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Ingrid Williams Obituary

Williams Ingrid Elaine Williams, beloved wife of Monty Williams, devoted mother to Lael, Faith, Janna, Elijah & Micah, and cherished friend to all, went home to be with the Lord in Edmond, Oklahoma on February 10, 2016 at the age of 44. A Celebration of Life service will be held on February 18 at 2 p.m. at Crossings Community Church in Oklahoma City. Ingrid was born on April 4, 1971 and was the treasured daughter of James and Veda Mitchell Lacy. While attending the University of Notre Dame and competing in track and field, she and Monty started their lifelong partnership and commitment to serve. Blessed with 20 years of marriage, their mutual love and commitment to Christ and to one another has built a foundation ensuring that their children will continue to have many opportunities to grow in wisdom, in stature, and in favor with both God and man. Ingrid was a rock and inspiration to everyone she touched, often writing notes of encouragement and inspiring scripture verses to others. As the wife of an NBA player and coach she inspired many beyond her immediate family, quietly sharing her many gifts with anyone in need. She loved to read her bible and encouraged others to do the same. Ingrid and Monty co-authored a book Look Again 52 as a guide to explore scripture through the year. Ingrid enjoyed organizing "Sanctuary" retreats for family & friends across the United States. Her family attended Faith Bible Church in Oklahoma City. Ingrid was preceded in death by her brother William Lacy and is survived by her husband and children, parents and siblings James and Renee Lacy and Mark Doss. She also leaves behind numerous loving relatives and friends. Ingrid left us a legacy of strength, wisdom, loving kindness & generosity. Her unfailing example of a beautiful life well lived will enrich our hearts forever. The family wishes to thank all of those whose love, comfort & prayers have helped support them through this time. For more information about Ingrid's life and legacy or to leave online condolences, go to matthewsfuneralhome.com Ingrid's Celebration of Life Ceremony on February 10, 2016 at 2:00 p.m. will be available for viewing live at crossingsokc.org. In lieu of flowers, the Williams family has requested that friends honor Ingrid's memory through the FaithWorks of the Inner City: faithworksokc.com 1300 S. Byers Ave, OKC, OK 73129.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Feb. 16 to Feb. 17, 2016.

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John Woodruff

March 14, 2025

Eternal Rest Grant Unto Her O Lord, May The Perpetual Light Shine Upon Her, And May She Rest In Peace. Amen.

John Woodruff

March 14, 2025

Eternal Rest Grant Unto Her O Lord, May The Perpetual Light Shine Upon Her, And May She Rest In Peace. Amen.

Edward Mahan

July 30, 2021

Sorry for your loss Monty

Precious memories for my family of our neighbors in Summerfield 1996-1997

Shaune Gross

February 9, 2021

Always kind and thoughtful.

[email protected] Quinn

May 26, 2019

Praying that God's peace continues to cover the family!!

James lacy

May 25, 2019

To my dear baby sister you'll be miss and I know that you are with me in spirit cause we are together always....

Regina Wells

July 9, 2017

This is beyond sad.... there's really no words may u have continued strength during this difficult time...Lord this really hurts me as I sit here with tears in my eyes saddened by the death of a woman that I don't even know but feel like I've known her a while just from reading about her and hearing her husband speak such kind words of her....life is %unpredictible.

Belinda Underwood

June 26, 2017

I did not even know who you or your family were until tonight, due to my limited knowledge of basketball, however I would like to say, I've added you and your to my prayers. She had to be a great woman to have so many love her. I am happy she is with her father now. Stay strong, I know you will always be blessed.

Beverly Scala

June 16, 2017

Think of you and your family often ! God bless !

Dymphna Bucksell

February 26, 2017

Sending prayers for continued peace for you & the kids as you drown yourself in Ingrid's never-ending love and the memories she left behind.

