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Memories and Condolences
for William Benzing
Joel Helfer
January 22, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear about Bill's passing. He was always a welcome visitor at the Mt. Southington ski patrol office. His enthusiasm for the ski club helped an enormous number of students learn about the thrill and joys of skiing.
Dan Simonelli
January 14, 2009
Mr. Benzing was really cool. I never had him but i was wishing i got him in 8th grade. Every Wednesday we used to go snowboarding and he would be there taking pictures of me and my friends. It was so fun hanging out with him on the slopes. He would always say hi to me in the halls. Every one says hes a great teacher and i wish I could have gotten to have him. Rest in peace, you will never be forgotten.
matt SanGiacomo
January 14, 2009
I never had Mr. Benzing as a teacher. I was only in seventh Grade. Mr. Benzing was a once in a lifetime teacher. Everyday he went the extra mile just to say high to me in the hall everyday after 5th block. Although we cannot see Mr. Benzing I know he is in a better place watching over us. I can remeber it like it was yesterday when Mr. Benzing was taking pictures of me on my first snowboard at Mount Southington. Mr. Benzing was also an avid contributor in saint mary's church. The one thing I learned is you never know what you have until its gone. We will always remeber you. RIP
Chad Klinefelter
January 13, 2009
A great friend once told me "Goodbyes are funny, because you'll never know when you're saying your last one." Mr. Benzing was not a teacher of mine, but a friendly face around the school and community. A teacher in Bethel for 35 years, a soft ball hall of famer inducted in 2002, an asset to the community, and being a volunteer are some of the many things I knew him for. He will be missed. My sincere condolences to the Benzing family.
Chris Longo
January 10, 2009
Bill was a truly dedicated member of our BMS staff. His involvement with the community will leave behind a legacy. Bill will be greatly missed by all.
Monica Potvin Yeamans
January 8, 2009
As a classmate of Bill (Bethel HS Class of 1969) it was with deep regret that I heard of his passing. He was a great friend to all: always with a smile on his face and laughter in his heart.
Cathy (Zucchino) Melody
January 7, 2009
I was very suprise to hear of Mr.Benzing passing. My deepest prayers for his family. May he rest in peace.
Cathy (Zucchino) Melody
January 7, 2009
I was very suprise to hear of Mr.Benzing passing. My deepest prayers for his family. He will be great missed.
Corinne Bruckenthal
January 6, 2009
Mr. Benzing was a great teacher. He taught me so much about math and about life.
He will always be remembered. May he rest in peace.
Maria M.
January 6, 2009
Mr. Benzing was only my teacher for one week, the first week of this school year. I was supposed to be in the really small Algebra 2 class, which as others in the class have said was great, but I moved up a year. So while I only knew him from participating in ski club, and that 1 week, he was one of my favorite teachers at BMS. I only found out yesterday, when I came back form a trip in Europe. When my dad told me I thought he'd lost it. I must have asked him 10 times if he was serious. Even now as I read all the comments my classmates and other people have left, I feel like this can't be true. I know we'll all miss him so much at BMS.
Nikki Meadows & The Meadows Family
January 5, 2009
Mr. Benzing, you have been a family friend for quite some time now. You had my brothers and now me amd have helped us so much in math along will racing eachother on the mountain!Everyone will miss you but I will miss you a lot. I cant wait to meet you in heaven again cause I know thats where you'll be.See you there.
Anna Fiorini
January 5, 2009
Mr. Benzing was a great teacher, and by far on of my favorites. He always knew how to make someone smile if they weren't having a good day, or make a smile bigger. When you didn't understand something he would help you. He changed the way I look at math. It's not going to be the same without him!
Olivia Fargiano
January 5, 2009
Mr. Benzing was a great teacher and will be missed so much you can't even imagine, its the first day back from break and having someone else teach our class just wasn't right. School isn't the same without you. Everyone really misses you, you have no idea. I love and miss you! You will never be forgotten if I can help it.
