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Dr. Stephan G. Gubar HIGHLAND LAKES - Dr. Stephan G. Gubar died Thursday, Sept. 18, 2008. Born in Jersey City, Mr. Gubar was the son of George and Beulah Weil Gubar. Graduating from Emerson High School in Union City, Mr. Gubar went on to earn his Bachelor of Science degree from Jersey City State College. He later earned his master's degree at Seton Hall University, and his doctorate at Universal Life in Modesto, Calif. Stephan served in the Army as a field medic during the Vietnam War, receiving a Bronze Star, Army Commendation Medal (First Oak Leaf Cluster), as well as a Purple Heart. His career involved work as a teacher of the handicapped in Paterson, as a school psychologist in Paterson and Passaic, as a crisis intervention counselor in West Milford, as director of special services in Wanaque, and most recently as an adjunct professor at William Paterson University. Stephan enjoyed life to the fullest. Special to him were birdwatching, flyfishing, traveling to interesting locations, including his beloved Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, cooking, photography, and Latin dancing. His greatest joy came from the love of his wife, Cathy, his family, and his friends. Mr. Gubar was predeceased by his father, Dr. George Gubar. Mr. Gubar is survived by his loving wife, Cathyann Striffler-Gubar, of Highland Lakes; his son, Adam Gubar, of Montclair; his mother, Beulah Gubar, of Little Egg Harbor; his brother, Bentley Gubar, of Little Egg Harbor; his sister, Norinne Guller-Gubar, of Stanhope; his parents-in-law, Christian and Edna Striffler, of Equinunk, Pa.; his sisters-in-law, Diane Rothamel and her husband, Scott, of Glenwood, and Chrisann Tetkoski and her husband, Joseph, of Equinunk; and his loving nieces and nephews, Megan and Glenn David Roberts, Kate and Stacy Mansfield, Christian and Kyle Tetkoski and Brett, Jason and Emily Rothamel. The family asks that Stephan be remembered with a smile at his visitation today, from 2 to 5 p.m., at the M. John Scanlan Funeral Home, 781 Newark-Pompton Turnpike, at Route 23, Pompton Plains. A 5 p.m. funeral service will follow visitation hours.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on Sep. 21, 2008.

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Jeff & Sue Hiller

October 6, 2008

Cathy,
I was so sorry to hear the news from your Mom & Dad.
Stephan has left such a legacy, shown so well in the love of his family. Every time I hear the anything about Rio de Janiero, I think of you and Stephan. He spoke so well about it and the great times that you had there. May the fond memories of the love of your life give you the peace that you need during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Paula Hammons

September 24, 2008

Cathy,

You have been in my thoughts from the moment I heard of your loss. Stephan was a dear friend. I will always miss him. He was funny, thoughtful and probably the best Psychologist I will ever know. He will always hold a special place in my heart.

Loretta Merritt

September 23, 2008

Dear Cathy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Stephan was a wonderful person and will be missed. We heard the tragic news and wish to express our deepest sympathy to you and the family. May God give you strength!!
Sincerely,
Bob and Loretta Merritt
325 Hefferon Drive, St. Augustine, FL. 32084

Alice Herrera

September 23, 2008

Cathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief Stephan will be missed by so many. My deepest sympathy to you and the entire family.

betsy wolf

September 22, 2008

from all of us at dr. victoria kaiser's office...we will so miss our friend, a person that we so came to know and love... though we only saw him seldomly, when we were able to see him it was like seeing an old friend.He will be missed.

Patricia Lipari

September 21, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Cathy I'm so sorry I could not make it on Sunday, my heart is broken. Stephan was a person that taught me so much and will be remember forever - He will be missed by so many. Bless you

Lena Sanders

September 21, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Meredith Parmelee

September 21, 2008

My deepest sympathies. To know Stephan was to love him.

Don & Harriet Schumann

September 20, 2008

Mrs. Gubar, Norinne & Ben and the Gubar Family, we are deeply saddened to hear of Stephan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you all.
Don & Harriet Schumann

Det. Timothy O'Donnell

September 20, 2008

My friend Stephan, I am so saddened. Rest in peace. Though you surely will be missed, we shall remember that our true reward lies in heaven...

Louis & Miriam Freda

September 20, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to you and the entire family.

Brenda Van Malden

September 20, 2008

Dearest Stephan,
You will be missed by so many. My heart is broken. You were a great friend and a person I could always look up to, and seek for advice. You made the biggest problems seem so small. With a smile and reasoning, everything would be all right. I know you are in a Brazil style heaven right now, and I hope it's grand. We will miss you
My deepest condolences to your family and everyone whose life you touched.
Brenda, Dennis, Hunter & Timmy
Van Malden

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