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Robert Caffrey Obituary

NEWTON -- Robert A. Caffrey, 81, died peacefully on Tuesday, Nov.10, 2009, at the New Jersey FiremenÕs Home in Boonton. Born and raised in Wilkes-Barre, Pa., Robert had lived in Green Township before moving to Newton many years ago.

Son of the late James and Edith (Long) Caffrey, Robert was a graduate of the James L. Coughlin High School, Wilkes-Barre, class of 1946. Mr. Caffrey worked many years as a supervisor for the former Darlington Mills of Newton until their closing. Robert retired as a boiler department supervisor with the Ames Rubber Co. of Hamburg after 17 years of service. A life member and former chief of the Newton Fire Department, as well as the Fire Patrol, Bob was also a life member of the Green Township Volunteer Fire Department, the New Jersey Sate Exempt FiremenÕs Association and the New Jersey State Fire Chiefs Association. A life member of the New Jersey State FiremenÕs Home Association, Bob had served as the Sussex County manager for the past 17 years, retiring in October. A life member of the New Jersey State and Sussex County Fire Police, Robert also served two terms as the Sussex County Fire Police Commissioner.

Curator of the Newton Fire Department Museum from 1990 to 2005, Mr. Caffrey was a dedicated and devoted member of his community and state. His tireless efforts will be missed by all who had the privilege to serve with him. A member of the Prime Time Senior Citizens, Robert received the Senior of the Year Award in 1996. A past member and director of both the Broadcasters Drum and Bugle Corp. and the Mariners Color Guard, Mr. Caffrey was a member of the First Presbyterian Church of Newton, a fourth degree Knight with the Knights of Columbus, Don Bosco Chapter 7784, Newton, as well as a third degree member of the Ancient Order of Hibernians.

Predeceased by his first wife, Jeanne (Bannon) Caffrey, in 1996, as well as his four brothers, Robert is survived by his wife, Marjorie (VanLuvender) Haycock Caffrey; his sons, Robert J. and Edward A. Caffrey, both of Newton; a stepson, Hal Haycock of Boonton; a daughter, Charlene Nagy of Stillwater; his sister, Evelyn Ellman of Orlando, Fla.; eight grandchildren; four step-grandchildren; and five great-grandchildren.

Funeral services will be held Saturday at 10 a.m. at the Iliff-Ruggiero Funeral Home, 156 Main Street (Route 206), Newton. Interment will immediately follow in Newton Cemetery. Visitation will be held Friday from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m., with fire department services at 8 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Robert A. CaffreyÕs memory to the NJ FiremanÕs Home, 565 Lathrop Ave., Boonton, NJ 07005. Online condolences may be offered through www.iliff-ruggierofuneralhome.com.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on Nov. 12, 2009.

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janice simpson(kosc)

November 28, 2009

have really good memories with the broadcasters he will be missed havealot of pictures to remember him by with the band

Kelly Durning

November 20, 2009

Eddie --

Dave just called me about your Dad. I'm so sorry to hear that he has passed, but he lived a long time and I know you've got tons of memories to cherish.

November 19, 2009

Bless You all...Chaplain Debbie

November 13, 2009

Sorry to hear of Bob's passing We knew him thru Prime time.Our. condoleneces. Audrey and Harold Phillips

Ex-Chief Roger White

November 13, 2009

Once again the alarm has sounded to alert us that one of our own has answered his last alarm. Bob was a man very much dedicated to the service of others. Spending many hours working in the fire museum and all the time he spent with the fire department. Bob was always there when the alarm sounded willing to do what ever he could to help others. The many years that he worked with the young people of the drum corps helping to guide them into adult hood. May he now rest in peace at the right hand of God.

November 13, 2009

Marge,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories of Bob's dedication to community service, especially to the Fire Department, and your tender loving care of him bring you comfort.
Sincerely, Roger and Helen Struble

Edward & Joan Green

November 13, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Jim Riker

November 12, 2009

Sorry to hear the news about Bob. It was a pleasure knowing him and his family during the years with the Broadcasters. As my wife Betty said he was a nice man. Our prayers are with you during this time. Jim Riker and Betty (Drake) Riker.

Sandy Cortright

November 12, 2009

Sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Bob thru Drum Corp. I was in the color guard.

Joyce & Lenny Wallace

November 12, 2009

To: All Of Robert A. Caffrey"s Family
Being A fire fighter myself I can appreciate all that Bob did for his community he was simply put a Hero! putting his life before others. Knowing Bob from when I was Little playing cymbals in the Broadcaster Drum & Bugle corp. has given me fond memories . Bob has a beautiful family and I pray that you all find peace in his passing. He is in a better place and will always be looking down on all of us! Although my wife Joyce did not know Bob personally she also would like to express her sorrow to his family.

Maureen Brigham

November 12, 2009

I was so sorry to hear the news. My heartfelt sympathies go out to the whole family. Bob was a good man and will be missed by many.

Lesley Silverman

November 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cindy DePue

November 12, 2009

Dear Ed,
It sounds like your Dad's life was full of so many important things... Including his sons.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

JACQUI DUCHEMIN

November 12, 2009

BILL
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS
MY HEART IS WITH YOU
LOVE JACQUI DUCHEMIN

November 12, 2009

Bob will be missed but will not be forgotten by the fire service in Sussex County and the Boonton Firemen's Home. Thank you Bob.

Joe Anthony
Ex-Chief, McAfee Fire Dept

David Durning

November 12, 2009

Have many fond memories of traveling and marching with the Broadcasters. Bob will surely be missed.

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