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Linda Rholdon-Clement
January 4, 2021
Hi Hiram! Just want to wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! I was with your mom today and we were talking about you and Lori! We miss y’all so much! Keep watching over us and take care of My Lori for me.
Love, Ms. Lind

Linda Rholdon-Clement
April 6, 2015
Hi Hiram,
Happy Easter. I was with your Mom Easter morning at the Sunrise Services. She misses you so much, as I miss my Lori. I sure hope you and Lori are friends in heaven. Hope you had a beautiful Easter. Love, Ms. Linda

We are lost without you.
Alice Greer
December 12, 2013
Missing you and loving you so very much. Really need you by me during this very difficult time of the year.
AML AML Mom
katie stromboe
December 11, 2013
thinking and praying for peace for the many friends and family that are missing you. please keep shining down on us and making your mark in our life! your warm smile and open arms are missed by many.
Linda Rholdon-Clement
February 25, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Alice Greer
January 16, 2013
Hi Sweetie. Thinking of you as always. Loving you more and more each day. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
December 18, 2012
Hi Sweetie, Long days leading to Christmas, and thinking of you as always. Christmas will never be complete without you. AML, AML, Mom
Linda Rholdon-Clement
February 24, 2012
Happy Birthday Hiram! Hope your day was heavenly!
Carpe Diem!!!
Love, Ms. Linda
Nick Volz
August 1, 2011
Hiram,
We first met at St. Andrew's Summer camp in the summers of the mid to late 1980's. Even then, you had such a natural inner strength and athleticism. I had the pleasure of being in your class at Brother Martin and was able to witness you do great things. You were the epitome of a champion- moreover, you always had a warm heart and knew no enemies. I am a better man for having known you.
February 25, 2011
Hi my baby. Yesterday was very, very hard on all of us. Kristina, Katherine, Dad and I were very sad and just miserable. We celebrated your 31st birthday with an ice cream cake. We sang Happy Birthday and Elizabeth, Brandon, Matthew and Madison each had a turn to blow out your candles.
Another year older and another year closer to you. I miss you tremendously. You have always been my sunshine since Feb. 24, 1980. Thank You for sending the butterfly to me when I sent your birthday kiss to you. I can always count on you to pull me through.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
December 27, 2010
Hi my sweetie. Thinking of you as always. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Hiram. Well it is that time of year. The worst is over for one more year. We go from one birthday to another and then we approach December. I am so distraught through this awful month. Today was tough. The morning was fine with all the babies enjoying the presents under the tree. Your presents are still here waiting for you as always.
Dad and I spent the middle of the day preparing for supper while Kristina and Katherine went to visit the in-laws. They returned around 5pm and the evening was full of activity again.
There is never a moment we do not include you in our thoughts and celebrations. We love and miss you so very, very much.
Our family is just not complete here without you. Waiting for my next visit. All our love.
Alice Greer
September 20, 2010
Hi my baby. Some days just hurt the most and there is no escape. I love and miss you so very, very much. This is truly hell on earth.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
August 25, 2010
Hi sweetie. Things here have been very hard these last few months. My heart aches and sometimes the pain in my chest is unbearable. I know you are with me but I just can't accept the terms. My baby boy I love you dearly and miss you more than these simple words can express. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Geer
May 11, 2010
Hi my baby. Mother's day was especially hard this year. I did enjoy the red birds and that beautiful butterfly. I know you are always by my side and with that I go forward. Missing you so very much. You carry my heart in your heart. AML, AML Mom
Alice Greer
March 24, 2010
Hi my sweetie. Thinking of you each and every day. Today is a very sad day, but every day is sad without you in my arms. I miss you so very much. It seems so long since I have talked to you and yet I talk to you each day. Would love to feel you arms around me right now. I love and miss you extremely. Only God know my feelings. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
February 25, 2010
Hi my sweetie. We celebrated your birthday yesterday just the way you wanted. We had cookie cake and went to Chucky Cheese. We sang happy birthday and Brandon, Elizabeth and Matthew blew out the number "30" candle. When dad came home he also had a 30 candle, cakes from Gambino's and barbarqued steaks. Again we lite the candle and sang happy birthday. You loved your birthday and we always enjoy celebrating you. My baby boy, happy birthday.
