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Dolores Howard "Dee" Bates

Dolores Bates Obituary

Dolores ''Dee'' Howard Bates, age 69, on Sunday, September 12, 2004. Wife of the late James C. ''Smokey'' Bates Sr. Mother of James C. Bates Jr., Belinda Bates Unbehagen and Laurie Bates Becnel. Mother-in-law of Dee Dee Chauppetta Bates, Lenny Unbehagen Jr. and Mark J. Becnel. Daughter of the late Juanita Mones Howard and Heuitte Howard Sr. Sister of the late Heuitte ''Tootsie'' Howard Jr. and the late Juanita Howard Audibert. Grandmother of Brittany, Amanda and James Bates III; Sarah, Rebekkah, Rhett and Abby Unbehagen and Mason Becnel. Also survived by nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends. Mrs. Bates was a retired Cosmetologist and successful Doll Artist. A native of New Orleans, LA and a resident of Chalmette, LA for the past 32 years. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Gethsemane Lutheran Church in Chalmette for the installation of a memorial flag pole. Relatives, friends of the family, employees of Chalmette Refining, LLC and Bywater Hospital are invited to attend an evening visitation to be held at ST. BERNARD MEMORIAL FUNERAL HOME, 701 W. Virtue Street, Chalmette, LA on Monday, September 13th from 6:00PM 10:00PM and again on Tuesday morning from 11:00AM 1:00PM. A funeral service will follow beginning at 1:00PM. Internment will take place in St. Bernard Memorial Gardens.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Sep. 13 to Sep. 14, 2004.

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Belinda Bates Unbehagen

September 14, 2004

My mom touched many lives during her time in this world. And we are touched by the number of people who have shared their stories with us. Although the doctors told us 2 1/2 years ago she was near the end.....we are thankful to have had a great 2 1/2 years of additional memories with her. Let her experience be a reminder to us that it is "his will" not ours that will be done, and certainly in "his time". Thanks for all of your thoughts and prayers. We urge friends and of course family of my mom to keep in touch. Gods love to all of you........Belinda

MARY GOODMAN

September 13, 2004

May God Bless you all. She was a wonderful mother and Aunt. I did Love her so so much---- And she will be missed by many---

Elizabeth Odom

September 13, 2004

I wish you all well and I send my love to all

Pat Tillery

September 13, 2004

I met Ms. Bates only once, but we talked by phone many, many times. I loved her and will miss her. I have ten of her "babies" to remember what a talented, beautiful lady she was. She was so proud of her children and grandchildren. God Bless, Pat Tillery

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