Dayna Kretkowski
January 5, 2009
Mr. Benzing was the best teacher in the whole wide world. Math will never be same without. He cared for all of us so much. But, I am just going to try to keep living life to the fullest. That's what Mr. Benzing did and i know he wants all of his students, family, and friends to do the same. I miss him a lot. He is in my thoughts and the Benzing family is in my prayers. I just know he's looking down at us from heaven with a big smile on his face(:
Cheyenne Clark
January 5, 2009
Mr. Benzing was a wonderful teacher and we will miss him.
Rachel Dennerlein
January 5, 2009
Mr. Benzing,
BMS will never be the same, without you in the game. To help us when we're down, or just around. Whenever a fight, you'd make it right. If our brain got knotted from the arithmetic, you'd be there to unravel it. You'd stay after school, though that's not cool, to help us get our feet. On tests, you'd say good luck, but you'd help me when I got stuck, so in the end I got a passing grade. Thirty-five years is a lot, you'll never be forgot, you'll always be in our minds. No matter how long, our memories will be strong, you'll never go away.
Aidan Neuner
January 5, 2009
It was very nice to know Mr. Benzing and I know that he will be missed in Bethel. I hope that he is now in a better place.
Michael Lisowski
January 5, 2009
I had great memories of Mr. Benzing that I will never forget and all the times we use to laugh at each other.
AJ Klein
January 5, 2009
Mr Benzing was one of the best and most helpful teacher. I would always look forward to going to your class.
David Main
January 5, 2009
Mr. Benzing was a great teacher and helped me through out the first quarter.
Arthur Booth
January 5, 2009
Mr. B inspired me to try harder in school. And he was a very nice man and i love him for that.
Alex Corbo
January 5, 2009
He was a inspiration to me to be a better person.
mark vaghi
January 5, 2009
Everyone growing up on the baseball fields in Bethel back in the 50's and 60's knew Billy Benzing and respected him. Great guy and a great round house curve.
May the Good Lord Bless and watch over the Benzing family in their time of need.
Michael Bon Tempo
January 4, 2009
Our heartfelt condolences go out to your family. Our prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.
My wife and I both had the pleasure of beginning our teaching careers in Bethel and working with dedicated and caring colleagues. Bill ( The original Mr. "B") exemplified this sentiment and amplified the energy and exuberance surrounding the building. It has been 8 years since I left the district; however, I can vividly remember Bill pitching softballs to me in the hallways in between classes. He has left a lasting impression of how to enjoy what you do, be good at it, and have fun along the way.
He was always there for the students and staff- before, during, and after school - in multiple capacities. His efforts were relentless and (I hope always) appreciated, including his 1996 100 meter leg of the 4 X 100 relay versus the top 8th grade teams. Is it any wonder that his efforts ended in a first place finish for the staff?
Bill will be missed and remembered by all. His impact on the community is eternal. May his delightful demeanor live on through others in the community. I will certainly miss traveling through the neighborhood and trying to catch up with Bill. With school starting again tomorrow, I can only wonder if my son will ask where Mr. Benzing is (as he often does) as we pass by the house.
Peace be with you Bill, and peace be with your family during this time.
Our thoughts and Prayers,
Michael and Danielle Bon Tempo
Kathy (Russell) Barrett
January 4, 2009
What terribly sad news ! I was in school with, and friend of Billy a long time ago - I have not lived in CT for years, but have family in the area, and visit often - and very often think of my old classmates. I've now learned that Bill found a great love and made a loving and lasting impact on countless people during his all too-short life. My heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you, Nancy and your family. God Bless.
Laurene D'Andrea
January 4, 2009
Please accept my sincere and heartfelt condolences. Bill has been my colleague for the past 10 years and it is devastating to think that I will no longer see his smiling face in the halls of BMS, nor will I ever hear him converse with me in Spanish. Bill was one of the most easygoing, approachable people I have known. I will remember Bill Benzing as always ready to lend a hand, friendly, and certainly one of the kindest people I have worked with. As one of the senior members of our staff, his wisdom, guidance and enduring cheerfulness will be sorely missed. It comforts me to know that he will be in a better place with his beloved mother. Heaven's gain is indeed our loss
Catherine Bach
January 3, 2009
To Nancy and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We just wanted to let you know that Bill was an incredible, loving man and in the short time we have known him, he has left a lasting impression on our hearts.
