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John McLean Obituary

John "Josh" McLean John "Josh" McLean, age 58, of Danbury, beloved husband of Suzanne McPadden McLean, died peacefully at his home surrounded by his family on Saturday, October 18, 2008 after a long, courageous battle with lung cancer. He was born in Danbury, on April 27, 1950, the son of Jock McLean and Jane (Duryea) McLean. After attending Danbury High School for two years, Josh completed his high school education at Deerfield Academy in Deerfield, Mass. He received his Bachelor of Science degree from Colorado State University. Following his graduation he was drafted during the Vietnam War and was honorably discharged after two years of service. He furthered his education at Emory University in the Physician Assistant Program and received a Bachelor's Degree in Medical Science. He began his career as a Physician Assistant with Associated Internists of Danbury where he worked for seventeen years with his mentor and friend, the late Dr. Shep Saperstein. He later worked at Southbury Primary Care and spent the last five years of his career with Urology Associates of Danbury. A dedicated husband, father, and grandfather, Josh excelled at bringing friends and family together. His passing in the neighborhood in which he was born reflects his commitment to family, a commitment he extended to the greater community through his participation in the Vestry at St. James Church and his work in medicine. His brightest moments included any Saturday on a golf course, summers on Block Island, cross-country trips to the Rocky Mountains, and the many quiet moments he spent loving life with enthusiasm and wonder. In addition to his wife and parents, Josh will be sadly missed by his children, daughter, Megan McLean and her husband, Bill Hamilton of Putney, Vt.; and his son, Shawn Toomey of Queens, NY; his grandchildren, Fritz and Greta Toomey of Germany; brother Joel McLean of Danbury; mother and father-in-law, John and Elaine McPadden; sister-in-law and her husband, Marie and Leonard Mas; brothers-in-law and their wives, John and Maria McPadden and Chris and Jen McPadden all of Huntington; brother-in-law, John Hoffer Jr. and wife, Keri Hoffer of Roxbury; he is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. He was predeceased by his sister Christy (McLean) Hoffer and brother Gregg McLean. Josh's family would like to thank the following for all of their care and compassion throughout Josh's illness: Dr. John Pezzim-enti, Christine and staff; Dr. John Spera and all his devoted staff; Dr. Douglas Kahn and staff; Peggy O'Shea; all the nurses of 11 East; and Regional Hospice of Western CT, in particular Robin and Gerard. A Memorial and celebration of Josh's life will be held Saturday, November 1, 2008 at 11 a.m. at St. James Episcopal Church, 25 West St., Danbury. In lieu of flowers, a contribution may be made in Josh's memory to Ann's Place Patient's Services Fund, 39 Old Ridgebury Road, Suite 17, Danbury, CT 06810. The Green Funeral Home, 57 Main Street, Danbury is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by The News-Times on Oct. 22, 2008.

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Kathy de Rham

November 15, 2008

Sue, you may not remember me from more that 30 years. I'm so sorry to hear about Josh. He was a funny guy. I do know how happy he was to be married to you.
I became a PA a few years before Josh; I think I gave him the idea. His death leaves another large hole in my heart. Most sincerely, Kathy Morris de Rham

Stefanie Obermeier

November 1, 2008

When You are sorrowful
look again in Your heart,
And You shall see that in truth
You are weeping for that
which has been Your delight.

I will do my best to keep Josh's memories alive for his Grandschildren in words and in prayer.

Stefanie Obermeier for Fritz and Greta Toomey

Suzanne Lauriat-Sheridan

October 29, 2008

Dear Suzanne, Jane & Jock,

I was so sorry to hear of Josh's illness and passing. I have wonderful memories of him from our childhood and will always remember his glorious smile.
May God bless you all.

Nela Pereira

October 29, 2008

Sue
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss may God be with you and your family at this this difficult time of your lives.
Nela Pereira.

hugh burrell

October 29, 2008

DEAR JOCK AND FAMILY Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I can think of nothing more painful than to bury one's children. Sincerely Hugh Burrell and Family

jay morrow

October 29, 2008

Dear Jock & Jane , Mae and I were truly saddened to learn of your son's death . A tremendous affair to have to deal with ,we really cannot in words express how we feel for you two.Sincerely ,Jay

Ray McPadden,Sr.