You are missed by so many friends and family. So many of your friends called and supported me yesterday. They made me so very happy remembering all the good times and being there for me. We all love and miss you. You are in our lives every second of every day.
Happy Birthday my special angel. I love you dearly. AML, AML, Mom
Linda Rholdon-Clement
February 24, 2010
Happy Birthday Hiram!!!
Enjoy your special day in heaven with all the pretty angels and know that your presence here is sadly missed!!!!
Love,
Ms. Linda
Aunt Kat
February 24, 2010
Happy 30th Birthday, Hiram John!
I think of you often, as I do your Mom & Dad.
We all know that you are in a better place, with Paw-Paw and Kevin @ your side.
But, that does not stop the hurt down here without you.
Love,
Alice Greer
February 23, 2010
I can't believe tomorrow you will be 30 years old. WOW. 30. I just want to hug you and kiss you and never let you go. I miss you so very much.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
January 2, 2010
NEW YEAR. Well, sweetie a new year has begun. I promise to make this one much better and I pray for you to move higher and higher until you reach the white light of our Lord.
I love and miss you so very, very much.
Glad the holiday are behind us now.
AML, AML Mom
Alice Greer
December 28, 2009
Merry Christmas my baby. I know I am late, sorry. I am very glad the season has passed quickly. The main reason was our visit together and talking to you. I promise.
I hope you enjoyed the Christmas Tree this year.
I know you are content and wonderful in your heavenly home; I can't imagine the joy of being with Jesus, our Lord. One day we will all be happy together in His loving arms.
AML, AML, Mom
Linda Rholdon-Clement
December 25, 2009
Merry Xmas Hiram!
Hope you had a wonderful fifth Christmas in heaven. How lucky you and Lori are to be able to spend Christmas with our Lord! One day we will all be together.
Love,
Ms. Linda
Alice Greer
December 12, 2009
Hi sweetie. I LOVED talking to you last night. As you know, I made a promise to you. Spread your wings and fly high - enjoy and always love.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
December 11, 2009
Well my baby boy, the dreaded 11th is here again. This time marks 5 long, lonely years. You are missed so very much these simple words cannot express the sorrow we all share. I know heartache for certain as my heart is broken with a void no one can fill but you.
"Down the dark future, through long generations,
The echoing sounds grow fainter and then cease;
And like a bell, with solemn, sweet vibrations,
I heaer once more the voice of Christ say 'Peace!'" Longfellow
I pray for that peace promised by Christ.
AML, AML, Mom
Linda Rholdon-Clement
December 11, 2009
Hi Hiram,
Thinking of you today on your 5th Heavenly Birthday!
I'm sure it's a big celebration for you in heaven, but it's a sad day for your mom, family and friends who have had to live for five long years without seeing your smiling face!
CARPIEDIEM!
Love,
Ms. Linda
P.S. Give my Lori a hug for me : )
Alice Greer
December 7, 2009
Hi my sweetie. This past three days have been terrible. Days without you and reliving the dreaded 11th have my heart crying.
December 7 - 4 more days..........
Today is Paw-Paw's birthday. Be sure to hug him and tell him we are all thinking about him. Happy Birthday Paw-Paw. We miss and love you.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
December 3, 2009
December 4th - 7 more days...........
Weather is cold and expecting snow in northern Louisiana!
Alice Greer
December 1, 2009
Hi. Sweetie. Today Brandon is 11 years old. He had a good day. Kristina made brownies for his classmates and they sang Happy Birthday to him. Tonight Katherine cooked and we will have cake and sing.
This is the time I miss you so. The family is just not complete without you here.
December 1st - 10 more days........
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
November 30, 2009
"Are you lonesome tonight? Do you miss me? Is your heart filled with pain, shall I come back again?
YES, YES, YES
I miss you so very, very much.
I have Matthew Hiram with me now and he is so like you. Blonde hair, blue eyes, no fear, and loves to run around screaming and playing.
Saints play on Monday night football tonight against the New England Patriots. I know you would be at the party early. Everyone is just going wild.
Thinking of you every second.
I LOVE YOU. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
November 28, 2009
***Live well, love much, care deeply, speak kindly, laugh often and leave the rest to God.*** It was God that carried me through. Some days I could not breathe, much less live. God did the holding of me in His arms.
