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Peter Charland Obituary
July 7, 1956 - September 14, 2024
Peter Edward Charland, aged 68, passed away on September 14, 2024, at his treasured home in Guilford, Connecticut; his favorite place to bring family and friends together. Born on July 7, 1956, in Providence, Rhode Island, Peter was a beacon of love and support to all who knew him.
From Pawtucket, RI, Peter graduated from St. Raphael Academy before furthering his education at Stonehill College, Class of 1975, then earning a certificate from Harvard University School of Business and an M.B.A. from Columbia University. Peter's career was marked by significant achievements and lasting relationships. He began his journey at AT&T in 1983, where he served as Regional Vice President until 1999. He then moved through various executive roles, contributing to companies like Critical Path, Sonexis, Iperia, and Dell EMC. From 2012 to 2021, he was the EVP of Global Sales and Service at HB Communications, then he concluded his professional journey at Diversified as the Director of Global Services, retiring in 2023.
Aside from his professional achievements, Peter was deeply connected to his community and the outdoors. He served on the leadership board of the Guilford Shellfish Commission, was involved with the Guilford Community Television Station and sat on the board of Directors for the Guilford Yacht Club; where he could often be found. His hobbies included gardening, boating, cooking, and mentoring others. Known for his giving nature, Peter was always the first to offer help, whether through his time, advice, or resources and approached every aspect of life with passion and dedication.
Peter's family was the cornerstone of his life. He is survived by his loving wife, Pamela. His children Lindsay Charland of Duxbury, MA, Daria Charland of Dallas, TX, Patrick Charland (Christina) of Farmington Hills, MI, and Connor Charland (Sara) of Austin, TX; as well as Kerry Bergin (Cam Ronnei) of Kingston, NY; sister Kathleen Leduc Silver (Dan) of West Hartford, CT; and cherished "Papa" to his grandchildren, Jackson, Sophia, John, Kevin, and Caleb. He was preceded in death by his parents, Raymond "Pa" and Eileen Charland; his aunt Eleanor "Nonie" Lalime; sister Marie Crawford; and brother Raymond Charland Jr.
A Celebration of Life will be held at the Guilford Yacht Club in Guilford, CT, on Friday, September 20th, from 1-4 p.m. Peter's legacy of love, leadership, and community involvement will be fondly remembered and sorely missed by all who knew him.
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Captain Morgan
November 13, 2024
Peace be with you, friend.
RIP.
Cap
Antonio Rabbito
October 4, 2024
We lost a great guy, I am still thinking of how this happened... in my case, he gave me a chance to improve, change my job from installations to customer service and I will always remember that Peter changed my life
Daria
September 23, 2024
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Daria
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Daria
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Daria
September 23, 2024
Love you, dad!
Steve Langelier
September 21, 2024
My sincere condolences to Peter's (Retep's) family. I will always remember those times hiking the Whites during the Stonehill years and hanging down in Hyannis during the summer.
I am so sorry that I could not make his memorial in Connecticut.
Please take care and know that those memories will always be a part of me. Steve Langelier-Derry, NH
Dan coffey
September 20, 2024
Condolences to peters family. In 2018 I was in the midst of a career change and Peter gave me a chance as an Av tech. I am still with the onsite company though under different contractor, but will always be grateful for Peter and what he saw in me. He was a great guy and loved to bring the team together for an outing when he was in town.
Joe Mastro
September 20, 2024
Pam and the entire Charland Family -
I arrived at Stonehill College in my sophomore year where I was fortunate to join a bunch of crazies, many from Rhode Island, in the basement of O´Hara Hall in an area of the dorm known as, The Pits. One night, a couple of RI guys said they were going to visit their friend Peter Charland down at Providence College and did I want to join them? I did and so began a life-long friendship with one of the kindest, funniest, smartest, and most genuine guys I have ever met (with an incredible record album collection at the time I might add.) He had a contagious lust for life. Who else would fly down to Georgia to try and hike the Appalachian Trail back to New England? I don´t recall how many states he made it through, but it was incredibly impressive. After college, our careers ran in parallel in telecommunications for many years, he at AT&T and me at arch enemy MCI where we sometimes bored people talking shop when we got together.
But as it typically goes with guys (me in particular) contact became much less frequent over the years with an occasional phone call here or an FB post there, and the promise of getting together soon. But the connection was still there so it was a gut punch when I saw your post about Peter`s passing. And a painful reminder not to put off to tomorrow what you can do today,
But I know what I feel pales in comparison to the pain, shock, and sadness that you are all experiencing. I pray that by celebrating his life today through stories and memories you will all feel a profound comfort that through those stories he will always be with you. Peace.
