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Matthew Miller

1969 - 2016

Matthew Miller obituary, 1969-2016, New Orleans, IN

Matthew Miller Obituary

Miller In Memory of Matthew D. Miller "Matthew loved his family, his friends, and his colleagues... and we loved him." We mourn the loss of Matthew D. Miller, who died on January 23, 2016. At the time of his death, Matthew was the Headmaster of Park Tudor School in Indianapolis, Indiana. Matthew was a visionary leader, colleague and friend. He sought to understand an increasingly complex world and then help define the rules of navigation. He encouraged those around him to have a wide lens and a deep focus, to empower today's learners for tomorrow's world. Matthew regularly attended The Aspen Ideas Institute, the nation's premier public gathering place for multi-disciplinary leaders from around the world, to engage in deep and inquisitive discussions of ideas and issues that shape and challenge our times. At Park Tudor School, Matthew developed the school's Master and Strategic plans, roadmaps for the future of the school. He believed in engagement with the broader community – "learning to serve and serving to learn," "taking big steps forward, with a smaller footprint." While always looking ahead, Matthew insisted on living today with Integrity, Intellectual Engagement, Resourcefulness, Respect, and Responsibility. Matthew was a quintessential educator. Matthew's intellectual prowess and charming personality would have allowed him to succeed in almost any endeavor, but he believed to his core in, and committed his professional life to, teaching and learning. Prior to joining the Park Tudor community as Head of School in 2011, Matthew served as Assistant Head of School at Isidore Newman School, a college preparatory school in New Orleans. Prior to the Newman school, he worked for more than a decade at The Lawrenceville School in New Jersey. He sought to understand and improve the learning process for students. He was a committed member and energetic participant in The Independent Schools Association of the Central States (ISACS), a membership organization of more than 230 independent schools from 13 states of the Midwest region. He regularly attended ISACS conferences, such as "New Paradigms in Leading & Learning", and "Doing Designing, Connecting, & Thinking", and he served as a lead evaluator as part of ISACS peer review accreditation services. Matthew was an academic. He held Bachelor's degrees in Greek, Latin, and Hebrew from Dickenson College, where he graduated Phi Beta Kappa and Summa Cum Laude. He held Bachelor's and Master's degrees in Greek and Latin literature, history, and philosophy from Oxford University. He held a Master's degree in Ancient History and Mediterranean Archeology from the University of California, Berkeley. And, he held a Doctorate in Education Leadership and Management from the University of Pennsylvania, where his research focused on civic engagement in (independent) schools. Matthew was born on September 10, 1969, in York, Pennsylvania, to Susan Smith Miller and David Miller. He grew up in the small town of Red Lion, Pennsylvania, where he spent summers working at Raab's Fruit Farm, and played tennis at every opportunity. Tennis was soon displaced by squash, a game he played and coached with passion. He was especially proud of the three national championships won by The Lawrenceville School under his guidance. Matthew Miller, more than all of his abundant accomplishments, was a husband, a father and a friend. At his core, he was a family man. He loved and cherished his wife Mia, daughter Sophie and son Grayson. He was proud of each of them and all their accomplishments. Matthew viewed his friends and colleagues as family too. He cherished time with others – fun conversation and good food. He loved sports. He loved travel. And, he loved his dog, Pepper. Mathew brought energy and engagement to everything he did and to everyone he was with. Matthew loved, and was loved in return. And, he will be missed. A Celebration of Life will take place Friday at 3:00 pm at Second Presbyterian Church – 7700 N Meridian Street. Matthew will be interred at St. Charles Avenue Presbyterian Church in New Orleans. A memorial trust for the benefit of the children of Matthew and Mia Miller has been established. Contributions may be made in the name of Matthew D Miller Memorial Trust at any First Merchant's Bank branch or mailed to First Merchant's Bank at 10333 N Meridian Street, Suite 330, Indianapolis, Indiana 46290 attn. Mike Stewart Arrangements: Indiana Funeral Care

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Jan. 27 to Jan. 29, 2016.

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August 30, 2016

All:
I am in shock, and just belatedly getting the news today August 30th, 2016.
Matt was a lovely lovely sweet guy who charmed me along with so many others...
Had he become a Head at another program
back in the post Lville days we planned that I would join him there.I would have followed him anywhere.
A piece of him will be with all of us and
I am so thankful I knew him. He represented the best example acroos the board,as a human being a scholar and a coach, let's do our best to emulate him.
Prayers and peace-
Pete Hart
Titusville, NJ

Ferez Nallaseth

May 3, 2016

I went looking for the Matt Miller I knew at the Lawrenceville Squash courts and found this! My deepest symnpathies to the Miller family! His zest for life and generosity of spirit make him a tough act to follow! I was, briefly, the Lawrenceville Squash Coach after he left!