This phrase makes me think of you- Live well, love much, laugh often. It so decribes your life.
Kristina, Elizabeth and I went shopping today. It was ok. I thank God for my family everyday. My heart bleeds, but I have hope and love because our family is together and taking care of me.
I can't believe December is so close and the dreaded 11th will be upon us shortly. Five long, very hard, emotional years have come and gone. So very slow and yet so quickly. I did not imagine I could survive past the first hour much less five years. My heart is truly broken with a hugh hole, but I must continue to love and exist. I dream of holding you in my arms and looking into those beautiful blue eyes and seeing that wonderful smile. I will run awiftly into your open arms, never to leave you again. I love and miss you dearly.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
November 27, 2009
Hi Sweetie. Yesterday was Thanksgiving. As the family gathered around the dining room table, we prayed and gave thanks for our family. I lit your candle and invited you to attend. We knew you were with us. We laughed and talked and included you in our day.
This is the worst time of the year. My heart cries each and every day for you. I miss you with my whole being. I love you dearly.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice` Greer
October 22, 2009
Hi my Love. Went to the school mass with Elizabeth this morning. She gave me strick instructions not to cry. She told all friends about her Parran.
Madison is growing fast and is very pretty. Brandon is doing good in school and will get his first report card next week. He really likes the new school.
Matthew, Dad and I went to see Maw-Maw this past weekend. She is doing well.
Matthew is just like you - no fear.
Your favorite holiday is coming soon. Elizabeth's birthday party will be on Halloween night followed by Kristina's costume party. It should be a fun time for all. I could see you dressed and showing up with Buster around you neck.
I spoke with Mike and Wilson this week. Things ok with them as well.
Missing you as usual. Please call. I love you dearly. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
October 20, 2009
I sweetie. Days are getting longer and time is just moving slowly. My birthday party was wonderful with so many dear and loving friends. Kris and Kat had a great cake with my senior high school picture on the top of the cake. It was awesome.
Of course, there as one very special love of my life missing, but not forgotten. We always include you everyday. As you know, I still bug you and talk to you all the time. I did enjoy my phone call. Thanks. Love and Kisses. Miss you more than words can express.
I had hard days following the excitment and I know the harder days are still in front of me. Please help me to be strong. I need you. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
October 10, 2009
Hi My Baby. Tonight Katherine and Kristina are having a 60th Birthday Party for me. They have prepared a wonderful celebration. It is at Kristina's house. See you there. I truly miss you with my whole being. I love you dearl. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
October 6, 2009
Hi sweetie, greetings for the Old Wise One. Just wanted to share my birthday with you, as always. I remember my email from Iowa on my birthday from you. It made me laugh.
Such sweet and loving memories. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
October 5, 2009
Hi my baby. Linda and I had a full weekend. It started on Thursday night when we had a very speical rainbow in the sky on our way to meet with Mary Jo MaCabe. Saturday was the YOU seminar and I was so very happy to communicate with you. I love talking to you and receiving my messages. I love and miss you so very much, more each day. OK, I will take care of the "boxes"! I know you were laughing. Thanks for being with me. I spoke with Gary's mom. She told me how they went to your wrestling matches and especially enjoyed the senior match against Orillion. Also, I met David Allen's mom. I know you have so many friends with you. Tell Trey hello for me. On Sunday, Linda and I walked the Memorial Walk for our children with the Compassionate Friends. At least the rain held out until after the walk. It was a very intense and emotional weekend. You, Lori, Linda and I make a great team.
Sunday evening I watched the game at Katherine's house and helped with the babies. Saints are now 4-0. Can you belileve that!!!!!
Know that Elizabeth, Brandon and I talk about you each and every morning. You are forever in our hearts. AML, AML, Mom
October 3, 2009
Hi Alice. It's Pam Rodriguez in Tampa. Jen and I send our love to you.
Alice Greer
September 13, 2009
Hi Sweetie. Today was the beginning of Football season. I know you would have your fantasy football and would be excited. LSU and the Saints won this weekend.
I had a very hard Sat. and Sunday. I can't control my emotions and sorrow. December is approving and it is very hard this time of year. I slept most of the Sat. evening and Sunday morning. Brandon and I studied Sunday afternoon and I drove him to evening mass.