Cindy Mazza

February 23, 2017

Father , God continue to wrap your loving arms of comfort and strength to the family. As Ingrid is in the presence of our , lord, her testimony lives on in our hearts.

Shaune Gross

February 22, 2017

Father, continue blessing the Williams Family with grace and mercy on the anniversary of Ingrid's home going. Your Friends in Floresville--Michael, Shaune and Allen Gross

Daniel Oschwald

March 13, 2016

What a powerful message Mr. Williams - what deep faith - what a witness of what faith does! May Ingrid rest in peace and continue to inspire such faith in your family.

Rev. Daniel Oschwald

Elaine Timmins

March 12, 2016

My prayers are with each of you. I praise God for the witness of your Ingrid's faith...the encouragement and inspiration she gave others. May our precious Savior embrace you in His love and grant each of you peace that surpasses all understanding.
Elaine Timmins
Rockport,TX

Sarah Tse

February 25, 2016

Dear Monty and family, May The Lord continue to comfort and strengthen all of you! The eulogy you shared is a living testimonial of the greatest love that only God can give and satisfy one's soul. Your sharing has given great hope and encouragement to many who are still struggling with grief and hurt from losing their loved ones. May The Lord continue to use you and your family for His Glory! God Bless!

Stan Burek

February 25, 2016

Monty, I did not know you before I view the wonderful Eulogy you gave celebrating Ingrid and our Lord. I had the same experience 31 years ago and I truly can empathize with you. My kids & I have moved on with life, but have never forgot to give thanks to the Lord for the time He loaned us my wife Janice. Grieve in that blessed hope, but grieve with your children.

R.C. Richardson

February 23, 2016

GOD is love. Keep loving (to the Williams family) and be continually blessed .

Stephanie

February 22, 2016

I prayed for your wife and for you & your family. Thank you for spreading God's teaching of forgiveness & Mercy.
Thank you for the values received through you & your wife's Christian legacy. She is an Angel! May God continue to Bless You & Your Entire Family!

Anastacia Evans

February 22, 2016

Dear Coach Williams and Children! Words cannot express my sympathy to you during your very graceful moment! So many beautiful moments as a family! Y'all huddle close! AnastaciaME

February 22, 2016

Monty,
May your heart be forever filled with loving memories of your beloved wife Ingrid.
Yetra Cain , Oak Park, Illinois

Beverly Scala

February 22, 2016

To the Williams family,
Words cannot express Ingrid's influence on the people she met in her short life.
In that short time she found her soul mate, had a wonderful family, which was the center of her life!
She always had a smile as she drove by picking up the kids to and from school.
I loved having you all for neighbors, while you lived in Metairie, It was such a pleasure to drop off chocolate chip cookies to the family .
There was this statue that always reminded me of Ingrid. I ordered it for you. It will probably be delivered in a week or two.
I don't have a phone number to check to make sure you get it, but you can text me if you can, when it is delivered .
Ingrid didn't just become an angel, she was an angel walking, on earth !
Love ...Beverly & George Scala. 504-232-8899

Charlie & Willard Ward, Sr.

February 22, 2016

Monty, may God continue to give you faith, strength and wisdom to keep your hand in His hand for guidance and renewed trust. May you, children, and family be blessed is our prayer. We know the 3 girls, hope to meet the boys before they are grown. Love Papa and Mama Ward from Thomasville, GA

Kim Burnette

February 21, 2016

Continue to hold GOD'S unchanging hands.

Shaune Gross

February 20, 2016

My son, Allen first met our neighbors (Monty, Ingrid and furbabies, Hurricane and Deacon Jones) in 1995. We have always kept [and will continue to do so] Monty and Ingrid in our hearts.

LaDora Wilcox

February 20, 2016

To: The Williams Family
May the Grace of God Keep you
in your time of Sorrow

Sarah Boone

February 20, 2016

RIP

MEMPHIS TENNESSEE

February 20, 2016

Memphis Fan

February 20, 2016

How refreshing to see and witness such love for each other and for Christ in the sports world. You hear such negative things and I am sure God will continue to use this beautiful woman's legacy in years to come. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with her family. May God put His hand upon her precious children and husband in the days and months ahead.

