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Barbara Patulo Obituary

PATULO, BARBARA FINAN Barbara Finan Patulo, 63, of Guilford, CT passed away on Wednesday, November 16, 2011 at home. A Memorial Mass will be held at a later date. Born in Summit, N.J., and formerly of Millburn, N.J., Barbara has lived in Conneticut since 1982. Mrs. Patulo was a Day Care Worker at Cradles To Crayons Day Care Center in Guilford for many years. She previously worked as Secretary at Chubb Insititute in Short Hills, NJ from 1966-1982. Barbara was the devoted sister of Kathleen Finan and the late Edward J. Finan Jr; loving daughter of the late Edward and Ruth Finan. She is survived by two nephews and four nieces and was the dear close friend of Diane and Ben Lyster. In lieu of flowers, donations to Good Grief, 38 Elm Street, Morristown, NJ 07960 would be appreciated. Arrangements by The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, Maplewood, NJ. For more information or to send condolences please visit jacobhollefuneralhome.com

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Published by the New Haven Register from Nov. 22 to Nov. 23, 2011.

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Greg Jamin

March 26, 2012

Kathy, my sister Christine Jamin recently told me the sad news about your sister Barbara. My sister Christine and Barbara were good friends dating back to the early 70's. Brabara and me became very good friends thru the 70's and eighties. We were summer houses in Manasquan and winter houses at Hunter mtn. I was at her wedding in early 80. She was both gentle and compassionate and her passing leaves a void in all our lives
Rest beautiful girl rest. You are free
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November 23, 2011

Very sad to hear about Barbara. I worked with her for a while at the nursery school, as I remember her loving each and every child. I ran into her from time to time in town... A women with her own internal dismay always found a place in her heart for the compassion of others, including me, as she managed a smile and a hug, and a bit of conversation. Knowing that she is at peace up above, she will always hold a place my soul.

November 21, 2011

Kathy, I saw the sad news about you sister Barbara, You know I dated Barbara back in the 70's and if you remember I took you to your 1st Knicks game way back when with Barbara
Bob LaCosta
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