I came across of one of your UNO English papers the other day. In it you described yourself as, "aggresive in nature, tough attitude and never ending determination to be the best". You had two English Bulldog tatoos on your body to represent these qualities. I admire your traits and try to stay strong with determination just for you. My love for you is eternal. You are my soul and heart. I love you dearly. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
September 11, 2009
Hi my Love. Another 11th. Time is just moving so swiftly and yet so very slow. I cannot stand some of the days and just stay in bed. I do enjoy you sending me your love.
Katherine and Madison Alice are doing just fine. Matthew Hiram and Brandon Michael are also doing good. Brandon loves his new school, St. Andrew.
I am already feeling the depression of Dec. coming upon me. It is just such a void and emptiness in my heart. I pray to God and Mary constantly for help and support. I miss you so very much and my heart aches.
I love you and miss you more than words can describe. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
September 6, 2009
Hi Baby. Things here have been hectic to say the least.
Katherine had a baby girl, Madison Alice on 9/3 at 7:15 am. She is beautiful, weighs 7 lbs. 9 ozs. and is 19 inches long. She has a head full of dark brown hair; looks like her mom and me as a baby. Katherine is so very happy. Brandon was disappointed at first, but now is in awe of his baby sister. Matthew Hiram is still not sure of this situation. Katherine wanted her third child just for Matthew and the new baby to be as close as you and her were. Well, now she has a Hiram and Alice. Wow! If she is lucky she will get exactly what she wished for, but Oh Boy, she better be prepared. You and Katherine are so close as best friends and siblings. You two shared everything and loved every moment together. Matthew and Madison are blessed.
I know you were with her at this special time. Please stay as close as ever.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
August 18, 2009
Hi Sweetie. Brandon started St. Andrew 5th grade today. Yeterday I met Ms. Roberts. She hugged me and told me how much she loved you and that she thinks of you every day and keeps you in her prayers. She said what she loved about you was if she asked, "Hiram did you do that?', you would always smile and say, "Yes, I did." I also saw your religion teacher and she also told me how much she loved you and your smile. She said you were always honest and never had a "bad bone in your body". She remembered she assigned you to a boy who could not speak English too well, Paul. From that point on you were always taking care of Paul. I remember you and Paul became friends and played together at each other's home. So many wonderful tales and memories.
Bodie is stilling by my side and talking at this moment. Sending you his love.
I still have not talking to God and asking WHY. I know you are ok, but here is no way near ok.
Loving you and Missing you more and more each second.
AML, AML, Mom
August 4, 2009
All My Love
Alice Greer
July 28, 2009
Hi my baby. Summer is flying by so fast because Brandon and Elizabeth have been very active.
This week has been very slow just thinking of you. (as if I don't think of you every second of every day). Missing you so very, very much. I just want to go back in time and change everything. I am so lonely without you here in my arms. I sure do miss my daily phone calls.
Loving you as always. It is NOT true that time heals. This heartache will never end until you and I are together forever in each other's arms.
AML, AML Mom
Alice Greer
June 23, 2009
Hi sweetie. What can I say? Things here are difficult to say the least. Father's Day was Sunday and again another hard holiday.
You are missed and loved so very much. It still does not seem real.
I did enjoy the song this morning. It was funny. Thanks for always being there when I most need you. This Loneliness Just Won't Leave Me Along!
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greeer
May 29, 2009
Hi my baby. Today was the "best" day for Brandon. He told St. Anthony goodbye, made a 4.0 for the fourth quarter and for the final grades, got new uniforms for St. Andrew and hit a triple in the bottom of the last inning to drive the winning run home. His team mates all ran on the field and he was so proud. He tries out for the all stars tomorrow.
I knew you were there tonight at the ball game with him and it made me so proud.
We miss you and think of you each and every second of each day. I have had a few "Hiram" days and you know what I mean. Some days are just not even worth getting out of bed in the morning, but somehow you seem to turn them around and send your hugs and kisses.
I love you dearly and miss you with all my being. Please call soon. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
May 16, 2009
Hi Sweetie. Well, it is over and I could not have done it on my own. Thanks for being there with me and giving me strength. I truly loved my phone calls, especially 2 in one day.