Laura Wayland

February 20, 2016

I am so sorry to hear about earthly loss of Ingrid as a wife, mother, daughter and friend. Monty's eulogy was beautiful and moving; surely God was glorified! May many come to eternal life in Christ as a result of Ingrid's bodily death! God bless you all!

February 20, 2016

We extend Our deepest sympathy to your family during this most difficult time. We know for sure that He is still on his throne and will watch over you. "Sweetly May She Rest"

Stephen and Suzanne Thomas
Gilbert, AZ

Charla Smith

February 19, 2016

What a great loss for the family and community!! The family is in my thoughts and prayers now & in the the weeks to come. Monty's speech moved me deeply and impacted the way I view things. What a wonderful tribute to Ingrid!!

February 19, 2016

To the Williams family, my heart and prayer goes out to you. God will work things out to the good because we serve a good God whose love never changes. From: Bishop Allen, Pastor Rose and the members of The Word Of God Ministries Church.

George Holmes

February 19, 2016

Monty and Family
Your extended family at Summit Christian Center mourn your loss here on earth and celebrate Ingrid's Ascension into Heaven. She is where we are trying to get to. I pray for your strength and the strength of your family.

Wanda & Gary (Duke & Pluto) Cordelli

February 19, 2016

Our hearts break for you, your family and friends for your loss here on Earth. You will meet again in all of God's glory. Until then you surely have another angel in heaven watching over you. Blessings to you and those you pray for.

February 19, 2016

Monty,



So sorry for your loss. The people of Oklahoma are praying for you, your family and everyone impacted by the passing of your loving and giving wife, Ingrid. May the Lord be with you all!

Jerry Rose
McAlester OK

Carla Tyler

February 19, 2016

Dear Williams Family... I'm not a basketball follower just a Woman... My heart breaks for you all, and I pray for peace and healing for you.

February 19, 2016

May God continue to bless the Williams family.
Arthur Dean III
USA, Ret

Eileen Daspit

February 19, 2016

Coach Williams,
I am a New Orleans Pelicans fan and have watched you for years lead that team with strength, integrity, and faith. The legacy you left behind here with players and fans will last forever. Jesus will carry you and your family through this. Please know you and your family are being lifted to the throne of grace from many who still love and miss you here in New Orleans.

Bob Rowley

February 19, 2016

My deepest sympathy to the Williams and Lacy family during this difficult time.

I worked with Ingrids mother Veda and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers

ROBERTA MAJORS

February 19, 2016

To the Williams Family my heart is with you in Song of Solomon 6 verse 6 (Reads Whither is thy beloved gone,O thou fairest. Among Women? whither turned aside? that we may seek him with thee. My beloved is gone down into the garden,and to gather lilies. I am beloved,s and my beloved is mine he feedeth among the lilies. Thou art beautiful, O my love as Tirzah comely as Jerusalem,terrible as an army with banners) hold on to what your. wife, mother, sister had with you thats a testimony.for someone else thats going through in the NAME of the FATHER. the SON and the HOLY GHOST AMEN.

Brinda Lynch

February 19, 2016

To Coach Williams and Family...You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Obviously Ingrid was a beautiful person, and you and she had a wonderful relationship. I want to compliment you on such an awesome, powerful message you delivered at Ingrid's memorial. May God give you and your children strength to get through this difficult time.

Robert and Brinda Lynch
Anadarko, OK

Patricia Brown

February 19, 2016

Wonderful words of Godly Wisdom, that she is not lost and that you know exactly where she is, that's what help me when my husband went home to be with the Lord, and it still helps and brings peace to me all these 16 plus years, God Bless!