Bill will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
May God bless you and help you during this difficult time.
Love, The Bach Family
John Marasco
January 3, 2009
To The Benzing family. I was shocked to hear about Billy. Went to kindergarden with him and grammer school. I went to Immaculate High . Irember playing Swamp Fox in his back yard and down in the swamp in back of the house. Billy and I would kid about this when I saw him at school while I was Delerving the mail for the postal serivce. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marion Kilmartin
January 3, 2009
To the Benzing Family: My deepest sympathy in the loss of a such a good man. Bill had my children in class as well as sharing many ski trips with them. He was an excellent teacher and mentor to his students. No longer in the school system I would only see him at church or around town and he would always have a smile of recognition and ask about the family. He was loved by all and will be greatly missed by this town that he was such a great part of. Our deepest sympathy, The Kilmartin Family
Sidney Rosner
January 2, 2009
Sidney and Violet Rosner
Sue (Markstaller) Jonke
January 2, 2009
To the Benzing Family: My deepest sympathy in the loss of a great man. I had Mr. B as a teacher in middle school and he coached my brother in football. He always had a smile and hug for you and as a teacher, made a difference in many students lives. He will be greatly missed.
BHS class of '86
William Perry
January 2, 2009
I have known Bill for over 40 years and cannot ever remember him not being cheerful and friendly to me or anyone. He was my classmate and friend. God bless you Bill.
Chris Kaswer
January 2, 2009
Bill was an outstanding individual who contributed greatly to the community. His presence and influence will be greatly missed. I enjoyed the times we spent together and will remember him fondly. My prayers go out to Nancy and his family.
Kirsten Strobel
January 2, 2009
Nancy,
I share in the shock, disbelief and profound sadness expressed here, upon learning of Bill's passing. His legacy speaks for itself . . . Most wouldn't make such an indelable mark on the lives of so many in 57 + 57 years!
I am certain that words are of little comfort right now. Please know that your 'Middle Gate friends and family' will continue to console and nurture you, as you, "Nurse Nancy", have done for us on countless occasions over the years. You are loved!
EUGENE MONTESI
January 2, 2009
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME .BILL AND I WERE CLASSMATES IN BETHEL HIGH WE GRADUATED TOGETHER.HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND HE WILL BE MISSED.
Dan Spinella
January 2, 2009
It's been almost a week since I got Nancy's phone call, the call I never expected. Since I've known Bill my entire life, there isn't enough room in this book to write all the memories I have of him. Some of which were those days on Candlewood, (especially the day the steering wheel broke off, sound familar Simone?), the days & nights at the "men's club" on Willow Street with Bill, John & I. That night we apparently didn't need the "T" roof panels to his car. After all the sky was clear and the stars were shining. Yes it rained but it only took 4 days for the car to dry out. I won't even mention the Exchange Club Conventions. The many ski trips, bus rides and lets not forget those mandatory "advisor's meetings" Friday night in his & Nancy's room. Skiing through his legs got more difficult as years went on, but it became just one of those many ski trip traditions. He was the brother I never had, we were in each other's wedding party and I had the honor of being the bestman at his & Nancy's wedding. "Zinger, Zing, Slick", were just a few of the nicknames I had for him. While there is no blood relation my kids still called him "Uncle Bill". I can remember how happy I was when I found out my oldest son would be in his class. As Robb wrote, the group will be getting back together for what I hope will be the first of many "memorial" ski trips to our dear friend. I'll keep your memory close to my heart, I just hope you truly realized what you meant to Marge, Nick, Danielle, Stephen & I.
I Love you and will always cherish our friendship.