You are my soul and heart. I know time is just a blink of an eye and I await the time we will be together in eternity.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
May 10, 2009
Hiram John, thanks for a wonderful Mother's Day. I enjoyed having you with me today. Everyone made sure the day was special for me. I miss you with all my heart. I love you dearly.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
May 9, 2009
Hi my sweetie. It has been a very long week and day. Thanks for helping me through this tough time.
I know you are with me each and every day. I know you will be by my side tomorrow with your sisters as we celebrate mother's day. You are always in my heart, my baby boy.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
May 4, 2009
Hi Sweetie. Today it is raining and dark. It is very depressing and I have this very uneasy hurt and longing for you in my heart. Mother's Day is Sunday and I am feeling lonely and missing you so very, very much. My baby, I just am having a very hard day and this cross is getting heavier. Waiting to hear from you soon. Plaase call asap. I need you now.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
May 3, 2009
I spent the day with you yesterday and it was sure relaxing and wonderful. You just have a way of making me happy.
Today I spent with Kristina, Elizabeth, Katherine, Brandon and Matthew. Our family is just missing the heart around which it beats. We love and miss you.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
May 1, 2009
Hi my love. Such a wonderful visit from you last night. I always love talking with you and holding you in my arms. The love me share is so very special. You are my sunshine and wonderful son. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 28, 2009
By Baby Boy, this seems to be the hardest time - time to sleep and lay my head down to rest. But, you are in every thought and there is no rest at night - just thinking of you. Then, I finally fall asleep only to wake to the alarm and the very, very first thought of the morning is of You. I see your smiling face and another day begins. I love you and miss you more and more each day.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 28, 2009
Missing you so very much. God knows the depth of my love for you, as well as my pain. Please call soon. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 20, 2009
Good Night my sweet baby boy. I Love You. You are ALWAYS on my mind.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 20, 2009
I forgot to tell you thanks for the phone call yesterday. Brandon and I were surprized,
AML, AML Mom
Alice Greer
April 19, 2009
Hi Sweetie. Brandon and I went to the Butterfly Release today. We met Miss Linda and her family there. It was beautiful, but of course, tears were shed. I will never be without you.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 19, 2009
Hi Sweetie. It was a wonderful but long day. Elizabeth danced in a competition for Louisiana Kids with Data's Dance. She was wonderful. I saw Miss Toni. We talked and she told me how she misses you and thinks of you often. She said she sees Stan Kotterman and they always speak of you. Of course I cried, as always. Cory is doing find and is a Court Runner of a legal firm.
The last 3 days have been awful. You are on my mind so very much. Dad had his final surgery Friday and everything went well. I knew you were there with us. We really depend on you and miss you so deeply.
Tomorrow is the butterfly release. Brandon and I plan on going. Hope the rain holds out. You are my angel and my love. You hold the key to my heart as always. I miss you more than these simple words could ever express. You Are My Sunshine. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 14, 2009
Hi Sweetie. Thinking about you as usual. Miss Linda and I went to the meeting last night. So very sad with all the raw emotions being shared.
Only God know how I miss You and all the HELL I am going through. Please call and visit again soon. I Love You So Very Much.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 12, 2009
Happy Easter my baby boy.
If I could change everything, you know I would. I Love You and Miss You.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 11, 2009
Hi my sweet baby boy. Another dreaded 11th. Elizabeth and I visited today. She is wonderful. She plays with you in the car, hugs you and laughs with you.
Easter is tomorrow. The one promise of Christ to keep our faith so stong. I know you have told me about Jesus being with you and I know in my heart it is the truth. My our Lord and his mother Mary hold you dearly in their arms until I can once again be my your side. I love you dearly. I also pray that Jesus fills this hole in my heart with His loving, tender care.
I miss you more and more each day. AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 6, 2009
Good morning. The weekend was ok but depressing for the most part. Lat night Brandon, Dad, Katherine and I watched Wrestle Mania 25 and had a great time together. Matthew is here with me this morning and we brought Brandon to school.
I spoke to Kritina, and then you called and when we came home we talked to Katherine. I love when I get the hear from all 3 of my babies.
I miss you more each and every day, if that is possible. This sure is my cross to carry. I love you dearly.