Mark Koons

March 19, 2016

No one is surprised by the great accomplishments Matt achieved in his career. All of us from Red Lion know he would do great things. My thoughts and prayers are with Matt's family.

Dave Donahue

February 3, 2016

Matthew Miller was housemaster of Kennedy House at Lawrenceville and loved house football and its traditions and history. House football at the Lawrenceville School started in the 1880s and the Hamill House became our archrival in 1947. It was a fun, competitive intramural tackle football league. Middle linebackers were 145 pounds and were destined for Amherst or Stanford, not for athletics, but for their academic prowess. It was a sport that normal sized boys could play. The night before the Hamill game each year Matthew and associated faculty members supervised a Kennedy pep rally in the house living room. Speeches were made. Oaths recited. Solemn pledges of victory taken. Chants and cheers could be heard several hundred yards across campus. I witnessed a few and spoke at one. I will never forget them. On Thursdays (house football game day) each autumn Matthew encouraged the boys to wear their Kennedy House ties and blazers around campus. Kennedy players wore their football game jerseys to classes. The coaches wore their Kennedy ties as well. I have not coached a house football game since 2004. Each October and November I still find myself looking for my Kennedy tie on my tie rack on Thursday mornings. Matthew Miller's influence for sure. Clearly, I could go on. There are many memories of push up contests, lacrosse glove boxing matches, tag team wrestling matches, and mini rugby matches - all in the Kennedy House living room and either organized or refereed by Matthew Miller. Something fun was going to happen if Matthew was around. He will be missed.

Thomas E. Donley

February 1, 2016

My deepest sympathies to Susan and Matthew's family. When Matt interned for me at the York Chamber and we played tennis, probably 1990, he had such big dreams. He fulfilled those that he shared with me and went on to fulfill so many more. In my mind, he will be forever young, and will live on through all of the people and especially students he touched.

Geoff Sharpless

January 31, 2016

A great man. I am reminded of these lines from Gatsby: He smiled understandingly much more than understandingly. It was one of those rare smiles with a quality of eternal reassurance in it, that you may come across four or five times in life. It faced or seemed to face the whole external world for an instant, and then concentrated on you with an irresistible prejudice in your favor. It understood you just so far as you wanted to be understood, believed in you as you would like to believe in yourself, and assured you that it had precisely the impression of you that, at your best, you hoped to convey. Atque in perpetuum frater ave atque vale.

Natalie Hynoski

January 30, 2016

I was overcome with sadness when I heard of Matthew's passing. Justne, Mia, Sophie and Grayson- he spoke so lovingly and proudly of you all! One of my childhood memories of Matthew is his pledge to learn a new word each day and to use it in conversation. Always a scholar! It warms my heart to know that he not only got to do what he loved in this life, but he that was able to share it with others!

Kerri Kohr Bacha

January 30, 2016

So sorry to hear of Matt's passing! He was part of our tennis circle of friends in high school. We had great times playing tennis and hanging out together! He always talked about becoming a college professor and loved philosophical conversation even back then. Praying for all of his family during this difficult time!

Christina (Lutke) Golden

January 30, 2016

My deepest condolences to the family. Matt had a good soul and a caring smile that he wasn't afraid to share. It seems only yesterday we were waking the halls at Red Lion, enjoying life and being kids. Matt will certainly be missed.

Jack Edwards

January 29, 2016

RIP Matthew.

Kelly Downs

January 29, 2016

My deepest condolences to his family, friends, & colleagues. I went to high school with Matt & his sister. I will always remember his cute personality & smile. Prayers during this tragic time.

Toni Adams Grimm

January 29, 2016

My heart aches for the family. Wonderful man

Toni Adams Grimm

January 29, 2016

So sad, such a great person and friend

Matthew Jessup

January 29, 2016

Matthew Miller was by far the best school head master I had ever laid eyes on.

Angela Frye

January 29, 2016

Deepest sympathy to the family & friends of Dr. Miller and the community of Park Tudor.

Debbie Grim-Hoke

January 29, 2016

My memories take me back as though it were yesterday, we lived a few houses away growing up, we played together and I remember he would always swing with me at Nitchey Field & walk me home. He will forever be my friend & have a special place in my heart for him. My deepest sympathies are shared with his mother Sue, Justine and of course to his family that I did not know. Peace and Healing during this time.