Paula marron
January 1, 2009
you will always be in my heart . this is just the beginning of the journey, until we meet again . love cousin paula
SONYA (nelson) PRATT
January 1, 2009
MY CONDOLENCES TO BILL'S FAMILY. I LIVED ON WILLOW STREET AND HAD HIM FOR A TEACHER IN MIDDLE SCHOOL. HE WAS A TRUE GENTLEMAN AND LEAVES A TREMENDOUS HOLE IN BETHEL. BILL YOU WILL BE MISSED!!!
A Friend
January 1, 2009
For those who may not have seen the rememberance card; a very fitting poem for the Bill we all knew & loved:
AFTERGLOW
I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one,
I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when day is gone.
I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times, and laughing times, and bright and sunny days.
I’d like the tears of those who grieve to dry before the sun,
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
Art Willman
January 1, 2009
To the Family of Bill Benzing,
I would like to express my deepest sorrow and condolences on your loss of Bill. Bill was a great guy, good friend, and an honor and pleasure to know. Although more than 35 years have passed since I last spoke to him, his spirit and sense of humor are as vivid in my mind as if I last saw him yesterday. God bless you and keep you in this time of sadness.
Edward (Todd) & Deb Brown
January 1, 2009
Nancy, Kevin, Richard, Michelle, Mary Beth and the entire extended Benzing Family and friends:
Todd and I felt such a terrible sense of loss when we heard of Bill’s death; we want to let you know that you have our deepest
sympathy....our hearts are truly saddened.
As shown in the many, many messages left here, Bill was more than just an all-around great guy, he was an integral part of the Bethel community: a mentor, a highly respected teacher and colleague, a friend with a caring ear to lend to anyone in need....especially ‘his‘ kids.
He was always a shining example of what all teachers ~should~ aspire to be, and will be fondly remembered for many years to come by the generations of kids he taught and friends he made.
Bill, you will always remain in our hearts, and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. May God give them the strength to carry on.
With our deepest sympathy....and wishing that we never had to make this entry,
Todd & Deb Brown
Doris Murphy
January 1, 2009
Bill was my colleague, my mentor, my friend--the leader and the heart of cluster 8b. Just a few short weeks ago, I told Bill that I was going to start charging him to yet again clean and organize the "important stuff" he amassed in our workroom monthly...there is nothing I would not give to once again open that door, sigh in exasperation...and organize with love. Bill, the clutter may lessen, but the "important stuff" will remain in our hearts always.
Nancy, kids, and the entire Benzing family--my thoughts and prayers are with you...
Dee and Tom Braun
January 1, 2009
I cannot yet come to terms with the fact that Bill is gone. I close my eyes and I can picture him so clearly on the ski trips, at their pool parties and at our home. He was a gentle caring man, always there with a hug and a smile. This is a deep loss for his family and for his many friends. The rememberance card from his wake has asked us not to remember him not in saddness, but in joy. So we will honor him with a smile and memories of many, many good times.
marty cohn
January 1, 2009
i have fond memories of bill as l 've officiated many sporting events at bethel high and socially also. he will be sadly misssed by everone.my condolences go out to his family
Jim Ginch
January 1, 2009
To the Benzing family,
Bill and I met as employees of First National Stores in the mid sixties. We became good friends and had some truly fun times. We were colleagues at Hayestown Avenue School in Danbury when Bill was a student teacher there and I was a young fifth grade teacher. His outstanding teaching talents were evident even then.
Bill was a wonderful person and an outstanding teacher. I was blessed to have known him. May he rest in peace.
Chris Lewis
December 31, 2008
You will be missed Mr.B I wont forget all the good times at the ski trips and the football games thanks for having faith in me. Chris "Moose" Lewis
Michelle (Ritterbusch) Thompson
December 31, 2008
I wasn't a skier, was in the "other" cluster in eighth grade, and yet Bill Benzing still touched me deeply. He was a caring man, the kind of teacher where even if he wasn't YOUR teacher, you knew he was a great teacher. His was a face I always looked forward to seeing in the hallways in the first years in the "new" BMS, and the news of his passing has brought me great sadness. Blessings and comfort to the Benzing family in this difficult time, and thank you for sharing "Mr. B" with us.