Margot
September 19, 2024
peter treated me like an equal and with respect. that's a rare quality. my condolences to his family and friends. may his memory be a blessing and encouragement.
Chris Miller
September 19, 2024
To Peter's family---on behalf of the many, many individuals who knew and respected Peter through PSNI Global Alliance, please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Melissa Du Breuil
September 19, 2024
So sad to hear of his passing he was so full of life and I always enjoyed his cooking pics .. sending my love and prayers to the family during this trying time!
David Corson
September 19, 2024
Peter was one of the greatest people in my life, professional and personal. He taught me so many life and business lessons and was always there for you. He truly was one of the most amazing people and mentors I have had the pleasure of having in my life.
Rob Smith
September 19, 2024
I was lucky enough to have Peter as my boss for a while, we first met face to face when I flew over to be introduced to some of our clients, on the way back from a meeting we dropped into a boat yard to look at a boat he had his eye on, which he ended up buying. we then traveled on to his home where I first met the wonderful Pam. Peters introduction was "Hey Pam, this is Rob, he made me buy a boat today!" we were friends from that point on. Janie & I will truly miss having Peter in our lives.
Lisa Schermerhorn
September 18, 2024
Peter was always smiling and laughing and his home was always open to friends and loved ones for a drink and share funny stories. I remember when he reconnected with Pam and how he shared with me how lucky he was and how happy he was to be sharing his life with her.
Maynard
September 18, 2024
Peter was a great guy and friend. Enjoyed spending time with him at countless hockey rinks and soccer fields all over the place. We bonded watching our kids compete, be teammates and grow into adults. He will be missed , always had a kind word for me. God Bless Peter and the Charland family
Erin Roesler
September 18, 2024
Peter was a colleague who pushed me - in every sense of the word! He advocated for me, challenged me, and mentored me. He was always open and honest, and even when we disagreed, we respected each other and always found a path forward. He made me better and I will always be grateful for the opportunities I had because of him. Rest in peace.
Sharon Falanga
September 18, 2024
We remember first meeting Peter and Pam at a restaurant and quickly striking up a conversation. This lead to an exchange of phone numbers and an ongoing friendship. Peter always was very generous with his time and talents. We will miss him greatly. He was a unique, warm and loving husband, father, and friend. He was taken too soon from our lives
Kevin Collins
September 18, 2024
I was fortunate to get to know and work with Peter, though it was only toward the end of his career. It didn´t take long to realize how intelligent and emotionally aware he was. His team deeply loved and respected him, and he was a true mentor to many. I will always remember him.
My heartfelt condolences go out to his family and friends, who I´m sure will miss him dearly.
Steven Schaber
September 18, 2024
I will cherish the moments we were fortunate enough to spend together in the field. My sincere sympathy to your amazing family during this difficult time.
Eric Gawlak
September 18, 2024
I will never forget after singing at an HB holiday party Peter coming up to me afterwards and exclaiming "where did this guy come from?" he was absolutely a one in a million personality and a wonderful human being who will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to his family
Janie Smith (Cook)
September 18, 2024
Never forget the day Pete and Rob came back to yours and announced that they´d bought a boat! It was their cheeky announcement that made it so funny xxxx
Jack Bonner
September 18, 2024
We will miss Pete dearly, the time spent with him a the Guilford Yacht Club were always the best!!!
Dave Carello
September 18, 2024
I remember our many conversations on G dock at Cedar Island Marina, from Hot Dogs to Hockey and, I enjoyed them all. Peter was always a gentleman first and foremost and it was an honor to know him. Me and Joanne are deeply saddened by his passing and will miss him greatly. Love and condolences to Peters wife Pam and, his entire family.
Michele Mark Cole Mason Pettinicchi
September 18, 2024
Pam-
Mark, the boys, and I are truly sorry for the loss of Peter. He will be so very missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are incredibly saddened by Peter’s passing. Love the Pettinicchi family.
Keith Fallon
September 18, 2024
So sorry for your family´s loss, Peter was a trusted co worker and friend.
Linda Zeeb
September 18, 2024
Pam I am so sorry for your loss. Peter was a great guy. Chris remembers when they all went clamming and the fun they had. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love Chris and Linda
Stephen Sherwin
September 18, 2024
I wouldn´t be where I am today professionally without Peter´s belief in me and his guidance. My deepest condolences on the loss of a truly genuine and generous mentor and friend.
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