Tracy Obene

February 19, 2016

Sending prayer from Milwaukee WI. The Obene Family will keep you all lifted in prayer during this time and going forth. There is no secret what God can and will do. Much love

Bryan Smith

February 19, 2016

May GOD be with you and your family.

February 19, 2016

Mr. Williams; We are so sorry for your loss. The Word tells us that Jesus wept, and no doubt you and your precious family will too. But Scripture also tells us that we should not grieve as though we have NO HOPE. He is our great hope and one day YOU WILL see your sweet Ingrid again. We will continue to hold your family up in our prayer.

Debbie Cronin
Oklahoma City, OK

Don Taylor

February 19, 2016

Mr. Williams,

Thank you for sharing such a Biblical, heart-felt message at your wife's funeral. I am sorry for your wife's untimely death. It is so comforting to know that she is in heaven with God. Truly you are a man of faith and you communicated that in your thoughts. My wife and I are praying for you and your family. God is GREAT and God is Good.

In Christ,
Don Taylor

Kevin Crute

February 19, 2016

Brother Monty,

May the peace of God comfort you , and the favor of God overtake both you and your family. You don't know me personally, but we are brothers in Christ. I will forever keep you and your children lifted up in prayer. I know you've had your moments, but I can assure the strength and dignity in which you've dealt with you lost, has most certainly touched the lives of those that are still among us. Be assured, you and Ingrid are still touching people's lives even in her passing. I can see her spirit resonate in you and through you.

Shaloam and Blessings

Lanardo Ware

February 19, 2016

May God be with you and your family during this difficult time .

Mike Lavender

February 19, 2016

Prayers are with you Monty and your family. We are here for you

Lisa Freeman

February 19, 2016

So sad for the loss of your wife Ingrid. My heartfelt condolences to you Monty, your family and the Donaldson family as well.. May the Lord heal your aching hearts and give you the strength to keep on going.

God bless!

Coach Williams & Family

Lisa Freeman

February 19, 2016

So sad for the loss of your wife Ingrid. My heartfelt condolences to you Monty, your family and the Donaldson family as well.. May the Lord heal your aching hearts and give you the strength to keep on going.

God bless!

Maria Mar

February 19, 2016

Coach Monty, I admire your family so much. The way you touch people's lives and basketball fans' lives are so inspiring. You are in our thoughts.

Patrick Dayries

February 19, 2016

Coach Williams
Be strong my brother the Bible says that all things work together for the good of them that love the Lord and that are called according to His purpose .something good is going to come out of this. be encouraged my friend. I bid you God speed

mark adamczyk

February 18, 2016

Prayers to all families involved - such a sad situation. I know God greeted you with a smile in heaven Ingrid and has more important plans for you upstairs.

Katrina Barnes-Brock

February 18, 2016

Hi Monty,

I pray God continue to comfort you and your family.

May the Grace of the Lord be with you.

Latonya Daniels

February 18, 2016

May God continue to keep, strengthen, and cover you and your family in your time of grief.

Anita Marshall Jrfferson

February 18, 2016

To the Williams' Family please know that you are in my prayers. I had the pleasure of seeing you all as a family at the Pelican games and was in awe of the love you all shared among yourselves and others. May the warmth of that love continue to embrace you in the days ahead. I will pray for your strength. Continue to walk in the light. God Bless and keep you.

Damani Nyahuma

February 18, 2016

My prayers are with you and your family. Your strength is inspirational. Your faith is phenomenal. I'll keep sight of what's important. Blessings.

February 18, 2016

Sorry for your lost

Katie Harris

February 18, 2016

Hello I am BJ's sister and I just want you to know Monty I have been praying for you without ceasing for your children as well. I have no words except that I know His Grace is amazing and it is sufficient .

Annette Foy

February 18, 2016

May our Lord strengthen each one of you and bless the lasting impression of memories be cherished with Ingrids beautiful smile

February 18, 2016

To Monty and Family,

My condolences on the loss of Ingrid.