Michelle (Ritterbusch) Thompson
John and Donna Coster
December 31, 2008
We knew Bill not only from BMS as a teacher of our 3 sons, but also as a friend through the Bethel Exchange Club. He was a wonderful teacher and a wonderful friend. He will be missed.
Robb Banyai
December 31, 2008
Bill, your love and understanding of people is a gift that I hope you know I cherished and tried to emulate. All those weekend ski trips, the bus rides, the hotels, the mountains, they were the best of times. The bells on the ski poles, the mondays at southington, the veiw from the top of Okemo or Sugarbush...
The times we shared are times I will always cherish. You are the best, you always will be, and as long as we remember you, you are not really gone. We may not be able to touch you with our hands, but the way you touched our hearts, thats how we will keep you forever in our lives.
Bill we will miss you, and all of us will help Nancy and the kids get thru this hurt that will never heal.
Bill, I feel blessed to have known you, lucky to have had you as a friend, and I know my life is better because you were a part of it.
Rest well my friend, you touched so many lives, I wonder if you had any idea how much of an mamzing person you were.
The group will be getting together to meet at the top of a mountain, and the runs will be for you. We know you will be there with us. Until then, we miss you and love you.
Colleen Webb
December 31, 2008
I was saddened by the news of Mr. Benzing's passing. I was a member of the ski club and loved the trips up to Southington and the weekend adventures to the VT mountains. He was a wonderful man who made a very positive effect on many of the young people in Bethel. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Michael Kerrigan
December 31, 2008
My heart goes out to the Benzing family. Bill will be truely missed. He was a great teacher and coach.
David and Beth Krafick
December 31, 2008
To Nancy and the Benzing families.
What a remarkable impact Billy has made on all of the peoples lives he has been a part of.He is truly going to be missed by everyone.What a legacy he leaves,may we all be comforted by his smile and genuine love of people may he rest in peace and his fond memories comfort his family at this very difficult time.
with much love and sadness,
David and Beth Krafick
Peter Fragola
December 31, 2008
Mr. Benzing was a former teacher and football coach of mine and a main reason for my career as a teacher now. He was way ahead of his times as far as teaching is concerned. His uncanny ability to spot students' strengths and use them to help instruct was amazing. He differentiated instruction and included all types of learning styles in his lessons. But most of all I will never ever forget his ability to make students, especially me, feel like they were important and what they did today would impact where they would be tomorrow. I was lucky enough to see Mr. Benzing about a month ago, as I was working as an administrative intern finishing up my degree to become a principal... he asked me how I could ever think of leaving teaching... His love for the profession and his students was still evident all these years later. The town of Bethel and all his former students and coworkers were blessed to have him in their lives. RIP Mr. B!
Nancy (Davies)Roy
December 31, 2008
Dear Nancy & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have many memories of Mr. B with our family from when I was a child. You will be in my thoughts & prayers during this time. God Bless!
John Coster (Class of '93)
December 31, 2008
To the Benzing Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a student of the "Zinger" in the old BMS in 87/88 and 88/89. He is the reason I started skiing. He would take us on 6 ski trips a year to Mt. Southington. Thanks to him, I am still enjoying skiing and math. It was always nice to see him and he will be sorely missed. All my heart and prayers go to him and his family.
Lisa Plate
December 31, 2008
To Mr. Benzing's Family,
I was saddened at the news of Mr. Benzing's passing. Please be assured that he will be missed. Please accept my condolences.
I was a student of Ms. Urda's who was a first year teacher the same as Mr. Benzing. He was in our classroom quite often and I have great memories of him over the years. He could always make us smile. He'll be missed.
Ray Bielizna
December 31, 2008
A great friend in sports and in the teaching profession. I had many fun times with Bill on the baseball and football field. I will miss him a lot.
Matt Corso
December 31, 2008
Teach, Bobby, Ricky, & Beth,
Words cannot express the saddness that I felt when I heard about Billy. I can still vividly remember all the fun we had playing for Our Place, and how every time I'd see him he would greet me with " Brother Matt ". He will be missed! The only consolation I can think of is that he is with Dot now. Stay strong and God Bless.