AML, AML, Mom
Alice Greer
April 1, 2009
Hi sweetie. I enjoyed your visit yesterday. Thanks for being there for me.
I heard today that you and Lori are now in London and Europe. Just celebrities. Miss Linda and I are so proud of you both.
You are my sunshine and the love of my heart. AML, AML Mom
Alice reer
March 31, 2009
Hi my baby. I am spending the day with Matthew Hiram. He reminds me of you so many times.
I know you are here with us today. It is always a comfort having you by my side.
AML, AML Mom
Alice Greer
March 29, 2009
Hi my Love. It has been a very long month. I am just starting to recover from Nov. thru Feb.
We celebrated Katherine's birtday on Thursday. I gave her your message and she was happy.
Easter is upon us again. The risen Lord and Savior is what keeps us going. The loss of a child is the most painful cross to carry.
I miss you so very much. The days are empty without you by my side. I do love hearing from you and I thnk that is the reason I continue to live. My heart, my soul, my Baby Boy.
AML, AML, Mom
February 27, 2009
Hi my love. Just thinking of everything as I sit at the computer. Really need you now.
AML, AML, Mom
February 26, 2009
Mardi Gras is over for another year. Your birthday was celebrated by many again this year. I met with Nicole when she visited and we had a nice visit. I spoke to Luke and he and T-WHit were having a barbarque to celebrte your birthday. Em also send me a text.
We had Mardi Gras cupcakes with a candle for you. We all sang Happy Birthday and Elizabeth and Brandon each blew out a candle for you. 29 years old - So very young.
You completed our family when you were born and I could not have been any happier with my new baby. I love you very much. Hope your birthday celebration was a hugh party.
We all love and miss you dearly. You are never away from my heart and soul. AML, AML, Mom
Linda Rholdon-Clement
February 25, 2009
Happy Belated Birthday Hiram,
Hope your birthday was great.
I'm sure you were celebrating Mardi Gras and your birthday with a big bash!!!
Take care of my Lori for me!
Love,
Ms. Linda
February 24, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY BABY BOY!
AML, AML MOM
Denise Pezant
February 24, 2009
Dear Hiram, Happy 29th Birthday!! I hope all of you dear beloved children of ours have the most wonderful birthdays in Heaven. Please let your mom know you are with her, she misses you terribly. I hope you see my Nicholas with you on your special day.
Alice, I wish you happy and peaceful memories of Hiram today on his 29th birthday. I will be thinking of you and your family.
Love, Denise
February 23, 2009
Hi sweetie. Endymion was fun this year; just Katherine, Kristina and I waited for the parade together. We missed you so much and talked about the times we shared Endymion together.
Tomorrow is your big day! 29 years old. SO VERY YOUNG. Another Mardi Gras birthday-----18th and 24th and now 29th.
You are always on my mind. There is not a moment in time that I don't think of you and miss you.
AML, AML, Mom
February 16, 2009
Hi my Sweetheart. I received you telephone call for Valentine Day. You are just remarkable. Thanks.
AML, AML, Mom
February 9, 2009
Hi my baby. Miss Linda and I are going to our meeting tonight. They are celebrating Feb. birthdays. Of course, your 29th birthday is so very important. (old one!) I remember the email you sent to me with those words of wisdom!
You have been such a ray of sunshine in my life since Feb. 24, 1980. My dream come true. My heart. My life. My baby boy.
AML, AML, Mom
February 5, 2009
Hi my baby. Talked to Mike yesterday and today. We are both in a slump, along with Jill. It seems we cannot comes to grip with this situation. I love and miss you so very much. Talk to you tonight.
AML, AML, MOM
February 1, 2009
I really enjoyed hearing your message from Earl and seeing you there. It always help to know you are right by my side.
AML, AML, Mom
January 31, 2009
Hi my baby. Today is Lori's 4th angel anniversary. I know exactly how Miss Linda and Kristy are feeling. It seems the days are so very long and then they just slip into years. I can not bear the thought od not holding you for the past 4 years.
I really was excited last night when I called your name and then there you were. Brandon was with me and excited also.
I miss you each and every day. It seems like forever. Eternity?
I know you told me you do no want to come back, but you can't blame a Mom for asking!!
