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Joseph Strucky Obituary

Joseph Andrew Strucky
Joseph A. Strucky serenely passed away, after a long rally with Alzheimer's disease, at Laurel Ridge Health Care Center, on Sunday, January 12th, at the age of 88.
"Joe" is survived by his cherished wife of 64 years, Arlene ("Lynne") Strucky of Danbury, and his two daughters Debra Kinnane of Southbury and Brenda Jones of Las Vegas, NV. He also had a special place in his heart for both his niece Judy (Patren) Sengelen of Bethel and former son-in-law, John Kinnane, of Brookfield. Joe was preceded in passing by his two adored older sisters, Josephine Patren and Irene Patren . . . and his five idolized "big" brothers Connie Strusky, Mike Strusky, Ben Struski, Ed Struski, and Stan Strusky.
Joe was born July 6, 1931, in Danbury, to Michael and Stella Strusky, immigrants from Poland. Growing up in downtown Danbury, surrounded by his large family, he relished the love shown and the many good times spent with each one of them. He graduated from Danbury High School (class of '49), where he was a standout in both the football and track/field teams. He valued his lifelong friendships with classmates Wally Slate, John Andros, Ray White, and George Loya.
After serving in the US Air Force, Joe married his "girl from the Bronx," Arlene Wallace, in 1956 and built their first home in Bethel--where they raised their two daughters and entertained their respective families, over the years. In 1986, they moved to their dream home on Southern Blvd., Danbury, where they spent another 35 years as empty nesters enjoying traveling, casinos, and poker playing at the Danbury Senior Center.
Joe was accomplished in his athleticism, carpentry/masonry skills, and artistic endeavors. His unwavering moral compass, industriousness, attention to detail, and willingness to please will be remembered by his wife and daughters. To their delight, Joe had developed quite a sense of humor during his bout with Alzheimer's . . . an experience they will never forget. His ability to remember who they were, until the end, was considered a true and everlasting gift from him.
Calling hours to celebrate Joe's life is scheduled for Thursday, January 23rd between 5 p.m. and 8 p.m. at the Cornell Memorial Home at 247 White St., Danbury. A memorial church service will take place at 10 a.m. on Friday, January 24th, at Sacred Heart of Jesus church at 46 Stone St., Danbury. In lieu of flowers, kindly make a donation to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, in memory of Joseph Strucky [stjude.org].

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Published by Danbury News Times on Jan. 18, 2020.

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Wally Slate

January 12, 2023

Great memories, Joe.

Wally Slate

January 12, 2022

I will hold precious memories of Joe and the good times we had with the Fab Four, as we called them. I consider him the best friend I ever had and will miss him forever.

Melissa G

January 21, 2020

So sorry to hear of joes passing. Such a great funny guy. I remember him when he worked at Reynolds ridge. All the ladies there loved him. Rest easy Joe. Condolences from my family to yours♥

Taffy Kachur

January 20, 2020

Uncle Joe,
You will be so missed by your family and those who love you. You enjoyed life and always had a smile to show how much.

Wally Slate

January 20, 2020

Hey, Joe,

Just remembering the great times we had for many years. You were my very best friend and I will never forget you. I wish we had many more years to have fun.

Fuzzy

Toni Bonacci

January 19, 2020

Brenda, my prayers are with you and the entire Strucky family. I remember how kind, generous, and friendly your Dad (and Mom) always were in allowing us to use your home for many of the Class of 1984 projects (floats). I am sorry for your loss.

Toni Bonacci, Co-Advisor Class of 1984

Chuck,Judy, Carey, & Jason Sengelen

January 18, 2020

You will always be in our hearts & thoughts, Uncle Joey.

Ruth and Russ Springer

January 18, 2020

Lynne, deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are all in out heart, thoughts and prayers.

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Calling hours

5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Cornell Memorial Funeral Home

247 White Street, Danbury, CT 06810

Jan

24

Memorial service

10:00 a.m.

Sacred Heart of Jesus church

46 Stone St., Danbury, CT

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