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Fabian, Victor
Victor Louis Fabian of New Haven, Madison and Clinton, CT passed away suddenly in March 2018 at age 54. Preceded in death by parents Leo Victor and Ellen Fyfe Fabian, he will be missed by sisters and their children: Joan Fabian (Basil, Cleome Bova); Beatrice Fabian (Flora, Louis, Jacob, Beatrice Shenker); Cynthia Fabian/Carl Brousseau (Sumner, Emily Hancock/Dan Czech), his feline companion Fat Boi and many friends. Victor attended Xavier High School (1981) Quinnipiac College (2012). Please join us in remembering Victor, Saturday May 5, noon to 4 p.m., Giant Valley Polo Club, 640 Tuttle Avenue Hamden, CT 06518. In lieu of flowers, please make a difference in the lives of others.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Apr. 8, 2018.

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Beatrice Fabian

April 4, 2021

Missing my brother, Victor.

Joan

April 3, 2020

Missing Victor

Jeff Kinsley

November 10, 2019

I just learned of this today, very sorry to hear this, I attended Xavier along with my brother Peter with Victor, we reconnected on Facebook and Victor was a comfort when my brother passed in 2013, RIP my friend

Gary Bucher

September 9, 2019

I knew Victor in my childhood. We went to middle school together, and were roommates during the class Washington DC trip. We became very good friends, again, in adult life. When I heard about his passing I was devastated. It still hurts. It hurts, deeply. Victor, you helped me laugh at the absurd. Not many are capable of that. Save a seat for me at the discussion table. Buch

Joan Fabian

April 8, 2019

In loving memory

N K

September 9, 2018

I met Victor almost 10 years ago. He helped refine my attitude and gave me a fresh, realistic, and funny view on things. I never deeply knew him, but his presence was wonderful. He will be missed. My heart goes out to his family and friends.

Tony Juliano

June 23, 2018

I first met Victor as my neighbor in the early 2000's. He made all these little gadgets so he wouldn't have to leave his chair. I will dearly miss you my friend.

Pam Andersen

May 5, 2018

I first met Victor in New Haven in the 1980's. He was sharp, sarcastic, witty and a great conversationalist. A few years ago, I caught up with him at a Boogie Chillun' concert in Westville and he let my young son sit on his Harley! A nice memory. Offering my condolences to Victors' family and friends. With Deep Sympathy, Pam Andersen

May 2, 2018

I was glad to know you better over the years and absolutely will miss your sense of humor and infinite smarts! My sincere condolences to Victor's loved ones.
-mc

Aile Hepburn

April 25, 2018

I just now learned of VIctor's passing and am so deeply saddened. He had such a sharp wit , a deep intelligence and a sweetness I'm grateful I got to experience. My heart is with you Bea, Cynthia, Fat Boi and the rest of your family.

love~Aile

Johna

April 20, 2018

Victor. Genius, generous, acutely aware, endlessly amusing and beautifully unique. I am so sorry he is gone. My most sincere condolences to his family and his friends.

Rest in peace, Victor. You will be missed

Nan (Dugan) Wolfe

April 12, 2018

Tia, Joan and Bea, my heart goes out to you.

Victor, my favorite memory of you will always be of the night you and I bested both of our fathers in a debate on politics - so much laughter. Be at peace.

April 9, 2018

Sincerely condolences to the Fabian family. We will miss you Victor. One of my best buds for many years. He was brilliant, hilarious, so loyal, incredibly interesting, and wildly fun. We had some great times and adventures that I can't publish here, but that I'll never forget. Until we meet again my friend...

Beatrice Fabian

April 9, 2018

My Brother, my friend. You were truly one of a kind. I'll miss you forever. I love you so very much. I will always question why, and I accept that I will never know those answers. But, wherever you are now, know that I will always love you, dear Victor.

Maura Coppola

April 8, 2018

So sorry to hear of Victor's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Todd Lyon

April 8, 2018

I'm so sorry for this terrible loss to Victor's family, and to everyone in Greater New Haven who loved him... and there are many.

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