AML, AML, Mom
January 30, 2009
You are now and will ever be my baby boy. I really was excited to have your visit Wednesday. It was thrilling. Thanks my love. Missing you more and more each day.
AML, AML Mom
January 27, 2009
Hi sweetie. You have been with me so much and I really have been enjoying my visits. I truly miss you but love having you here all the time.
You are my inspiration and without I could not have survived.
AML, AML, Mom
January 23, 2009
Dad and I are just missing you so very much. Some days are just unbearable.
We Love You.
January 17, 2009
Hi baby. What a week! I am proud of you for being there each and every day. Dad sure appreciated you always by his side.
I love you. AML, AML, Mom
January 11, 2009
Hi my sweetie. Thanks for the phone call. I love hearing from you.
Jill, Mike, Parks, Park's mom, Lynn, and I went to supper at Vincent's. It was so enjoyable. We talked and laughed about all the fun and times we all shared with you. It was a Hiram Fest. The owner at Vincent's, Nick's cousin and of couse Park's brother were all there. We included you in every second and of course, every bottle of wine. We sat in the same table as when we celebated your birthday. I shed a few tears, but my heart was also happy to talk and share all our memories with each other. You are so wonderful and affected each and every one of us. We love you and miss you soooooooooooo very much.
You are my heart and soul.
My baby boy my world is just not the same. AML, AML Mom
January 6, 2009
Hi baby. Just missing you and needed to talk to you. I sometimes sit and think and can't believe it has been four years I wonder how in this world have I existed without you by my side.
It is so lonely and depressing without having you here to hug and kiss and to hear your voice, "What's up" every evening. I miss you so very, very much.
I want you to know without all of your interventions, signs, messages and visits I would not been able to cope. I love you with all my heart.
Can't wait to see you again. Please call or visit soon.
AML, AML, Mom
January 2, 2009
The holidays are over and that is a good thing. We made it again this year with prayers and tears. It was a not easy without you here to celebrate.
The new year is upon us. You are in my thoughts each and every day. I love you dearly and miss you with all my heart.
AML, AML Mom
December 24, 2008
It's Christmas Eve and all I want for Christmas is YOU!
AML, AML Mom
December 22, 2008
Yesterday was Matthew Hiram's 1st birthday. I was putting him down for his morning nap and I started to cry rocking and singing You Are My Sunshine. But it was then that I felt you in the room directly in front of me saying, "Don't cry mamma". After his nap, we drove him home for his party. In the car just sitting there was a penny. Oh, how you help me through this very hard time. I love you and miss you so very, very much. Some days I just don't think I can make it, but you always pull me through.
YOU are my sunshine. AML, AML, Mom
Mom
December 20, 2008
Hi Sweetie. It is just not the time of year to be merry, but Elizabeth Brandon are so very excited about Christmas. You have sent so many signs that I cannot even begin to thank you enough. You are so very good to me and you help me make it through every day. I can't believe it has been 4 long years. I truly miss you and desperately need to hug you and look at that beautiful face and smile. You are so very handsome and so thoughtful and giving. Our small tree is filled with butterflies and angels. There is not a minute or a second I do not think of you or send you my love. You send me so many reminders and signs every day. You are a wonderful son and I love you dearly. My baby boy, you hold my heart. My love for you is unconditional. I miss you. AML, AML, Mom
December 11, 2008
Hi my baby boy. SNOW!!!!!!!!!!
What more can I say. I love you with every being of my heart.
AML, AML, Mom
Linda Rholdon-Clement
December 11, 2008
Hi Hiram,
I immediately thought of you when I heard we might get snow today. I knew it was a sign from you to your mom on this your 4th Heavenly Birthday.
Carpe Diem - You definitely know how to "sieze the day!"
Love,
Ms. Linda
Alice
December 10, 2008
Hi my Baby Boy. I have been trying very hard to listen to you. I know you are right.
I can't believe another year has past. Our hearts are so heavy. My baby I love you dearly and God only knows how much. Our lives have changed and not for the better. I miss you so very, very much. I beg GOD for help carrying this cross.
My baby I love you and miss you more than any words can express.
AML, AML Mom
November 24, 2008
Hi Sweetie. Dad enjoyed his birthday, especially since you were here. He loved the pictures.
Our anniversary was fun. We talked about all the years.
