James D. Nehl Obituary

James, It never gets easier with each passing year. You were a great leader, and amazing friend. I would not be where I am today had it not been for your guidance and leadership.

COL Sid Linver and I supported Capt Neil´s unit in Afghanistan through our Platoon´s Forward program. I worked directly with one of his senior NCOs, SFC Justin Zeller. I had communicated with James on several occasions and enjoyed his sense of humor and obvious affection for his troops. Justin was with him the day he died and Sid and I attended the services honoring him and others at Ft. Riley. All these years later his loss still brings tears to my eyes. Say his name every chance you get. Doing so assure that he will never be forgotten.

Robert Gunnarson
1Lt, Inf
Vietnam

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Those who gave selflessly, always receive eternal blessing. May the Good lord continue to protect and guide Capt James D Nehl family and friends and replace your loss with memory of his Kindness, and selfless life. Rest easy warrior.

Oh, James...always so sweet, kind... loved ya kiddo, happy to have had you as family!❤

Hey bud, miss you. Think of you often. RIP

Thank you Captain Nehl.

I had the distinct honor to serve with James. We went to OCS and IOBC together. I loved to hear his stories about his adventures in Alaska! He seemed to me to be one of the most self reliant and resilient individuals I ever met. He was a great man, exceptional officer, and will be missed! To his family: my deepest sympathy.

I was at his ramp ceremony on 9 NOV 12 on FOB Warrior in Afghanistan. It is a night I will never forget. RIP CAPT Nehl.
Bob Cox
LCDR, US Navy

He was my company executive officer in Cco 3-21 infantry. I knew him as an extremely good officer and I know we lost a good man.

He was my XO in Cco 3-21 2008 in Alaska! Great Officer and NCO. He will be missed. I will always remember forever, what he sacrificed. RIP Sir

I am sorry to hear of your family's loss of Capt.James Nehl. Our prayers go out to James and his family. He will be missed. Sharing the James Nehl name and retired from the Military myself. I think back to all the times over my 20 years that could of affected my family the same way. May God bless you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Dear Nehl family and friends,
I had the honor of commanding Delta Company/2-16 Infantry from Feb-Sept 1968 in Vietnam. I did not know CPT Nehl except by reputation from those serving with him last year. It is apparent he was a dedicated husband and father, a dedicated professional leader and respected by all. I'm proud the Delta/2-16 Vietnam Vets of my era when called on, stepped up to donate towards having the family travel to Ft Riley last month so he could be memorialized. We Delta Vietnam Vets of 1967-69 will hold out 22nd reunion Aug 1-3 and will remember and toast CPT Nehl as one of our fallen brothers. God bless the family and provide comfort and strength.
Ron Saxton
LTC, US Army
Retired

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Nehl Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

To the family of CPT Nehl,

I had the incredibly distinct pleasure of serving as CPT Neil's medic in the Recon Platoon for 3-21 IN at Fort Wainwright. James probably had a bigger impact on my life than any single person I have ever met. He taught me what it meant to be a good Soldier and a good man. I looked to him like the big brother that I never had and loved him more than anyone other than my son. CPT Nehl was a stabilizing influence and guiding light when I felt lost and confused. His death has impacted me in profound ways that I could not begin to imagine. I am so incredibly, deeply sorry for your loss and no words of mine can possibly ease this ache and pain you must be feeling. I only hope that the cherished memories of better times and happier days will ease his passing. God bless you all and, thank you, for sharing James with the rest of us if only for a while.

SGT Chad R. Crum
United States Army

May your memories of James bring you comfort. James will remain in the hearts and memories of all who knew and loved him. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.
Blessings

May God Bless the family and friends of James. He was a true American Hero.

Debbie ~Soldier's Angels

To the Family of Captain James D. Nehl:

Those who have died for their country will never be forgotten.

Their sacrifice will live on forever in the hearts of all who cherish freedom.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Captain James Nehl. I thank him for his service and sacrifice, as well as his families sacrifice of their loved one. I hope you all will find some peace in remembering what a special person he was and how selfless and brave he was.

