Migranes when we were in Teacher Cadet at Clayton High. She welcomed me back with open arms and left a spot in my heart that will never be forgotten.
Janet Byrd
November 10, 2008
Ernie and Doug,
I can't even imagine the pain and heartache you are feeling right now. My heart goes out to the both of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lyn and Ray Massey
November 10, 2008
Although we've never met, our hearts go out to you and all your family during this most difficult time. She was a beautiful, young lady and her time on earth was too short. Rest assured we will see her in heaven. May God be with you.
Michelle Arnesen
November 10, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Heather Ballance-Brown
November 10, 2008
Adkins Family,
While I did not know Shannon, I was still saddened by her passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
BERNITA DUNN
November 10, 2008
TO THE ADKIN'S, FAMILY,AND FAMILY WE ARE SO SORRY AT THIS
TIME YOU ALL ARE IN OUR PRAYER
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AT THIS TIME
Beverly Napier
November 10, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband as you face what would be any parents worst nightmare.
Joe Wheeler
November 10, 2008
There are no words adequate to express the feelings that surface when a parent's worst nightmare becomes reality.
Ernie, you so graciously shared with us as Shannon grew from a small baby to the wonderful young woman that she became, only to be taken from us so tragically.
You and your family have my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences and are in my thoughts and prayers.
I sincerely regret that I will not be able to be there for you tomorrow but will be there for you in spirit.
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