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Ellen Gabrielle Obituary

Gabrielle, Ellen M.
Ellen M. Gabrielle passed away peacefully in her home on June 24, 2019. She was born April, 26, 1943 in New Haven, the daughter of the late Margaret and Vincent Burke. Mrs. Gabrielle was the devoted wife of the late Ralph P. Gabrielle. After graduating from St. Mary's High School, she began a distinguished career in banking, becoming vice president of residential lending at the First New Haven Bank. This was just the beginning of her tireless community service. She was the executive director of AIDS Project New Haven (1999 – 2008). She received an Honorary Degree from the Yale Divinity School in 1999 in recognition of her work with the New Haven Mayor's Task Force on AIDS. In 2000, she received the New Haven Pride Center Dorothy Award for making a difference in the LGBT Community. The first AIDS Walk was developed with her guidance in 2005 and remains an annual event to this day. A devoted Catholic, Ellen served both on the board of St Mary's Church of New Haven and Columbus House. As Director of Development at Liberty Community Services, she continued her work for the homeless and underserved. Later, Ellen became a founding member of Liberty's Sunrise Cafe, a free breakfast café serving homeless and food-insecure people with dignity and respect. She is survived by: sisters Jude Burke of Guilford, Mary Burke (Cyrus Tau) of Holliston, MA and the late Margaret M. Scarpa; nephews Bernard (Freda) Scarpa, Jason (Giset) Scarpa, Thomas (Maki) Scarpa and James (Olivia) Scarpa; great-nieces and nephews Nathan, Maggie, Cassie, Alison, Vanessa, Jason Jr. and Leonidas Scarpa. Step-children: Noel (Nancy) Gabrielle, Robin (Thomas) Moore, Gary Gabrielle, Lisa (William) Biagioni and Jill Brogan. Also survived by her grandchildren: Brett Gabrielle, Lauren (Giulio) Cavalli, Melanie (Daniele) Mancuso, Lindsay (Stephen) Fulghum, Geoffrey (Jerrica) Moore, Christina Moore, Nicholas Biagioni, Taylor Biagioni, Timothy Brogan, Natalie Brogan and great-grandchildren: Giuliana Cavalli, Daniele Mancuso, Gabriella Mancuso and Hadley Moore. Our extended family of caregivers have our deep gratitude. A memorial service will be held Saturday, June 29, 1:00 p.m. at St. Joseph Church, St. Mary's Parish, 129 Edwards St., New Haven, CT, with a reception at the Gabrielle home immediately following. In lieu of flowers, the family requests you honor Ellen's passion for service by sending memorial gifts for Sunrise Café in her name or volunteering there. Check www.libertycs.org for more information. To leave an online condolence or tribute, please visit
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Published by The New Haven Register on Jun. 27, 2019.

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Mary burke

June 19, 2024

We miss you so much and keep you in our hearts. We love you, our Ellen

June 29, 2019

I have been saddened by the passing of such a dear and loving friend ellen she has helped me as a homeless person here n new haven and she will be missed by all

June 29, 2019

My deepest sympathy to Ellen's family....She was an amazing woman and dear friend....She will be missed by many..... Sending love to all that she cared for!!!!! Pat

Gennaro Hathaway-Tillotson

June 28, 2019

Ellen was an amazing women of conviction. My condolences to her entire family - both blood and chosen! I thank her for all she did for the LGBT community and the rights of the marginalized. She and Ralph were an amazing couple.

Michael Ortseifer

June 28, 2019

My sympathy to Ellen's family. alwats in my heart, Michael Ortseifer.

Barbara Lucas Riccitelli

June 28, 2019

"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come." - Proverbs 31:25

We are going to miss you, dear friend, Ellen - but Claudio and I will always remember your generous spirit. Surely you are now basking in the company of the Good Shepherd.

Andy O'Neill

June 27, 2019

I remember Ellen as a warm, caring person. We worked together on banking matters in the 80s and 90s and I saw her regularly at St. Mary's parish. May God have mercy on her soul and bless her family.

Frank Iezzi

June 27, 2019

A truly kind and compassionate soul. As VP of New Haven Savings, Ellen took a special interest in my mom, just an elderly customer at the bank, who walked in one day needing financial guidance in mortgage issues after my Dad passed. Not only did Ellen see her through the process from beginning to end, but they became fast friends and remained so till my mom's passing some 20 yrs later. Mom was extremely proud of having Ellen and Ralph in her life, and I will always be grateful that she became a part of our family. God Bless Ellen and Ralph. May they rest in eternal peace.

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