Dear Family of James D. Nehl, There are no words at this time that can ease your pain, I know, but please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss of a hero, Capt. Nehl, and my eternal gratitude for his service and sacrifice. A quote came to mind that went something like this. “There is terrible suffering in our world today. Tragic things happen to good people. God does not cause them, nor does He always prevent them. He does, however, strengthen us and bless us with His peace." May your family find peace in your hearts and comfort in your souls at this time.

We were so saddened to hear of the loss of your loved one, CPT James Nehl. Please know others care and his sacrifice will not be forgotten. You are in our prayers during this very difficult time.

There seems so little words can say at a time of sorrow. Hopefully you can find some comfort knowing there are people extremely grateful for all the sacrifices James and your family have made for our country. You are in our hearts and prayers.

To CAPT. JAMES D. NEHL Family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and to let you know that my prayers are with you at this sorrowful time of loss of you Dear Loved one and Hero. It's hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of such a well lived life. May the many fond and Happy Memories deep in your heart carry you through this difficult time.
God Bless

RIP Jim....

I know there are no words to say at this time, except how sorry that I am. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. James will never be forgotten.

For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I'm home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I'm only a civilian
And I don't even know if it's allowed

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

For those missing in action;
for those who didn't make it home.
I know you're in God's presence you are not alone.
For every neatly folded flag;
for every shattered family
I will do the only thing I know to dignify your memory.

I salute you, allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
my humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.

I salute you .

I Salute You.

Suzanne MacDaniel - A Proud Aunt
Colonie, NY
SGT. David M. Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 - Iraq

Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your loved one and Hero James, and my sincerest gratitude for his service for our country.
God Bless You Capt. James D. Nehl...you will not be forgotten.

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who work to send handmade prayer shawls and/or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one while serving our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church would like to honor your loved one's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a prayer gift which will be mailed to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses of those who would like to receive one and which gift they would like to receive. We will send our gift as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved on who died while serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

To James' Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I happen to be in the PDX terminal looking out a nearby window when he arrived. Please let me know if you would like me to forward a couple of the amazingly moving pictures of the plane arriving and fellow servicemen I captured on that somber day. [email protected] Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Capt Nehl, I offer the depths of my gratitude for the service and sacrifice you provided for our Country. To your family, I offer my sincere condolensces for their loss. May they take comfort in all you left behind for them.

I had the pleasure of working with James during OIF in 2008. A good dude, a true Soldier... My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.

CW2 Geen, Ft Rucker, AL

Some names ring a bell no matter where you travel in the Army. A true professional. I remember James as a great leader who has impacted the lives of many good Soldiers. I am proud to have served with him in Alaska. God Bless you, Brother in Arms.

To the Nehl family. Very sad to have heard this news. I had the pleasure of working with him here in Alaska about 7 or 8 years ago when he was an NCO. When he decided he wanted to become an Officer I had no doubt he would be a great Officer. He was a caring leader and a man of his word. Please know that your family is in my prayers.

"They shall grow not old, as we who are left grow old. Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn. In the setting of the sun and in the morning, we will rememeber them."
We miss you brother and we will see you soon.

To the family of Capt. Nehl, Please accept my condolences for your loss. We are grateful for his brave service and ultimate sacrifice to protect our freedoms and defend the way of life we all enjoy in this country. He was a true American Hero and he will not be forgotten. RIP James.

This Hero has made the ultimate sacrifice.
Our family is forever grateful for his service in
order to keep us safe. May God wrap His loving arms
around him, his family and friends and hold you close
throughout time. God Bless You Brother. Rest in Peace. You will not be forgotten.

Even though we were family we did not know him very well.He was in your thoughts often.We are praying for you Sandy. Go in peace our hero.

My brother served with Captain Nehl and admired him greatly. I did not know him personally but I admire him too. Rest in peace and thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Ashley

Please know we hold you close in our thoughts and prayers during this tragic time. Americas fallen heroes, and the families who stood behind them, will never be forgotten. As Oregon Coordinator for The Home of the Brave Quilt Project, (www.oregonhomeofthebrave.org) it will be my honor one day in the future to present you with a quilt of comfort that is being made for you in honor of Capt. Nehl. with my greatest respect, Kaye Vicars Hansen

He was a very good friend, and a great father. He will be missed. Many of good times with James. Just won't be the same without him.

Captain James D. Nehl
Fallen hero.

Thoughts and prayers for your family. We lost our son in Iraq in 2007.