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Thomas Michael "Tommy" Grimes

1948 - 2024

Thomas Michael "Tommy" Grimes obituary, 1948-2024, Metairie, LA

BORN

1948

DIED

2024

FUNERAL HOME

Garden of Memories Funeral Home & Cemetery - Metairie

4900 Airline Drive

Metairie, Louisiana

Thomas Grimes Obituary

Thomas "Tommy" Michael Grimes died Monday October 14, 2024, in the presence of his devoted family. He was born on December 16, 1948, in New Orleans to the late Carrol and Dorothy Grimes. He grew up in the Gentilly neighborhood of New Orleans with his sister Judy. He attended Capdau Middle School and graduated from John McDonough High School in 1968. He is survived by Nelda, his wife of 54 years and his children Tom Grimes and Dannielle Matassa. He was a proud PawPaw to Dominic, Lila, and Luca Matassa. He was Godfather to Kelly McCloskey McInnis, Ralph Lacanna Jr., and Suzanne Adams. He lived in Kenner for 50 years and was trusted and relied on by his neighbors. As a Catholic, Tommy honored his Christian values by using his skills to serve his family, friends, and neighbors sometimes showing up at a friend's house to help them before and after his long workdays. Tommy took great pride in a job well done. He worked at Mason's French Restaurant, Union Service, and Johnson Control. In 1981 he started Commercial Systems Agency Air Conditioning & Heating which he grew and was able to focus only on in 1996. Tommy was known for his hard, skilled work, but loved his customers most of all. Tommy was a beloved member of his community and a respected businessman, but he was most honored by his family. He is preceded in death by his parents Carrol Branson Grimes Sr and Dorothy Garcia Grimes and his brother Carrol Branson Grimes Jr. He is survived by his loving wife Nelda Smith Grimes; children Thomas "Tom" Grimes, Dannielle Grimes Matassa (Christopher) ; grandchildren Dominic, Lila, and Luca Matassa; sister Judy Grimes McCloskey (Randy) ; sister in law Linda Grimes (Carrol) and several nieces and nephews including Doodie Grimes, Greg Grimes, Shannon Manning, and Kelly McCloskey McInnis. Funeral services will be held on Friday, October 18 at 2pm at the Garden of Memories Funeral Home and Cemetery, 4900 Airline Dr in Metairie La. Visitation from 12-2pm. Interment to follow.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Oct. 15 to Oct. 17, 2024.

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Lisa Williams-Banderet

August 4, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss and that I am just getting to send you condolences. Tommy was such a nice man and honest man. My husband and I had used his business for many years and always enjoyed talking with him. I remember him helping out my elderly neighbor with her A/C and making it so she could afford it. Last time we saw him was in Nov 2023 and didn't know he was sick until a friend told me. Again I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Tommy

Barnes Warehouse Rental

October 18, 2024

Barnes Warehouse Rental would like to send condolences and prayers for Mr Grimes family and friends. He was a wonderful tenant and friend and will be truly missed.

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Ralph LaCanna Jr

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P. Pansano

October 17, 2024

My sincerest condolences to the Grimes family. I was a customer of Tommy for several years. There were times when he would finish his work and we would sit at the dining table and reminisce about the "good old days" in Orleans and Jefferson Parish. He was such a kind man with great integrity. He will be missed.

Marilynn Hawkins

October 17, 2024

Tommy was very dear to me and my husband. Married to my cousin Nelda, he stood as a best man in my wedding. He also, taught me how to drive around city park. He also did all of my air conditioning and heating work in my house. Just this past June he worked very hard in my hot attic installing a new coil. Tommy will be sorely missed.

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Tommy Royer (Johnstone Supply)

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Dana Tisdale

October 16, 2024

My uncle Tommy was such an example of a good person and a great Husband. He taught me how to drive. He will be missed. Rest in peace.

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The Joyces - Josh, D, MB, Jon

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CS

October 16, 2024

Sincerest condolences for your loss. May precious memories of your dear loved one, along with encouraging words such as those found at John 11: 25,26 be of comfort to your family.

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12:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Garden of Memories Funeral Home & Cemetery - Metairie

4900 Airline Drive, Metairie, LA 70001

Oct

18

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2:00 p.m.

Garden of Memories Funeral Home & Cemetery - Metairie

4900 Airline Drive, Metairie, LA 70001

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