Talked to Mike today. He is fine. As always, we spoke of you.
I am trying my hardest to work on the computer, but it is a challenge to me.
Dr Mendoza's book is complete and available to purchase. You are definitely immortalized. I have not read it. I am scared and afraid to read it in print. Does that make it real? My heart cannot take that feeling. As Kristina told me, the hurt will never go away, it will just be covered with scar tissue. I feel like I have 1/2 of my heart here and the the other 1/2 is with you. I did finally realize your message last Wednesday when talking to Dr. Mendoza. You sure are working overtime with this one. I truly love and miss you. I know you are doing everything possible to help me and I do appreciate you always by my side. We have been one since I carried you before your birth. The moment I laid my eyes on you, I knew you were special as you held my heart in your tiny hands. You were my "Special Angel" sent from GOD. I thank GOD for you.
AML, AML Mom
November 16, 2008
Hi my baby. Dad and I are having a very emotional time now. These are the hardest months of the year. Every day you are on our minds, but this "holiday" season is the worst. November is half over and I am dreading December. My heart is heavy.
I did enjoy your visit Friday night. You know I always love to see you and hear from you. I promise you, I will try very hard. I love you dearly. You are my sunshine. AML, AML, Mom
November 5, 2008
Hi Sweetie. Well, so far it has been a very busy week. Elizabeth fell Monday night and needed 5 stiches under her chin. We all agreed she even beat her Parran for the youngest to have stiches. You were in Kindergarden and she is still 4. Her 5th birthday is tomorrow.
The holidays are quickly approaching and you know I will be calling on you alot. I miss you dearly. AML, AML, Mom
November 1, 2008
Hi Sweetie, I attended the Blessing of the Graves and the rosary procession this morning. It was very emotional for me. I love you dearly. AML, AML Mom
October 30, 2008
Baby, I so loved the warm and intense hug from you yesterday. I understand exactly what you mean, but you must understand also that it is very hard to accomplish. I promise I will try harder for you.
I love and miss you so much.
Give Kev a big hug and let him know we miss him. It has been a very long time. I know you, Kevin and Paw-Paw are together and wonderful. Hope that 7th heaven is awesome.
AML, AML, Mom
October 26, 2008
Hi my Baby. Thanks for the phone call. I love hearing from you.
Steve has been here since Friday night and we have enjoyed his visit.
The Saints just won which is always nice.
Yesterday was the St. Anthony's fair and last night was the Boo at the Zoo. Busy weekend, but not without you. I love you so very much. AML, AML, Mom
October 23, 2008
Thanks My Baby for your phone call. You are always by my side and there to cheer me up and hold me tight. I LOVE YOU. AML, AML, Mom
October 23, 2008
Hi Baby. Brandon got his report card for the 1st semester of the 4th grade. He has all A's. We were so excited. He called his mom and nanny right away. He also wanted to tell you. When we entered the house the smell of incense was so strong througout the house. We were so excited. We made a copy of the report card for you.
Grandpa and his dad were excited too and everyone praised him.
Today is a rainy stay in day. Missing you. AML, AML Mom
October 22, 2008
Good morning sweetie. Things here are the same.
We recieved Elizabeth's school picture last night. She is so cute and so very smart. In the picture she has your eyes. Kristina and I enjoyed that.
Matthew was here also last night. He now screams in a high pitch voice. Katherine and I were also laughing and calling him little Hiram.
As you can tell we all miss you so very much. If I could go back and change the 11th, I would. I would give anything to have you in my arms, laughing and smiling with me.
I love you dearly. AML, AML Mom
October 21, 2008
Hi My Baby Boy. It seems we are always talkiing with you or about you. Katherine got her message and so did I. Thanks.
Yesterday was a very hard day. It seems that your Dad and I have been having these days often.
I sometimes think I cannot go on but somehow - usually your sisters, Brandon and Elizabeth pick me up and carry me forward. Brandon is so active and so wonderful to be with. He reminds me of you. Matthew is walking now and it is funny to watch him.
I hate from October through February. The years are longer and each day is harder. I love you so very, very much. You know I am depending on you more often and I know you never let me down.
I hate living with this pain and I know there is no other way. "Now is your future!" AML, AML, Mom
Missing you more and more each day.
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