October 28, 2008

Dear Sue-We met Josh just a few times over the years at family functions but realized immediately that he was a special & caring person. We feel for your loss but know you will be strengthened by such a wonderful family. God bless you & your family. Love, Cousins Norma & Ray McPadden, Monroe, Ct.

Kimi (McLean) Hardej

October 28, 2008

Dearest Sue, Shawn, Megan, Aunt Jane, Uncle Jock and Joel,

My heart goes out to all of you at this sad time. Family is so important at this time, and you have always been there for each other. Even though we don't see each other enough, I remember all the family events, and Josh was always the leader of the cousins. I so treasure all my memories of those days.

all my love,

Jean Regnier

October 27, 2008

Dear Sue, Jane, Jock, Joel and the entire family of Josh McLean:

I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts, prayers and heart. I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband, father, grandfather,son, brother, nephew and cousin.

May precious memories sustain you during this saddest of times and the loss of such a wonderful man.

May God bless all of you and may Josh be with you forever.

Gayle & Jerry DeBaun

October 27, 2008

Dear Sue and Family, I am so sorry to learn of Josh's passing. He was too vibrant a person to die so young. He will be missed by all. We just learned of his passing at the neighborhood Halloween party, but we had been concerned by the number of cars parked outside the house lately, but had hesitated to ask. As your neighbor we might not always have kept in close contact with you both, but we do want you to know we have always had Josh and you in our prayers and thoughts since we have learned of his illness. Should we be able to help you in any way don't hesitate to ask we are only a few steps away.

Jessica Fuentes

October 26, 2008

Sue and family - My deepest condolences to you at this difficult time. His love for you and the family will continue to shine through his beautiful grandchildren.

My thoughts and prayers are with you,

Jess

Ronnie & Tony Santoli

October 24, 2008

Dear Jane & Jock,
We are so sorry for the loss of your son Josh. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Don and Nancy Kennedy

October 23, 2008

Jock and Jane
You have our deepest sympathy for your most tragic loss. Josh will be missed by many in his home town as well as here in the Low Country. You and your family are in our prayers.

MARIA MALDONADO

October 23, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Carole (Torcaso) Conaway

October 22, 2008

To Sue and family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Josh was a true family man and portrayed that with his patients. My condolences to all of you. God bless.

Lynn and Rick Purdy

October 22, 2008

Sue,
After reading the News Times on-line this a.m. from FL, I cannot express the shock and deep sadness that Rick and I felt. Josh was truly a "great guy". May you and all of the family remember the good and kindness that he brought to the world.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Lynn and Rick Purdy

Ken Piela

October 22, 2008

I went to high school with Josh. My deepest condolences go out to his family. I will remember him as a great guy to be around.

Ken Piela

Rev. Richard Lindsey

October 22, 2008

The worshipping community of All Saints Episcopal Church express our deepest sympathy to our members, Jock and Jane, and to the family of Josh McLean. May God's Peace be with all of you.

Jim and Fern Moore

October 22, 2008

To the McLean Family: Fern and I convey our deepest condolences to Suzanne, Jock and Jane, and all the clan members and friends. All life is precious and some lives are especially so.

Peggy Doran

October 22, 2008

Dear Sue and family,
I remember Josh as a caring and, compassionate person, who would come to my grandmother's home to care for her. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

M Liberati

October 22, 2008

What a terrible loss. My deepest sympathy to his family. Josh was one of the good guys. A true gentleman and a great person. He always had something nice to say. He was particularly kind and thoughtful to my father.
Rest in peace.

Barry,Joanne,Hunter Baseski

October 22, 2008

Under his wings he now safely and peacefully abides. To live in the hearts of those you leave behind is not to die.May God bless and keep each of you in his loving care.

Polly Cribben

October 22, 2008

Dear Suzanne, Jock and Jane and family: I was deeply saddened to hear of Josh's illness and passing. You have my deepest sympathy and prayers. I hope that your fond memories of him will sustain you in your time of grief. Josh was a very special person and I have wonderful memories of him from "the store", the Ridgewood Country Club and so many others. He brought me comfort many years ago at the Danbury Hospital when Sally was ill as did you, Sue, when my Mom was there. May God hold you all in the palm of his hand...Sincerely, Polly (Hodge) Cribben

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