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Thomas McIver Obituary

McIver, Thomas E. On Saturday, December 8, 2012 Thomas E. McIver 'Bubba" 72, departed this life at Smilow Cancer Hospital. Bubba was born in Sanford, N.C. on October 6, 1940 to the late Evander McIver and Gertrude Allen. He leaves to mourn his passing, his wife, Elizabeth McIver, daughter, Norma Thomas, son, Daryl (Hollie) McIver, 3 sisters, 1 sister-in-law, Sandra (Howard) Dent. He also leaves a host of grandchildren, great- grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins & friends. A ceremony of celebration of his life will be held Saturday, December 15, 2012 at 9 a.m. at Holy Trinity COGIC Church, 136 Winthrop Ave, New Haven, CT. Calling hours from 8 a.m. until time of service. Interment in Evergreen Cemetery. SERVICES OF COMFORT ENTRUSTED TO McClam Funeral Home, 95 Dixwell Ave, New Haven, CT 06511. Online conolences available at www.mcclamfuneralhome.net.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Dec. 12 to Dec. 13, 2012.

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Brian Clark

March 24, 2013

I miss you and wish I came home when you asked if I wanted to the last time we spoke. Love you

Brian Clark

March 24, 2013

I will miss you Bubba you and Tommie were the best foster family I was ever put with. You raised me to be the hard worker and good father that I am today. I will allways remember what you tought me and will allways think of you when the song lean on me comes on as we listened to alot. Thank you for teaching me to be a good person. Your missed but will never be forgotten

Enid Freeman

December 16, 2012

My prayers go out to the family. You will be truly missed... A man with a Big Heart and much love you always showed and shared much love among your family. May you rest in peace

Mrs. Enid C, Freeman

Keisha Tysor

December 14, 2012

I will miss you Uncle Bubba I love you very much and will miss our talks and laughs! You were such a joy to be around! Love you and enjoy your sisters and others in Heaven !

Ketta Williams (Hilton Family)

December 14, 2012

My Condolence and deepest Sympathy to the McIver family on the lost of there loved one.

The last time he was in NC

Yvette Tysor

December 14, 2012

I love you Uncle Bubba... Love Yvette

marilyn Butler

December 13, 2012

I love you Uncle Bubba! You will be missed!!

Love Necy

Shannon Robinson

December 13, 2012

Bubba it was a pleasure working with you for the time you were here.... It's sad that he took you home so soon but he who holds tomorrow new best, Ms. Tommie you had a wonderful husband and you will get through this time

Teresa Woods Gambrell

December 12, 2012

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband, father and grandfather. You have my sympathy.I'm pray that God gives your family strength during this time.May God bless your family.

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