John Skelton

January 29, 2016

Sending our prayers to you from West Cobb, Mia, Grayson and Sophie.

January 29, 2016

Dear Mia, Grayson and Sophie,
On behalf of our family, we wish you the most sincere love and support at this very difficult time. I only heard this morning by chance from a colleague of Matthew's death. Please know your family is in the hearts of so many, and we send you the deepest condolences for your loss. -- Mark Schoeffel

Al and Julie Blanton

January 29, 2016

Our deep and sincerest sympathy. We are all heartbroken and will have Mia, Sophie and Grayson in our thoughts and prayers.

william pillow

January 29, 2016

Mr Miller was a good man, I am so sorry for this tremendous loss.

Brian Gainer

January 29, 2016

Matt and I shared a lot of life lessons, good times and played some "tolerable" tennis together :) during our formative high school years. Anyone that knew him is better off because of it. My heartfelt congratulations to Matt for a life well lived, and my deepest sympathies to those that knew and loved him.

Leticia Feitoza

January 29, 2016

A successful and smart man, a role model for the entire Park Tudor community. Your "good morning", smiles around the campus and dedication in all you did was outstanding and will for sure be missed! I will keep your family in my prayers, rest in peace.

Chad Kennell

January 29, 2016

My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Matthew. May God comfort you in this time of loss. I got to know Matthew in high school in Red Lion and he was a good person. May he rest in peace.

J H

January 29, 2016

Keeping the Miller family in the light. Matthew was a great man.

Park Tudor Student

January 28, 2016

A great man, educator, leader, husband, and father. You touched the hearts and minds of countless individuals. I thank you personally and my prayers are with your family.

Caroline and Jim Seymour

January 28, 2016

Mathew made everyone he knew at school feel and know how much he cared personally. We had so many more special times to share......how very sorry we are for Sophie, Grayson, Mia and his beloved dog, Pepper. Mathew would want you all to carry on with the love and laugher that he so often shared. We will remember him with such great joy and love. We love all. Jim and Caroline Seymour and family

Thomas & Kimberly Page

January 28, 2016

Mia, Sophie & Grayson, we have been struggling to think of something to say to comfort you and ease your pain. We finally realized that there simply are no words. What we can say with confidence is, Matthew was such a wonderful, strong, brave, and inspiring man! We hope that the love of family, friends, and the happy memories of Matthew can sustain you through these impossibly sad times. Matthew touched so many people in his lifetime. Mia, please know we are here to support you and the family through this difficult time. God Bless you and the family!
Love The Pages

Park Tudor Student

January 28, 2016

I am so lucky to have known Dr. Miller. Every time I saw him he brightened my day. He will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Miller, Sophie and Grayson-- you are all such strong people.

J N

January 28, 2016

A life well lived, but gone too soon. Blessings to the Miller family.

January 28, 2016

You have my deepest sympathy. May the God of loyal love comfort the family and friends during this time of sorrow Psalms 119: 76

Sally and Jerry Sussman

January 28, 2016

we will think of you and thank you for all the love and caring you gave to others...Our prayers are with your family

Annie Knapp

January 28, 2016

Words cannot express how very sorry I am....Mia, Sophie and Grayson will always be in my prayers. You have handled this with such grace and courage, and know that everyone loves you, as we loved Matthew! We were all lucky to have known him.

January 28, 2016

Our love and prayers are with Mia and her children and with all of our Park Tudor Family.

Janna, John, Alaina, Ross Urbahns

John McKay

January 27, 2016

I feel blessed that I got to know him over the last couple years, meeting him in Atlanta at a Park Tudor event and then seeing him over the past 2 race weekends. He always had a good word to say and a positive attitude. God Bless you Matthew, you will be greatly missed.

Keith, Missy, Jordan, and Jessica Miller

January 27, 2016

A terrible loss to those who knew Matthew. Prayers with continue for Mia, Sophie, and Grayson

Kristen and Gene Dry

January 27, 2016

So terribly sorry for your tremendous loss. Thinking of Matthew's family and sending prayers.

Penny and Sam Evins

January 27, 2016

Our world was better with Matthew and he will be missed. A treasured colleague and friend, Matthew was a gift to numerous communities and throngs of individuals. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and The Park Tudor community.

Robert Ramirez

January 27, 2016

We are so sorry. Mary and I will remember you all in our prayers.

Barb Skinner

January 27, 2016

I'm so, so, so sorry. He was a good person and a great leader.

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