May her memories give you comfort in this time of grieving and may the support and love of your family and friends give you strength for the future.

Warm Regards,

David Kobrin

Charles Quinn

February 18, 2016

God bless the family!

Dorcas Smith

February 18, 2016

Dearest Monty and Family,

Words cannot adequately express the great impact that Ingrid has had on my life, my family's life and everyone she knew!!! She was a GREAT blessing!!! I am praying for all those (especially your family) mourning and missing the beautiful, kind, faithful, loving, generous, and virtuous soul - Ingrid!!! She also had a great sense of humor!!! Loved her so much and love you all so much! If I can ever serve you any way please let me know!

Phaniel Esteril

February 18, 2016

I pray that the whole Williams and Lacy family recieve a touch from God. I speak healing and guidance in everyone's life who is deeply affected by this tragedy. Let the Grace of the Lord be with you all.

Barbara Harris Henderson

February 18, 2016

Monty, Prayers for comfort, peace & strength for you and your entire family. God is faithful!

Gail Woodhouse

February 18, 2016

Dear Monty and family
Jesus loves you and so do we. Ingrd is unforgetable and you are in our prayers. "In which you shine like stars in the universe as you hold out the word of life " Philippians 2:15
Love hugs and prayers from oregon and alaska friends Gail,Fred Woodhouse and Katie and Eric York

Preston & Sharon Leingang

February 18, 2016

Our hearts go out to you, Monty, and the children at this very difficult, heart-wrenching time. Ingrid was a good, spiritual woman who helped anyone who needed it. We so enjoyed knowing your family when you lived in our neighborhood here in San Antonio. May God bless and keep you all. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Preston & Sharon Leingang, Edgewater, San Antonio, TX

Kim Bryant

February 18, 2016

So very sorry for your loss.
May God comfort the Williams family in their time of need.

Melissa H

February 18, 2016

Grateful for having the opportunity to know this beautiful soul! Even though this is an extremely difficult time for the family I know that she is in the presence of the Almighty God! I know that this not goodbye but a SEE YOU SOON!!! We will be in constant prayer for Monty and the children! I pray for the continued strength in Christ Jesus! GOD IS SOVEREIGN!

Karen Smith

February 18, 2016

Deepest Sympathy from the Smith Family in New Orleans, La. You are in our constant prayers.

Jackie Ealom

February 18, 2016

Sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife and mother! May God give you peace that passes all understanding and His Love will surrounded you and your family in the coming weeks, days and months and throughout your life. Rest in Heavenly Peace Mrs Ingred

February 18, 2016

Dearest Monty,

We are so saddened by the passing of Ingrid. She was such a beautiful soul inside and out. Her legacy will continue to live on through the many lives she touched. May God keep and comfort you during this difficult time.

Love,
Markell & Lashette

Larry & Rhoda Marshall

February 18, 2016

Our prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow. God is a good God and will not put no more on you than you can bare. Continue trust and depend of God for whom your health and strength cometh.

Gale Preston

February 17, 2016

Praying for the family. Thank you for being a shining light for others!

Teri Hrabovsky

February 17, 2016

Had the honor of partnering with Ingrid in New Orleans on events for foster children. The first time I met her I was moved by her passion and commitment to Christ. She radiated the beauty of our Lord and now she sees Him face to face! Prayers to Monty and children! Teri

Marvin & Leta Dawson

February 17, 2016

There is not a right or a wrong way to grieve. Everyone grieves differently. As believers, we pray your family rely on God's Word to find strength and comfort while grieving. We don't know your pain, but we know God is a comforter. We are praying for your peace and comfort that only God can provide at this time.

Brenda Hannula

February 17, 2016

May the Lord wrap His loving arms around your family. Ingrid was such a loving,caring lady whose light always shined for Jesus. Praying for your family.
Crescent City Christian School

Nancy

February 17, 2016

Prayers and thoughts are with you and your precious family. What a life well lived and an inspiration.

