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Sherri Rho Ontjes

1938 - 2026

Sherri Rho Ontjes obituary, 1938-2026, Carrboro, NC

BORN

1938

DIED

2026

Sherri Ontjes Obituary

Sherri Rho Ontjes, 87, longtime Carrboro resident, passed away peacefully on January 3, 2026.

A grand lady of many accomplishments, Sherri displayed an unwavering commitment, over many decades, to the betterment of the Carrboro community. Her advocacy of local arts and crafts, her bountiful (and often anonymous) support for countless struggling workers, artists, and artisans spanned generations.

Most of all, Sherri Ontjes was a pioneering spirit: a brave and stalwart role model of female entrepreneurship. She founded the NC Crafts Gallery in Carrboro in 1989 and devoted years of her life to canvassing the state to procure art to showcase North Carolina talent in her store. After her retirement, she remained active in the community: generously and continuously granting business loans, gifting college tuition fees, and lending frequent support to an enormous variety of people in need.

Despite her success, Sherri never lost touch with her humble Midwest values. Born in Eureka, Kansas to Frances and Carl James, Sherri grew up in the cities of Concordia and Emporia with brothers Richard and Jim. In 1960, she earned a degree in Art Education from the University of Kansas. Over the coming years, she gave birth to four loving children alongside former husband David Ontjes. The couple moved to Chapel Hill, North Carolina in 1968. Sherri followed her passion for the arts working for years as an art teacher within the Chapel Hill-Carrboro school system. She particularly enjoyed her middle school students' quirky sense of humor. She later expanded her formal education at the Penland School of Crafts where she studied ceramics, batik, and print making.

Sherri was forever curious. She loved living among individuals of varying ages, ethnicities, and backgrounds-absorbing their life stories and experiences. And despite declining health, she forged onward-living life with gusto. She insisted upon breakfasting daily at Elmo's-and later, Breakaway Caf�-where she befriended the entire staff from the front of the house to the kitchen: greeting each and every one by name. Much in character, she lovingly displayed their photos in her home alongside those of family and friends.

Sherri is survived by her children Linden Ontjes, Sarah (Greg) Lynch, Ethan Ontjes (Beth Childress), and Jason Ontjes (Jennifer DeGroot), as well as by her eight beloved grandchildren: Austin Lynch (Kyle Kirk) and Claire (Luke) Combs; Noah (Marie Anderson), Olivia, and Max Ontjes; Roan Ontjes-Degroot, Finn and Wren Ontjes. The entire family extends their deepest gratitude to Lori Buchanan, who provided selfless care and assistance which allowed Sherri to continue to live life on her own terms.

A Celebration of Life will be held at Breakaway Cafe in Carrboro on February 15, 2026, with open visiting hours from 3 p.m. to 5 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to Orange Literacy (Carrboro); WCPE Radio (Wake Forest); Penland School of Craft (Print Studio Department); or to any deserving liberal-minded charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer from Jan. 8 to Jan. 11, 2026.

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Sherry T Jones

January 12, 2026

Deepest sympathies to the family. Sherri was a dedicated volunteer and board member during my years of management of the PTA Thrift Shop on West Franklin Street (1971-76). The N.C. Crafts Gallery was such a beneficial enterprise as well. In more recent years it was enjoyable chatting with her at The Breakaway in Carrboro. Rest in peace, Sherri.

Laurin (Laurie) Smith Allen

January 11, 2026

deep sympathy to you, sarah, and your family. you may not remember me - we were friends in first grade (mrs mcneill´s class) and we played at each other´s house. my parents (ned and judy smith) and i remember what a great lady your mother was. she encouraged my father to make art, and he is grateful for that! i think i remember this correctly that ethan and jason wanted to do something nice for your mom on mother´s day when they were young so they decided to wash their sheets - in the bathtub! peace to you and your family.

Natasha Clayton

January 10, 2026

Our condolences to the family. You will always have a place in my heart. I was the host at Elmo's an I always made sure you had your favorite booth for your friend's an family. I will miss you dearly. Love you sweetheart.

Natasha Clayton

January 10, 2026

Our condolences to your family. I will miss you like crazy . As being the host at Elmo's I always made sure you had you booth for you an your family an friends. You always checked on me an I always checked on you. You will be missed but your smile, your love an your spirit will all ways be with me. Love You.

Dick and Carol Brown

January 9, 2026

Our condolences to all of Sherri´s family. She was a creative and generous person.

Greg Lynch

January 9, 2026

Sherri Ontjes was the "Queen" of Carrboro. One of the most generous person I´ve ever known.
She will be greatly missed!

Greg Lynch

January 9, 2026

Sherri Ontjes was the "Queen" of Carrboro. One of the most generous person I´ve ever known.
She will be greatly missed?

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Breakaway Cafe

Carrboro, NC

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