Matt
Meghan & Billy Alexander
December 31, 2008
What's Clearer to Me Now is how one person can come into our life and change it forever- for the good.
Bill Benzing has made an impression on so many lives and has left a legacy in his passing. My dad loved Bill as his best friend and looked forward to every trip, every adventure, and every hike with Bill and Nancy. He is now blessed with the memories of their time together.
I am so glad I was able to meet Bill in my lifetime- he was an amazing person. May all of the memories of him carry on always.
We love you Nancy, and our thoughts are with you in this very difficult time.
Sue Davison
December 31, 2008
Serenity, courage, wisdom, peace with honor and respect for Bill-fellow teacher, classmate, and friend.
...."it is the laughter I will remember"
Sue and Ned Davison
Ann Frattalone
December 31, 2008
Bill was a great friend to me throughout college and beyond. I still have pictures of him from my graduation party wearing that large flat top hat. He tried to teach me how to scuba dive in the family pool but I wouldn't breathe through the mask. He was always so patient and willing to help. We never really dated just two friends who had similiar interests. When I wasn't playing softball he would take me to his softball games.
My deepest sympathy to the Benzing family. I'm sorry to say I only returned home today to see the article in the paper.
He will be missed but he will always be with us in spirit.
Janine Scolpino
December 31, 2008
Like so many others who have shared their connection to Bill, I was one of his lucky students and proud to have been in his first class at BMS. Each time we saw each-other - especially at the girls basketball games - he told whoever was with me about that special first year at the old BMS. Clearly, he went on to have many more great years of teaching and to positively influence the lives of so many people. Nancy, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. I hope that you will find comfort in knowing that the world is a better place because of Bill.
Janine (Musser) Scolpino
Paul Romano
December 31, 2008
Dear Benzing Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
American Legion Post 222
Oakland Park, Florida
Cindy & Erick Rizzo
December 31, 2008
Although we have never met, we saw you many times at Mass at St. Mary's. Our deepest sympathy to the family at this sad time.
alice fair
December 31, 2008
Dearest Nancy,
May God ease you loss and grief. My prayers, thoughts and love are with you and your family, today and all days.
Bill had a rich life full of many memories. Memories keep our loved ones near to us always.
Love and blessings,
Alice
Betsy (Dann)Richter
December 31, 2008
He was a "once in a lifetime" teacher and friend. He will be sorely missed.
You are an inspiration Mr. B
Lori (Mattson) Sabene
December 31, 2008
I picked up today's paper (which I never read!) only to see such terrible news... there are no words to express the sadness that I feel for this loss to the Benzing Family. I have known Bill since I was a little girl. I will treasure my memories of "Our Place" and our conversations. He gave the best hugs and always had a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this difficult time.
Ken Davies
December 30, 2008
Dear Benzing Family,
Our prayers & condolences are with your family. I had the pleasure to be in Bill's first class in 6th grade in 1974-75 & he had an impact on my life and countless other students at Bethel. Bill was a great teacher, friend, coach & mentor. Even after his class, he continued to remain friends with our whole family & encouraged me to pursue my dreams to attend West Point. Every year we would sign a $1 bill and mail it to the other on who won the Army-Navy game. He will be missed. Our prayers are with your family. BHS 1981
John Dee & Family
December 30, 2008
" A Hundred Years From Now It Will Not Matter What My Bank Account Was, The Sort Of House I Lived In, Or The Kind Of Car I Drove... But The World May Be Different Because I Was Important In The Life Of A Child."
Mr. Benzing,
You have achieved this a hundred times over. You will be missed.
God Bless
Joy Clarkson
December 30, 2008
Dear Nancy and all the family,
My prayers and only loving thoughts of my friend and fellow teacher Bill. Bill was a Gentle Man who appreciated all his students and friends. He will always be in my fond memories of BMS. My heartfelt sympathy.
Brian Bergen
December 30, 2008
Although did not have him as a teacher he always got me Out of trouble in the hall ways.
