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Paul Consorte Obituary

Paul "Whitey" Consorte
October 11, 2023
Paul "Whitey" Consorte, entered into rest on October 11, 2023. He is the son of Dolores Bango Consorte and the late Joseph Consorte, Sr. Well-known in West Haven for his bartending skills, Paul owned the former Whitey's Café. While at Notre Dame High School, he was an outstanding goaltender for the hockey team. After graduation from Notre Dame, he attended American International College in Springfield. At the time of his death, Paul was employed at Brass Lighting.
In addition to his mother, Paul leaves his brothers and their families, Joseph (Liz) Consorte, Jr., Chris (Lisa) Consorte, Mark (Carla) Consorte; seven nieces and nephews, and his companion, Rosette Marina.
All services are private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Shrine, 512 W. Saratoga St., Baltimore, MD 21201, www.stjudeshrine.org . To leave an online condolence for the Consorte family, please visit our website www.westhavenfuneral.com .

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Published by The New Haven Register on Oct. 14, 2023.

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Jay Niemiec , ND Hockey , Class of 1980

October 27, 2023

RIP my friend , it was memorable guarding the crease with you.

Elaine Bertona

October 17, 2023

Sending our condolences to the Consorte Family. We will miss you. Rest in Peace. Elaine and Family

Larry Boucher

October 17, 2023

We all loved Whitey.
Lots of great memories will forever be remembered.
He was the first kid I had a fight with when I moved to West Haven. It was something or other during a game of punchball at Mackrille School. He was a great neighbor and friend and I am happy to have known him.

Doug Cassella

October 17, 2023

My sincere condolences to the Consorte family. Paul was an outstanding man!

I best remember Paul "Whitey" for the excitement he brought to the hockey arena as an exceptional goaltender for the ND hockey program.

RIP

Doug Cassella ND 78

Angelo Pizzola

October 16, 2023

Shared many good times with Whitey since high-school. Sad to say goodbye to another good friend. Rest easy.

Jason Heffernan

October 16, 2023

Mark, Chris, Joe, and the rest of the Consorte family, my father, brothers and I send our sincerest condolences and prayers.

Shauna

October 16, 2023

Paul you will be terribly missed. I'm so glad I got to know you these last 11 years working with you. Rest easy.

Dr. Pete Cuozzo, NDHS `78

October 16, 2023

My deepest condolences to the family. I will always remember Paul´s wit and unique personality from our high school days together.

Jack mas

October 16, 2023

A wonderful man with a big heart and a smile that always made you feel welcome. RIP "WHITEY" YOU WILL BE MISSED.

Nick Casella

October 16, 2023

Sincere Condolences to all of Paul's family. Although I haven't been in touch with Paul since graduating Notre Dame High School, I remember him to be a great guy and part of an awsome hockey team.

Christine DeLeo

October 16, 2023

Wil always remember your warm smile. Thanks for being such a great friend to Dad all these years.

John Matto

October 16, 2023

I am very saddened to of heard of this tragic news. Our loss is heaven´s game. God bless you, Paul and your entire family till we meet again.

Steve Muirs

October 16, 2023

Thoughts and prayers are with the Consorte family and all loved ones

Katherine Consorte Arnold

October 16, 2023

Dolores I am so very sorry for your loss.

Marianne Nuzzo

October 15, 2023

My deepest sympathy to Joey and family.
I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Whitey. Long ago memories, seem like yesterday. A nice guy with the warmest smile !
May God bring you and your family peace and comfort through this most difficult time.
Marianne Nuzzo

Mari-jean Morelli

October 15, 2023

I am deeply saddened to hear of Paul's (Whitey's) passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Wishing the entire Consorte family comfort and peace during this difficult time.

Diane Pagogna Crocco

October 15, 2023

My sincere condolences and sympathy to the entire Consorte family. So so sorry to hear the passing of Paul.

john skarlos

October 15, 2023

condolences to the entire family and all of pauls many friends may god bless all the skarlos family

Matthew DelGuidice

October 15, 2023

Chris and family , Im so sorry for your loss , loved going to hang out at Whiteys and play the bar games he had , he will be greatly missed ....RIP , Matt

Michael Civitello

October 15, 2023

To Dolores and the entire Consorte family,
I was totally shocked to hear of Paul´s passing. I´ll never forget seeing him at ND. He was always smiling. I also remember even before ND having fun times as a kid with Paul and your family. Please accept mine and my family´s sincere condolences for a terrible loss. Go with God Paul.
Michael Civitello

William Andranovich

October 15, 2023

To one of the best , till we meet again , say hi to everyone for me , love always whiteness, Billy the kid , Amen.

Jim Casey

October 15, 2023

A wonderful guy in so many ways! Known him since he was a youngster and always Respectful. So sorry to hear of his passing,but I know he´s in good hands with Big Joe now. My heartfelt sympathy to his Mom (a special lady) and brothers and their families! God´s blessings to you all! Doc.

MaryLou Sanca

October 15, 2023

Prayers and sympathy to the Consorte family on Paul's passing. So sorry for your loss.
Mary Lou Sanca

Paul Marini

October 15, 2023

Rest in peace old friend,will never forgot the days on High Meadow

Kevin Jason

October 14, 2023

My heart is broken! What the Consorte Family meant to me is something I always cherished! I love you Whiteman ! Now you can see the real Angels play baseball! My prayers go out to your loved ones! Mom , Dad , Joey, Chris and Marky all played a positive impact in my life , truly wonderful people! You will be missed Whitey ! Love KJ and the Jason Family!

John Gibbons

October 14, 2023

He was a great goaltender and one of my favorite players that I had the privilege to coach at ND; he was an even greater young man. We were one game away, Paulie. R.I.P.

Janice & Mark Lynn

October 14, 2023

Liz and Joe, Mark and I send our love and deepest condolences to you and your family. May you find comfort in your memories in the coming days.

Cliff Hotchkiss

October 14, 2023

My sincere condolences to the Consorte family!Whitey was a great man and a friend to all and will be missed for sure!May he rest in eternal peace

Vic Sunden

October 14, 2023

So sorry to hear this. I'm thinking of Paul in our OLOV days when we played a few sports together. He was a really good kid and excellent teammate. Also he had a very funny sense of humor and kept us laughing. May he rest in peace.

Karen Hayes

October 14, 2023

To all his family, I am so very sorry for your loss of Paul. He was a wonderful man. Please try and focus on all the wonderful memories you have of him. RIP Paul
Love always,
Karen Hayes

Teresa & Ed Fiore

October 14, 2023

To the Consorte family, we´re so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you now and in the difficult days ahead.
Love, Teresa & Ed Fiore

Kerry

October 14, 2023

Paul, you were amazing. The actual G.O.A.T. Probably one of the most interesting and entertaining men I have ever met. Never had a bad day knowing you. I have and will continue to miss you. May you rest in peace.

Jim DeNegris 27 Shadduck Rd Naugatuck 06770

October 14, 2023

When he would say Kick save and a beauty when he loved NY Rangers and Giacoman the Goalie he was a great person and friend I´m so sorry

Raymond Morelli

October 14, 2023

Godspeed my friend, our lives will be forever linked.

And i choose to remember all the good times we had together.

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