OKCity Thunder Fan

February 17, 2016

Ingrid's love for life, her family and the Lord is a wonderful testament of the lovely person she was. The tragedy of a car wreck taking her life so suddenly is heartbreaking. May God's grace be a constant presence throughout your hours of grief.

Gale Preston

February 17, 2016

So sorry for your loss. We are praying for your entire family. Especially Monty and the children. May Ingrid's light continue to shine brightly through all of you. To God Be The Glory.

Tonja Doss-Rumph

February 17, 2016

May God's love comfort your hearts through your time of loss.

Henry.Gwen Barnes

February 17, 2016

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief
The William Boulevard Bapitst Chuch

February 17, 2016

My condolences to the Williams and Lacy family. Vickie Smith (Terrell).

February 17, 2016

My heart was broken to hear what had happen, such a kind beautiful person. Coach Monty you and your Family have my deepest condolences, I will always remember
her sweet smile and kind words as she would pass to go to her seat in the SKC section 112

Fred Woodhouse

February 17, 2016

Remebering , Fred and Gail Woodhouse , Tualatin Oregon. Our love to all !

Delores Deverney

February 17, 2016

To Monty and children; and the Peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. What you have learned and received and heard and seen - practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you. You're in my prayers always.
Delores Deverney, New Orleans, La.

Shari Scales

February 17, 2016

Dwayne, Shari, D.L. and Diego Scales send our love your way. We are praying for peace for you Monty, and for your beautiful children. We will always cherish Ingrid's friendship, kindness and faith.

Arthur Malbroue

February 17, 2016

Didn't want to believe this after first hearing about this terrible tragedy, my heart goes out to this family, such a beautiful person, may she forever rest in peace.

Tracy Bryson

February 17, 2016

My Prayers goes out to the Entire family of Mrs.Ingrid Williams at the difficult time. I will continue to pray for all whom was touched by this Beautiful woman. May God bless and keep his loving arms around you all.

Tracy

February 17, 2016

So sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you Montey and your family. She was Such a Beautiful Lady.

Wendolyn Harding

February 16, 2016

It is my prayer that Montey, children, & family will find strength and hope in God, through the comfort and sharing of loved ones. For now, Honor this sorrow by letting your heart and spirit heal.
Wendolyn Harding
Atlanta, GA.

February 16, 2016

To the Williams family:
There really aren't words to express the sorrow of the people in Oklahoma City over the loss of your wife and mom. She was obviously a rare and beautiful human being. Please know that your family is in the countless thoughts and prayers of a caring community. God bless you now and in the difficult days ahead.
A very sad Thunder fan.

D. Smith

February 16, 2016

May God strengthen her husband, family and friends at this time of bereavement. Lifting them all in prayer. My her spirit live on through her children and everyone's lives that she touched. Rest in eternal peace.

D Bucksell

February 16, 2016

Prayers for continued strength for you, the girls and all Ingrid has left behind. What an awesome woman for all to inspire to be. I enjoy reading the legacy she built in such a short time. God Bless

Carolyn Johnson

February 16, 2016

Praying for this beautiful family. I can't imagine what you are feeling at this time. May God continue to bless you and I know your faith will see you through this difficult time.

Althea Thompson

February 16, 2016

With deepest sympathy to the Williams and Lacy Family. May God forever keep you at this time . Praying for the children and you Monty. Look to the Father for strength and comfort. For he said "I will never leave you nor forsake you" Love and prayers .
Althea and Willie Thompson

February 16, 2016

To Mr. Monty Williams and Family.

All the good things I heard about Mrs. Williams sums up to the fact that she loved the LORD.
During this difficult time it's important the you remember the LORD loves all of you. And his grace and mercy will carry you through.

The Ellis Family
New Orleans, LA

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