REST IN PEACE MR. BENZING
Melissa Sciaudone
December 30, 2008
Mr. Benzing was a great person. You would enter school in the morning and he would greet you. He always had a smile on his face.
BMS Class of 1998
BHS Class of 2002
Carlota Charles
December 30, 2008
I am a student at Bethel Middle School. Throughout the years I have had some really good math teachers and pretty bad math teachers. Mr. Benzing helped each and everyone of his students. Even though he has only been my math teacher for only half of the year. He was always ready to help me if I was having trouble with something or very confused. He will always be remembered by me and all of the teachers and students in 8th grade.
Pat Presnell
December 30, 2008
Losing Billy is an end to an era in Bethel. He will be greatly missed. Our deepest condolences go out out to all of you.
Pat Presnell & Family
Carlie Goldstein
December 30, 2008
Mr. Benzing was the best math teacher I ever had and made all of our class activities fun and understanding. He was always ready to help me if I was having trouble with something or confused. He will always be remembered by me and all of the teachers and students in 8th grade.
John Dexter
December 30, 2008
To the Benzing family
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Bill was a neighbor, friend, and teacher to all our children. He was loved and will be missed
The Dexter Family John Theresa
Michelle Michael & Robin
Karen Mullaney Mann
December 30, 2008
To Bill's loved ones,
Throughout my school years in Bethel, Bill was a thoughtful, generous friend. The memories--- We laughed; he helped me with math and was there for my first Red Sox game. I feel a part of my life is forever changed with his passing. You are all in my prayers as you cope with the pain in your hearts. Heaven has a new angel.
Karen Mullaney Mann (class of 69)
Carl Strait
December 30, 2008
Rest peacefully, Bill. You made this world a better place. Our deepest sympathies are with your family.
Essie Connor
December 30, 2008
To the family of Mr. Bill Benzing: Nancy, Kevin, Richard, Michelle and Mary Beth and family
I had the honor of playing basketball for Mr. Benzing (as my coach) when I attended Bethel High School. He was not only a fabulous coach but a great man at all times. He was from the heart and loved life and that is what I will remember most about his legacy. He drove me to work after practice many times so I would not have to jog/walk and that was one of his way he showed he cared. I know that his personality was always upbeat and positive and that rubbed off on me. I had 3 years to share with this man and never did he disappoint. He is one of those special people that helped to make me who I am today. I use alot of his style when I coached in college and while working with students.
So I want to give my heartfelt sympathy to you all in your loss of a memorable man. But most I want to celebrate and honor a man that made the difference not just by his words but by his actions. He loved and had a great passion for children and it showed. He will never be forgotten and all the good times we shared on the bus rides to and from games will live on in my memories and heart. Peace be with him.
Tammy Pomeroy (class of 1992)
December 30, 2008
To the Benzing family,
I was very sad when I heard that Mr. Benzing had passed. He was a great teacher and will be sadly missed.Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Martin Rose
December 30, 2008
As a parent of one of Mr Benzing's students this year, I am very saddened by the passing of another true hero and difference maker for our children. My daughter always spoke very highly of Mr Benzing and she thoroughly enjoyed him as a teacher and a person. He made a difference in her life and he will surely be missed. From Alexa and my family, we would like to send our heart felt condolences to the Benzing family for your loss.
Cindy (Parsons) Strout
December 30, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I went to school with Bill and remember how funny he was and at the same time how serious he could be. I graduated in '70. And my children had him for math in the 90's. They both remember him as an awesome teacher. He will be missed by all and remembered by many. Also had many great talks with him when I walked my 5 Italian greyhounds around the block.
God Bless your family.
Kathy Ward
December 30, 2008
All of Bill's colleagues & students' lives have been enriched by having known such a wonderful person. We, as a family, have each known Bill in different capacities and have been truly blessed. To Nancy & his family, our deepest sympathies.
Kris & Tom Grosse
December 30, 2008
Dear Nancy & Family,
We are so sad to hear Bill has passed away. May God bring peace to you all, Bill was a great guy, loved and respected by many.
Anthony DaSilva
December 30, 2008
I had Mr. Benzing as my teacher in 8th grade math at BMS. He was a good teacher, one of my favorites. I will miss him. My deepest sympathies to his wife and family for their loss.
Melissa Meikle
December 30, 2008
I was very sad to hear the news of Mr Benzing's passing. He was an amazing math teacher and will be missed! My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
BHS Class of '01
Roberto Charris
December 30, 2008
My deepest sympathies to Mr. Benzing's entire family. My heart felt condolences and prayers go out to you. Mr. Benzing was one of my favorite teachers who was the first to introduce me to the stock market in his math class leading me to my current profession. He surprised me a month ago when I ran into him at Home Depot and was immediatley greeted with a "Hi Bobby, how are you"...after all of these years, he remembered me, i had no words. He was and still is a great man and consider myself very fortunate to have known him.
Tom and Jeanette Davies
December 30, 2008
We were completely devastated and saddened to learn of Bill's passing. We've known Bill since his first year of teaching,as our son was in his first class and we were looking forward to having him teach our grandsons during the next few years. I have fond memories of coaching Pop Warner with Bill and working with him as a member of the Bethel Exchange Club, where he devoted countless hours to the youth programs. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Nancy, Richard, Sr [Teach], Bobby, Rick, Beth and their families. Rest In Peace Friend.
Randy Berger
December 30, 2008
A true gentleman,great mentor,teacher,the list goes on and on,always on top of his game,was my son's favorite teacher when he was in school,graduated in 2005,and now is graduating from syracuse university with his math degree and aerospace degree.thank you for being a part of my son's approaching career in the field of Bill's expertise.Again,my prayers are with you and your family.
Sheila Gambino
December 30, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes to Bill's family. Bill will be remembered for the way he made people smile with his matter of fact advice. He was a steady inspiration and an amazing person and he will me missed greatly.
Kevin Cleary
December 30, 2008
Nancy - I can not find words to say how much this hurts, Bill was my true friend from our first day in kindergarten, to that tremendous game he pitched and won against Ridgefield High our senior year, to the breakfast we shared just a week ago. We had a true connection. His devotion to you and St. Mary's will be a vision I will never forget. My daily payers are with you. Kevin Cleary
Joseph, Eileen & Tom Ricci
December 30, 2008
Bill was one of the true gentlemen in Bethel and will be greatly missed by all the students and players he touched during his career. Our deepest sympathy to his family.
Christopher Mortara
December 30, 2008
Words cannot express the sorrow I felt to hear the news of Mr. Benzing's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. I knew Mr. Benzing as my freshman football coach and later as an umpire. He had such a zest for life.
Sal& Judy Leo
December 30, 2008
Nancy & Family
Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
All our love -
Melanie Stroud
December 30, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Benzing family. Bill was always upbeat and happy every time i saw him. It's hard to believe he's gone... He will truly be missed by many people, for he was a great guy.
Tom Smith
December 30, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to the Benzing family.We will miss his great conversations on sports and hot topics whenever he came in.
Your friends At Tom's Paint.
Debra Demuth-Lemke
December 30, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family. Bill was a wonderful man and he will be truly missed.
John Christos
December 30, 2008
I'm sure going to miss umpiring with you and playing all those practical jokes on you. You're one of the truest friends I ever had. God bless a great teamate.
HAWK
Carol & Bob Zinser
December 30, 2008
Our sincere prayers and heartfelt sympathy go to Nancy and all of Billy's family. Billy was a shining star on the Western campus whose love and laughter captured all who knew him. Our wedding party ('74) wouldn't have been complete without him; he was quite the comedian. What a gift he must have been all these years to the students he has inspired!
Billy, you will be missed. We are all better people for having known you.
Jenifer Klein
December 30, 2008
Uncle Bill was such a great guy and so funny. He had a way with me and my brother that he could always make us laugh. We love you uncle bill. We are so sorry for your loss Aunt Nancy and Cousins. We love you!
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